Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Would you go out this soon after COVID?

145 replies

MissAtomicBomb1 · 24/11/2022 17:33

Just want opinions really.
Started with COVID symptoms last Saturday. Tested positive on weds.
Have had to isolate from work due to the job I do though explained I was happy to go in as I now feel fine.
Due to go out with friends tomorrow night. Would you want to go out with someone who'd just had covid? Will it look bad if I'm seen by someone at work?

OP posts:
Conkersareback · 24/11/2022 18:50

takealettermsjones · 24/11/2022 18:33

People who can't get tests - you can buy them from pharmacies. £6 for 6 at Asda.

I have it at the moment and it's been horrendous, and yes I'm vaccinated and boosted etc. Please don't knowingly spread it.

I'm not paying for tests, but thanks for the info.

People can't hear their homes...

Conkersareback · 24/11/2022 18:50

*heat

takealettermsjones · 24/11/2022 19:02

Conkersareback · 24/11/2022 18:50

I'm not paying for tests, but thanks for the info.

People can't hear their homes...

Okay. I clearly didn't suggest people buy tests if it's a choice between that and paying the electric bill. But for those who are planning nights out, £6 is a glass of wine.

LIZS · 24/11/2022 19:09

Wouldn't within first five days Sun-Thurs) and then only with care for vulnerable or elderly.n

RoseAndRose · 24/11/2022 19:16

You need to consult your friends.

I would not want to be in close indoors contact with someone withing 48 hours of a positive test.

It's one thing to find you've caught it from somewhere or other. It's quite another to go knowingly into proximity.

In your shoes I'd send apologies

Conkersareback · 24/11/2022 19:27

@takealettermsjones as I say, I don't t test.

But thanks.

I won't pay for tests, if it's that important they'll be supplied.

WhatALotOfAFussAboutNothing · 24/11/2022 19:27

TiredButAlive · 24/11/2022 18:21

This virus is still killing clinically vulnerable people. Some people cannot have the vaccine. Unlike many diseases we have a test that tells us if we have the virus in our system still. Test. If you are positive, ask yourself if your right to a night out is more important than the people you could make very unwell.

Yes, this. I can’t believe there are so many selfish people who don’t realise it’s still killing vulnerable people or do realise and just don’t care because they think it’s just a cold!

Conkersareback · 24/11/2022 19:28

@WhatALotOfAFussAboutNothing is flu not dangerous?

Do we test for that?

takealettermsjones · 24/11/2022 19:32

Conkersareback · 24/11/2022 19:27

@takealettermsjones as I say, I don't t test.

But thanks.

I won't pay for tests, if it's that important they'll be supplied.

Again, okay?? I'm not sure why you keep coming back at me. I didn't insist you, personally, start testing, did I?

BotterMon · 24/11/2022 19:32

No but then I work in healthcare and have just lost my father to Covid (that he caught in hospital).

Don't go out and mingle until you have tested negative. A faint line is still a positive.

HotDogJumpingFrogHaveACookie · 24/11/2022 19:32

I don't understand why covid in particular is such a big deal.

I wouldn't meet with friends and family if I had ANY contagious illness, irrespective of how well I felt.

dolor · 24/11/2022 19:32

Nope.

Conkersareback · 24/11/2022 19:34

@takealettermsjones I'm thanking you for your info? But please don't try and educate me, I don't test!

So don't tag me and tell me Asda sell them! I'm not interested, I don't test!

Hopefully you'll stop coming back and tagging me and telling me it's the cost of a glass of wine, I don't test, I'm not interested!!

Zanatdy · 24/11/2022 19:36

I’d certainly advise the friends. I don’t think I’d want to socialise this close to you testing positive. My friend is still recovering from a very bad dose of it

Suzi888 · 24/11/2022 19:36

Legally you can go out with covid.

vdbfamily · 24/11/2022 19:37

I would happily go out with you. You would have been more infectious before your symptoms started and very unlikely to still be infectious now.

takealettermsjones · 24/11/2022 19:38

Conkersareback · 24/11/2022 19:34

@takealettermsjones I'm thanking you for your info? But please don't try and educate me, I don't test!

So don't tag me and tell me Asda sell them! I'm not interested, I don't test!

Hopefully you'll stop coming back and tagging me and telling me it's the cost of a glass of wine, I don't test, I'm not interested!!

I didn't tag you initially! I literally was not talking to you, until you tagged me. 😆

Mañanarama · 24/11/2022 19:39

I’d be completely honest with the people I was going out with. Even if I felt well, I’d feel guilty if I passed it on and they got a nasty dose of it, or if they then passed it onto an elderly relative.

Tomorrow I might risk seeing someone in your situation as you’re probably no longer contagious, next week I wouldn’t as I’m due to visit my 99 year old great aunt the week after that.

RoseAndRose · 24/11/2022 19:40

Suzi888 · 24/11/2022 19:36

Legally you can go out with covid.

Legally, you could shag the partners of all your friends.

But morally, would you?

As you're testing OP, you need to stay away from other people (unless it's essential) until you have had 2x fully negative tests at least 24 hours apart.

So tomorrow night is no go.

shouldigoout · 24/11/2022 19:42

you might test negative by Saturday morning.
if not ask your friends
I wouldn't want to go out with you though (vulnerable adults in my life)

Conkersareback · 24/11/2022 19:42

vdbfamily · 24/11/2022 19:37

I would happily go out with you. You would have been more infectious before your symptoms started and very unlikely to still be infectious now.

Exactly! The tests if you have them are shit, they test negative in the early more infectious days, then test positive.

Useless!

Glitterandunicorns · 24/11/2022 19:47

Please don't go out, OP. There are no longer any rules, but it's just basic common decency to not go out and risk passing on a potentially deadly disease to someone who may be clinically vulnerable. Or even passing on Covid which may result in someone having Long Covid and ruining their quality of life forever.
I know there will be people on here who will roll their eyes and say "it's just a cold" and other bollocks like that, but if you have a clinically vulnerable relative or child, you would think differently.

AllThatFancyPaintsAsFair · 24/11/2022 19:48

Conkersareback · 24/11/2022 18:24

I have no tests, a friend of mine grabbed a box here, grabbed a box there as did her mother. Therefore others got none, I therefore don't test.

Same people that probably are still have toilet rolls from the initial panic buying.

Where do you live? All the supermarkets near me sell tests, as long as cost isn't an issue you can test whenever you like unless your friend has cleared out the shops too.

Itsallyellow22 · 24/11/2022 19:48

I would treat it the same as any other illness now...if I feel ill I stay home, if not I carry on as normal. I'm not testing anymore though unless in limited circumstances (eg when i had hospital appointments as they asked me to) so I wouldn't necessarily know.

Hereweare12111 · 24/11/2022 19:48

I have covid , I had it really badly actually last Friday it started , I had a fever of 39 vomiting body aches diarrhoea, I could not move I slept for two days only waking to puke. Tested positive on Sunday. Think I’m getting back to normal now just very tired with abit of a cough and snot. My test is still positive and I’ve been out today - I’ve been to the pharmacy out for food and seen family. The thing is majority of people don’t test now so loads of people have it and just don’t know which is how it’s meant to be. I only tested because of my job. I don’t think you can wait for a negative test to go out because sometimes they are positive for weeks which is why I went by how I feel and I think I’m over the worst I can’t see myself being highly infectious.