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I know IABU, blatantly using this for traffic. Emergency situation, no ambulance still, and need advice

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TheChinkOfaGlass · 19/12/2022 16:35

Hi everyone

My Auntie had a fall this morning and has seriously hurt her hip. Luckily she was close enough to the bed to get herself up on it.

999 said it is not an emergency and to contact 111, she was in severe agony and is 78 years old. I rang 111 who after assessing her, decided she did indeed need an ambulance.

I had originally offered to take her to the hospital but she lives on the top floor of a maisonette, and is unable to sit up (so a car journey would be no good and I would be unable to carry her to the car anyway. I did get help but she declined due to the inability to even sit up).

Her husband is disabled so isn't much use (I mean this in the nicest possible way, he is trying his best) other than keeping an eye on her.

So we could be waiting hours for an ambulance but in the meantime she is soaked through on the bed due to urinating on herself. I am going there in the next 30 minutes.

Is it safe to roll her to change the sheets to make her more comfortable? I don't like the idea of her lying in a soaking bed while she waits. I am also scared of causing more pain/damage by moving her. We do not know what's wrong, she thinks it may he her hip. I just don't know what to do. I have never experienced this kind of thing.

Her partner has managed to change her underwear but when the bed is so wet, it wouldn't really make a difference.

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Beach11 · 21/12/2022 22:19

Enjoy your sleep op. X

Grinchatchristmas2022 · 21/12/2022 22:31

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antelopevalley · 21/12/2022 22:36

Glad to hear she has nothing broken. I did suspect this would be the case when you said her husband had managed to change her wet pants.
Hope your mums diabetes gets stabilised, that is worryingly high levels.

Thunderpunt · 21/12/2022 22:38

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She wasn't on the floor RTFT

GrandTheftWalrus · 21/12/2022 22:38

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Don't know if you are being sarcastic or not.

Grinchatchristmas2022 · 21/12/2022 22:48

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They had no idea whether anything was broken or not. Could have been her spine or her pelvis. Being moved in the wrong was could have potentially paralysed her if something was broken or injured.

Allsnotwell · 21/12/2022 22:52

Wow! How awful for you OP that’s one week you won’t forget.
get some sleep.

Salome61 · 21/12/2022 23:08

Best wishes to your aunt and Mum OP, I hope they are both home for Christmas.

ThreeLocusts · 21/12/2022 23:17

You're a trooper (as my American midwife used to say). Sleep well!

bellabasset · 21/12/2022 23:32

Glad your aunt hasn't broken anything, hope your mum gets better soon.

UrsulaPandress · 21/12/2022 23:48

That’s great news that nothing is broken.

Wishing a speedy recovery all round.

justasking111 · 22/12/2022 00:08

Wow the hits just keep coming. This is a Christmas you won't forget. Get some sleep now

mathanxiety · 22/12/2022 05:04

Oh no!

Make sure you get enough sleep, and some good food inside you.

justasking111 · 27/12/2022 23:11

How are things now @@TheChinkOfaGlass

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