DH runs a joinery business and we live in a small town, not in the UK. We have a small holding with animals and a pretty nice life.
Earlier this year I became pregnant for the first time. It was quite unexpected but we’re both happy about it. I’m currently 8 months gone and due around Christmas.
Last week DH announced that we would be spending Christmas in his home town rather than here. It’s not to see his family, apparently it’s for some administrative reason that means the baby has to be registered there. I’m really unhappy about having to travel but accept that this is necessary.
Whats made me really annoyed is DH’s laid back attitude to planning for this. I asked him how we were getting there (we don’t have a car) and he just shrugged. When I pushed it he pointed to the donkey we have on the smallholding and laughed, which I hope was a joke. When I asked him about whether he’d booked a hotel, especially given the time of year, I got a similar response - he said we’d just try our luck when we arrived.
AIBU to say this is not really acceptable given the circumstances? I’m tempted
to just make the arrangements myself.