I think this thread needs to go in Classics, so it’s really easy to find the next time someone asks who keeps voting in the Tories. The lack of understanding and empathy from some of you is bloody terrifying.
Some of us have been poor before. Bones of our arses poor. But unless you’ve grown up the same way as this poor little sod, you have no idea how tough it has been for him. He’s grown up in the care system, so no support from a loving mum and/or dad, no watching and learning how to budget or where to make cuts, or how to get through life. And how many kids get through the care system completely unscathed, do you think? Never being able to put down roots? Not knowing if the friends you have this year will still be in your life next year?
So he hasn’t done what a lot of kids would do. He hasn’t got in with the wrong crowd or decided to make his money the easier way. He’s doing his best to stand on his own two feet and do things the right way. He’s in supported accommodation, which would cost him more a month than lots of you are paying in mortgages for your big fancy houses with gardens. And these aren’t luxury properties. He’s not living in a naice area, with naice neighbours ferrying their children to school in their Audi’s each morning. He’s living somewhere that will evict him promptly if the rent isn’t paid. The fact that he’s there in the first place is a good indication that he doesn’t have the skills or the ability to either work full time or cope with independent living. And some of you are wondering why he doesn’t fancy trusting the system not to fuck up his rent payment if he does a few extra hours one week?
Yes, we’ve all had to make cut backs. But if I get rid of my Netflix, I’ve got a DH to keep me company. I’ve got books. I’ve got friends and family. Go and look at your DC. Imagine them all alone in a room, in a building full of vulnerable people. They’ve got no support from family. Would you be happy telling them they can’t have one of the few things that give them any pleasure in life? Or would you be shouting that they couldn’t be expected to stare at their four walls each night without it tipping them over the edge. Why is it ok for this lad, but not your own DC?