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Spent 2.5 hours cooking and not even a thank you

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Kevintheminion · 20/11/2022 19:38

AIBU to spend 2.5 hours cooking Sunday dinner and expect a thank you? Both my DC say thank you for dinner and help clear up. Barely a grunt from DH, let alone a thank you. You'd at least be polite after someone had gone to the trouble to cook for you wouldn't you?

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mrsjg · 21/11/2022 13:38

Dh cooks, I might comment that I've enjoyed the meal, but thanking him; no! But on the other hand he never thanks me for ironing his clothes, cleaning the bathrooms, having a clean bed to get into, coming home to a clean and tidy house etc.

If it's bothered you that much say something.

Doowop1919 · 21/11/2022 13:51

Yanbu. Dh thanks me when I heat up a tin of soup, requiring minimal effort

Liorae · 21/11/2022 13:52

Labnehi · 21/11/2022 10:26

That's a shame for you and those you may be cooking for. Good meals are worth time.

It seems that my time is worth more than your time😂

Kevintheminion · 21/11/2022 14:02

BosaNova · 21/11/2022 10:33

From ethnic offense to soon to be best roast competition, this thread has it all😂

Who knew my thread could get quite so controversial!

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theemmadilemma · 21/11/2022 14:04

Rude.

We always say thank you to who ever cooked.

AutumnCrow · 21/11/2022 14:17

Yes it's very rude. As rude as a rude thing.

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