What would you think?

[anyonefortea21]

My wonderful DH invited me to meet his colleagues yesterday at a drinks and bowling night. Everyone was lovely and welcoming. One of his female colleagues cheerily greeted me hello, v friendly, when l looked back again she was still looking at me in the eyes (smiling, nothing antagonistic!), it just felt like a few seconds longer than usual social norms would dictate. That is all.

How would you interpret this?

I wouldn't.

Wasn't this a scene from Bridget Jones?

What?

I wouldn't. How did you interrupt it?

I agree with everyone else.

Yes!

😂

She clearly fancies you. Would you divorce your husband for her?
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I wouldn't interpret it as anything, just in case the sarcasm is lost lol

Eh?

She’s madly in love with you ?

Are you suggesting she has a connection with your DH? This is what your post implies. From this alone that wouldn’t be my conclusion… unless you are already worried about your DH

Dunno.. curious? Judgy?

I wouldn't think anything of it.

Its nothing. Nothing happened.

A person greeted you and looked at you longer than you would have looked at someone else.

That's literally it.

Or are you wanting something else to be behind it?
Literally nothing happened.

I don’t think I would register it?

Lol seriously?

ok give, what’s the deal. Have you massive jealousy and insecurity issues, or Is he a cheat, what’s going on. Cos this is weird as fuck

She's definitely jealously scrutinising you and covering it with fake friendliness.

That's what you want to read, I imagine.

Someone looked at you?

Report it immediately - it might be part of a bigger picture/final piece in the jigsaw.

Almost definitely "county lines".

Did you have spinach between your teeth? Easily done, I know…

It doesn't mean anything.

A woman looked at you?

Sorry - I know it sounds weird :-( For context, DH is amazing and loyal and wonderful, nothing is going on with this woman or anyone else (she's never approached him in that way and is always professional), I have been struggling with insecurity and jealousy triggered from a previous trauma (DH not involved) and I guess I'm freaking out that she has a thing for DH so is checking me out (checking out "what his wife looks like", comparing, overly interested in me etc etc). Wanted to post here to check that this really is all down to me and the overly long look doesn't suggest anything. It's hard right now and I'm obsessing.

I wouldn't think anything of it OP x

There are loads of reasons she could have been looking at you. Maybe you're interpreting it like this because of your anxiety and you went in looking for threat?

If you trust your husband it doesn't matter what her reasons are