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Would you go out this soon after COVID?

145 replies

MissAtomicBomb1 · 24/11/2022 17:33

Just want opinions really.
Started with COVID symptoms last Saturday. Tested positive on weds.
Have had to isolate from work due to the job I do though explained I was happy to go in as I now feel fine.
Due to go out with friends tomorrow night. Would you want to go out with someone who'd just had covid? Will it look bad if I'm seen by someone at work?

OP posts:
HoofWankingSpangleCunt · 24/11/2022 19:49

And it’s people like certain posters who are actively making outside excursions a bit of a Russian roulette situation.

I am clinically vulnerable and also a lone parent of a teen with ASD. I get that my rights in no way exceed any one else’s but fuck me, my faith in humanity takes a proper knocking some times.

and @MissAtomicBomb1 , your title suggests you have had Covid. As far as you’re aware you still are testing positive. So really your question should read

“would you go On a night out with Covid?”

Hereweare12111 · 24/11/2022 19:51

@HoofWankingSpangleCunt

The tests don’t always turn negative they can be positive for weeks ? There’s nothing you can do you’ll just have to practice good hygiene and wear your mask if it makes you feel more protected.

HoofWankingSpangleCunt · 24/11/2022 19:54

Hereweare12111 · 24/11/2022 19:48

I have covid , I had it really badly actually last Friday it started , I had a fever of 39 vomiting body aches diarrhoea, I could not move I slept for two days only waking to puke. Tested positive on Sunday. Think I’m getting back to normal now just very tired with abit of a cough and snot. My test is still positive and I’ve been out today - I’ve been to the pharmacy out for food and seen family. The thing is majority of people don’t test now so loads of people have it and just don’t know which is how it’s meant to be. I only tested because of my job. I don’t think you can wait for a negative test to go out because sometimes they are positive for weeks which is why I went by how I feel and I think I’m over the worst I can’t see myself being highly infectious.

As I was reading this (after I’d posted) I was thinking gosh, poor woman, she sounds awful, she’ll be warning the Op that it’s a nasty illness for some.

But no.
I don’t understand how you can go from actually physically seeing a positive test result to “not seeing yourself as that contagious “ .

The cognitive dissonance is scary .

Conkersareback · 24/11/2022 19:54

@AllThatFancyPaintsAsFair costs no issue, but I'm not paying, if it's that important then they'll be supplied free.

I'll give food into the food bank on the way out.

Conkersareback · 24/11/2022 19:55

Glitterandunicorns · 24/11/2022 19:47

Please don't go out, OP. There are no longer any rules, but it's just basic common decency to not go out and risk passing on a potentially deadly disease to someone who may be clinically vulnerable. Or even passing on Covid which may result in someone having Long Covid and ruining their quality of life forever.
I know there will be people on here who will roll their eyes and say "it's just a cold" and other bollocks like that, but if you have a clinically vulnerable relative or child, you would think differently.

Common decency to stay indoors with any illness?

HoofWankingSpangleCunt · 24/11/2022 19:58

Hereweare12111 · 24/11/2022 19:51

@HoofWankingSpangleCunt

The tests don’t always turn negative they can be positive for weeks ? There’s nothing you can do you’ll just have to practice good hygiene and wear your mask if it makes you feel more protected.

Whilst that is true about results staying positive for a while, I don’t believe that is the situation here.

And I do wear a mask but it’s not wholly to protect me. In fact, theyre designed to protect others and was compulsory travel accessory in Germany this summer. It was a total pain in the arsch sometimes but I got used to it quickly. That sounds really twatty I know but to me it’s just common sense. If we all wore masks on public transport for example then we could definitely protect more people.

Hereweare12111 · 24/11/2022 19:59

@HoofWankingSpangleCunt

I don’t think I’m highly infectious because I’m over the awful symptoms. I can’t stop my life and not go out my test could be positive for weeks.

HoofWankingSpangleCunt · 24/11/2022 20:01

Conkersareback · 24/11/2022 19:54

@AllThatFancyPaintsAsFair costs no issue, but I'm not paying, if it's that important then they'll be supplied free.

I'll give food into the food bank on the way out.

What’s food banks got to do with it?

And if you’re not buying them because you believe they should be free would you accept and use tests if they were donated to you? Sort of like a reverse food bank with covid tests instead.

not trying to be goady, genuinely interested in your thought processes here.

HoofWankingSpangleCunt · 24/11/2022 20:05

Hereweare12111 · 24/11/2022 19:59

@HoofWankingSpangleCunt

I don’t think I’m highly infectious because I’m over the awful symptoms. I can’t stop my life and not go out my test could be positive for weeks.

I do get that, but you’re talking about how you could be positive for weeks. When all you need to consider is about being positive now.

I understand when people have no choice but to go
out but others who do have a Choice ? Why would you spread germs of any description if you didn’t have to?

Conkersareback · 24/11/2022 20:05

@HoofWankingSpangleCunt I don't test

Conkersareback · 24/11/2022 20:07

@HoofWankingSpangleCunt I don't text, I'm not spending money on tests that are shit, as OP has demonstrated as they're not positive early on. I'll spend my free cash on something worthwhile.

smilingthroughgrittedteeth · 24/11/2022 20:19

I wouldnt want to socialise with you purely because DP has lung damage from covid so I'd rather wait to see you, even if you had tested negative today. Im the same with people who have colds or the flu because he could get very unwell. We can't control the general public so yes its always a risk going out but i can take precautions in staying away from someone i know is or has recently been ill.

KatherineJaneway · 24/11/2022 20:21

It took me 10 days to test negative after my first positive test. I wouldn't go socialising until I'd tested negative.

PuppyMonkey · 24/11/2022 20:49

Can anybody tell us if @Conkersareback tests or not, I don’t think s/he’s mentioned it. Grin

Cornettoninja · 24/11/2022 20:55

PuppyMonkey · 24/11/2022 20:49

Can anybody tell us if @Conkersareback tests or not, I don’t think s/he’s mentioned it. Grin

see I thought I knew her stance in the first billion posts but the second make me question myself. Maybe she’ll clarify?

sleepwouldbenice · 24/11/2022 20:55

Greendoorsaremyfavourite · 24/11/2022 18:29

Exactly this. I can understand people who have no choice but to work or they won't get paid, but to risk passing it onto others so you can have a night out is bloody selfish.

This. It's one night

ThePumpking · 24/11/2022 21:07

I tested positive for 16 days. Still didn't go out incase I spread it. And certainly didn't go on a night out that was not exactly essential. So no I wouldn't be going in your shoes (especially as you'll be off work)

Dadof5gremlins · 24/11/2022 21:07

Yup. Go out, I went everywhere. Shopping swimming car garage the lot because we don't have to stay in. This was a few days after boris said no more rules

sleepwouldbenice · 24/11/2022 21:07

PuppyMonkey · 24/11/2022 20:49

Can anybody tell us if @Conkersareback tests or not, I don’t think s/he’s mentioned it. Grin

Indeed
Won't test as have to pay for them
Wont test as people have to heat their homes (likely people struggling won't be going on night out)
Won't test as they are useless (despite posters saying they identified covid)
Wont test as will give to food bank instead ( as opposed to making others ill do they can't work etc)
Wont test as compares it to flu (yawn)
All a bit of a giveaway really

neighboursmustliveon · 24/11/2022 21:08

I work in education and we ask staff (and pay) to isolate for 5 days after testing positive. Personally I would feel a bit off being out with someone who had just tested positive but legally you are allowed to.

If you test negative before you go then you should be fine. If not, and it's just a normal night out, I would probably stay home.

Conkersareback · 24/11/2022 21:10

@sleepwouldbenice won't test because it's pointless!

Conkersareback · 24/11/2022 21:12

neighboursmustliveon · 24/11/2022 21:08

I work in education and we ask staff (and pay) to isolate for 5 days after testing positive. Personally I would feel a bit off being out with someone who had just tested positive but legally you are allowed to.

If you test negative before you go then you should be fine. If not, and it's just a normal night out, I would probably stay home.

You should be fine?

Is that fine or not fine?

Overthebow · 24/11/2022 21:16

I’d go out, but then I wouldn’t have tested. I go by how I feel now, same for every illness, so if I’m too ill to go out I stay in but otherwise I carry on with my life. I would assume that people very vulnerable to covid wouldn’t be on a night out where covid will be everywhere.

Conkersareback · 24/11/2022 21:24

Overthebow · 24/11/2022 21:16

I’d go out, but then I wouldn’t have tested. I go by how I feel now, same for every illness, so if I’m too ill to go out I stay in but otherwise I carry on with my life. I would assume that people very vulnerable to covid wouldn’t be on a night out where covid will be everywhere.

Agreed

Knitterandstitcher · 24/11/2022 21:28

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