excuse my rambling, sleep deprived response, hopefully it makes some sense.
When I wrote
I’m becoming convinced that schools in these areas thinks that most mums are SAHMs by choice and have enough money in the bank to not be bothered by any of it.
I was actually thinking about the amount of times I’m asked to go in to school most weeks, during working and schools hours to attend xyz, I then adapt my hours and agree only to be given a few hours notice that x has changed and will now be at 10am instead of 9am and will last an hour rather than 20 mins. That reduces my work day by 50%, I can’t afford to be doing that every time I send a slip back agreeing to attend. In fact if was that disorganised at work I wouldn’t have a job.
I have mentioned that there are no breakfast or after school clubs available, I don’t expect school to provide additional childcare, however, I would certainly utilise clubs if they were available, even if it were put on by an outside provider and chargeable. Mainly because I have no childcare options available to me, childcare spaces are all full already and no family nearby, but also because of the opportunities it gives kids to do a new sport, hobby, language, whatever.
Many schools do offer these options and it’s certainly not a new thing, was happening when I was at school 30 something years ago. It just seems that in some locations schools seem to think that all mums are SAHM’s and can drop everything at any time. I’m happy to change my working pattern to attend but giving me a few hours notice of changes once I’ve already committed isn’t helpful or acceptable. If I were messing them around like that they’d have something to say to me.
Obviously, my main point is that the lack of available childcare options, breakfast and after school clubs make it difficult for women to work. Many jobs want people full time for set hours and compromises often come at a significant financial cost for families. So while of course it isn’t the schools responsibility to provide additional childcare, there’s nothing parents can do either, short of becoming childminders themselves.
If I could magic up infinite childcare, flexible hours and fair wages for all I would, but that’s not going to happen.