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Trifle is NOT trifle unless it has jelly, I don't care if its "common" or not.

177 replies

SKIPWAY · 19/12/2022 22:09

Watching Marry Berry, she's made trifle with juice, sherry, custard and cream, no jelly. The cake soaked in jelly is literally the best bit!!!
Normally I like to be a bit fancy in the kitchen for special occasions but this is a hill I'm prepared to die on.
What other things are a must have for you but are considered a bit "common"

OP posts:
Shodan · 20/12/2022 11:41

@berrycakeandcustard The Eating Experience was about as bad as you'd expect. Imagine putting a spoonful of crunchy peanut butter in your mouth with no liquid to wash it down- I think that's the closest approximation that I can think of.

On a separate note- all this jelly talk has reminded me of a pudding my Mother used to make. Jelly, chopped up altogether with evaporated milk. I think it was her version of junket (which was, quite rightly, refused by all the one time she tried the proper stuff)

Dulcetto · 20/12/2022 12:32

@Shodan

It was an abomination. XFIL had beaten that poor mixture until it died.

😂 😂 😂

startingline · 20/12/2022 12:36

There must be jelly. And alcohol.

Flowersintheattic57 · 20/12/2022 12:59

StrawberryPot · 19/12/2022 22:42

My trifle won't have any jelly in it this year as I've been unable to source a vegetarian brand.

Agar agar is the way to go, juice concentrate not fully diluted tastes better that regular or fresh juice, with the flakes dissolved into it. It sets really quickly too.

StrawberryPot · 20/12/2022 13:28

@Flowersintheattic57 - I've never used agar agar. Can you get it in supermarkets?

@queenofthebongo - tried Holland and Barrett a few weeks ago and they didn't have any. Just popped in this morning and they still don't. Shame as it's really nice jelly - I used a strawberry one last year.

berrycakeandcustard · 20/12/2022 14:12

@Shodan
😂😂😂
Oh no!! Poor you, I was hoping for your sake that it at least tasted ok!

ApiratesaysYarrr · 20/12/2022 19:19

I feel sponge is the most pointless part of the trifle - but custard and cream are essential parts and need to be deep layers.

VestaTilley · 20/12/2022 19:19

YANBU. It MUST contain jelly.

Eleganz · 20/12/2022 19:28

Why is jelly "common"? What do all these frightfully middle clarss people think the rich and wealthy put in those big copper moulds in the big houses they drag their kids and grandkids round of a Saturday? Soup?

That said, trifle doesn't have to contain jelly, it can contain fresh fruit. Jelly was used in the first trifles to make them extra special, so it is actually posher than non jelly trifle.

justcantgetenough · 20/12/2022 19:43

My mum used to make Trifle with Jelly and Blancmange and I thought that was how you made trifle, not with custard it just doesn't taste nice.

I wasn't going to make one this year as it's just me and DP now and only me likes it. But it's Xmas and trifle was the highlight off the year But can't find any blancmange and had to bulk buy from Amazon! Good job I love the stuff and will be eating trifle all week.

justcantgetenough · 20/12/2022 19:46

CMOTDibbler · 20/12/2022 10:05

For the blancmange doubters, it gives you a very set custard layer, rather than the runnyness you would get with custard

Agree that's why I don't like custard in mine, Blancmange is so much nicer and solid.

CactusFlowers · 20/12/2022 19:47

I much prefer trifle with jelly. I care not a jot if it is common.

I also dislike sherry trifle. I like proper kiddie trifle.

Cherryblossoms85 · 20/12/2022 19:50

Well it is sometimes tricky if you put quite a bit of booze in to get the jelly to set well. It's been years since I've made trifle though.

Thelnebriati · 20/12/2022 20:00

@StrawberryPot You can make jelly with arrowroot, it should be in the supermarket baking aisle.
www.vegetariantimes.com/recipes/arrowroot-jelly-trifle-recipe/

MangyInseam · 20/12/2022 20:02

My Nana, who was nowhere near w/c, always made her trifle with jelly. Maybe she was slumming, I suppose.

I would say that After Eights are something the w/c half of my family did, and that seems to fit my general observation. I like them, though I recognize they are probably not the best chocolate.

I live on the East oast of Canada, and one of the things that always feels like it's from my w/c family for me, though today it is not, is a big lobster feed. My great-grandfather used to bring home several garbage bags full, and the whole family would eat them all boiled with melted butter. They were a garbage fish and cheap at the whar,. Now we eat them the same way, but we sure can't afford trash bags full!

MangyInseam · 20/12/2022 20:03

Cherryblossoms85 · 20/12/2022 19:50

Well it is sometimes tricky if you put quite a bit of booze in to get the jelly to set well. It's been years since I've made trifle though.

Put the jelly on the bottom and set it first. Sounds crazy but is the same once you scoop it up.

BCBird · 20/12/2022 20:04

I don't like it🙈

Clingfilm · 20/12/2022 20:07

I thought the same when I was watching it. Those sponges looked dry to me.

Rayna37 · 20/12/2022 20:11

Laughing at the idea that sherry and jelly are incompatible: even the most heavy handed of the matriarchs across the family had no issue here. Both essential, as is sponge. Cheap Swiss roll or basic home made sponge not those awful fingers please. Other rules: custard MUST be set not sloppy. No hundreds and thousands.

One grandmother, locally famous for her off-piste trifles, often used angel delight in place of custard for the non-standard ones.

I'm on the fence about whether to use jelly on my Black Forest trifle this year; usually leave it out. There will be a standard strawberry sherry trifle too, obvs.

SleepingStandingUp · 20/12/2022 20:14

Isn't jelly-free trifle just custard and cream?

LadyHooHa · 20/12/2022 20:56

Trifle has jelly. And that's that.

<gavel>

HitMeWithAHotNoteAndWatchMeBounce · 20/12/2022 21:05

SleepingStandingUp · 20/12/2022 20:14

Isn't jelly-free trifle just custard and cream?

Sponge cake?

Fruit?

Fruit juice?

Sherry?

A trifle made just from jelly, custard and cream sounds likes something you’d give a 5YO, or someone who’d had their tonsils out.

StrawberryPot · 20/12/2022 21:07

Well it is sometimes tricky if you put quite a bit of booze in to get the jelly to set well. It's been years since I've made trifle though

I once put fruit cocktail in my trifle instead of my usual mandarin oranges not knowing that the pineapple would stop the jelly from setting. That was a sad day!!

StrawberryPot · 20/12/2022 21:18

My trifle recipe, which I've been making since I was a child (and I'm veeery old now) is -

Arrange slices of shop bought jam swiss roll in bottom of bowl
Soak in sherry
Add layer of tinned fruit (mandarins, pears)
Add jelly and leave to set
Add layer of thick custard (made from powder) and leave to set
Cover with whipped cream
Sprinkle with lots of crumbled flake chocolate

The best bit is the sweet sherry syrup that collects in the bottom of the bowl 😋

NewToWoo · 20/12/2022 21:35

StrawberryPot · 20/12/2022 21:18

My trifle recipe, which I've been making since I was a child (and I'm veeery old now) is -

Arrange slices of shop bought jam swiss roll in bottom of bowl
Soak in sherry
Add layer of tinned fruit (mandarins, pears)
Add jelly and leave to set
Add layer of thick custard (made from powder) and leave to set
Cover with whipped cream
Sprinkle with lots of crumbled flake chocolate

The best bit is the sweet sherry syrup that collects in the bottom of the bowl 😋

That is a proper trifle