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Are we morally obliged to work ?

611 replies

Justthisonce12 · 17/11/2022 11:55

630,000 economically inactive people in the UK not claiming benefits. Early retiree’s I guess.

Hunt plans to tackle this and encourage work force participation to allow businesses to grow. ie cheap labour I presume ? But also preventing a brain drain.

Will be interesting to see how he plans to address this.

OP posts:
fetchacloth · 19/11/2022 15:53

TimBoothseyes · 19/11/2022 14:22

My sister has not worked (or claimed any benefits), since November 2020. She now wants to get back into work but, despite applying for jobs that she has 30 years of experience for and some she has no experience of but has transferable skills, she has yet to receive a single interview. At the age of 58 she has now resigned herself to the fact that she may never work again. It's all well and good saying "early retirees" should think about returning to the workforce, but if employers aren't even going to consider them then what's the point. If "older" people should be "morally obliged" to work then employers should be "morally obliged" to employ them.

I agree it's appalling how people in their 50s and 60s are treated in the workplace and it must change if this country is to get back on it's feet post covid.

With the retirement age increasing employers' attitudes must change

It's also clear that going forward, this country has to have more people in the workforce and paying tax and national insurance so something has to give.

NCFT0922 · 19/11/2022 15:53

@mnhqceo all of this 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

TimBoothseyes · 19/11/2022 16:02

xJ0y · 19/11/2022 15:47

@TimBoothseyes tell your sister to sign o for credits

She's not eligible for any benefits and will receive a full state pension when she reaches retirement age so not sure what credits you mean.

Topgub · 19/11/2022 16:06

@SirMingeALot

Yes the op is about paid work but someone asked me why I equate not working with not doing much.

I equate it with not doing much because its not

Topgub · 19/11/2022 16:09

@mnhqceo

Id much rather my dd made her own millions personally. If she had to

Im not a fan of millionaires or sexism really

WTAFhappened123 · 19/11/2022 16:09

Nope not pensioners but working age men and women making career out of claiming benefits - needs overhaul but our government are more interested in spending money rather than saving it!

mnhqceo · 19/11/2022 16:50

Topgub - my point was that there's no point having a rigid mindset about these things. It's a waste of energy. It doesn't really matter what you or anyone else would "rather" have. Just as you exist in your own sphere will are making the best of it, other people navigate their very different lives in their own ways.

Kidsfortea · 19/11/2022 16:50

MidnightMeltdown · 17/11/2022 12:36

I think the only issue is that some people retiring early will have underestimated the cost, won't have a big enough pension, and may find themselves destitute in old age.

Even if you own your own home, repairs and upkeep are expensive, and you also need to estimate the cost of inflation over the years.

I have been told by people that they don't need to worry about old age as the government will always look after them. They mean it as well.
A member of my family is withdrawing their pension to spend now.
I tried to say that it is my tax money that they will be relying on but no forward thinking at all.

Topgub · 19/11/2022 17:39

mnhqceo · 19/11/2022 16:50

Topgub - my point was that there's no point having a rigid mindset about these things. It's a waste of energy. It doesn't really matter what you or anyone else would "rather" have. Just as you exist in your own sphere will are making the best of it, other people navigate their very different lives in their own ways.

People are just answering the op.

You'd be as well saying there's no point in having any opinion on anything

Kidsfortea · 19/11/2022 18:53

fetchacloth · 18/11/2022 18:45

Hunt's efforts would be better placed forcing employers to be kinder and more flexible to older workers. Some employers are downright nasty to over 50s and treat their employees like a piece of rubbish to the point where some of those workers feel forced out of their jobs, or feel obliged to take early retirement against their will.
Many people would continue working beyond 60 if there were flexible working or part time options available to them.

I agree. I retired at 63, a few weeks ago. I was self employed in the hospitality trade and could not cope with the hours any longer.
I look after an elderly parent so really need a job for a couple of days a week.
Am very worried about being unemployable tbh.

mnhqceo · 19/11/2022 19:54

It's futile having a dogmatic opinion about other people's lives because you can never understand unless you are in their minds or have walked in their shoes.

geraniumsandsunshine · 19/11/2022 20:48

Schlaar · 17/11/2022 12:14

I would love a proper job! Could someone please point me in the direction of a decent job which allows me to work 9-2 only? Or work 9-2 in the office then make up the rest working from home? Thought not. How am I supposed to work when I have to pick up the kids from school and no employer will accommodate that?

We are supposed to accept that having children is a choice and we pay the burden so pay for childcare before and after school. Sadly, I've accepted this and whilst baby is at nursery then I hardly make anything as majority of wage is on childcare. Should be a bit better once he is at school but still have wrap around care to pay for

geraniumsandsunshine · 19/11/2022 20:51

Question- if you don't work, but don't claim benefits, do you still get the same access to NHS etc? I wonder if that's the problem in that by not paying tax there is no contribution.

Tired2tired · 19/11/2022 20:58

geraniumsandsunshine · 19/11/2022 20:51

Question- if you don't work, but don't claim benefits, do you still get the same access to NHS etc? I wonder if that's the problem in that by not paying tax there is no contribution.

Yes, no one asks for your payslips when you go.

NCFT0922 · 19/11/2022 21:10

Topgub · 19/11/2022 16:09

@mnhqceo

Id much rather my dd made her own millions personally. If she had to

Im not a fan of millionaires or sexism really

But if she met a boy in school, they stayed together, married, had a family etc and he, at this point, was able to offer her them a very wealthy lifestyle and she WANTED to stay at home, was indeed happier doing so; you’d judge her for that? Would you really want her to be unhappy? For what?

How can you be “not a fan” of people with only a similar wealth in common. It’s not like they’re a homogeneous bunch. That’s like saying “I’m not really a fan of people who earn between 30-35k a year” as though they will all be the same and not providing any reason for this generic dislike of a hugely diverse bunch of people.

NCFT0922 · 19/11/2022 21:12

geraniumsandsunshine · 19/11/2022 20:51

Question- if you don't work, but don't claim benefits, do you still get the same access to NHS etc? I wonder if that's the problem in that by not paying tax there is no contribution.

You can buy better access to the NHS. Many of my social group do. They don’t work.
The majority of people I know who don’t work but don’t claim benefits fall into the wealthy spouse/family group.

Soothsayer1 · 19/11/2022 21:38

We are supposed to accept that having children is a choice
It is a choice, but it's also the most important work, growing birthing & nurturing new humans, there is growing awareness that we dont have enough new ones, just because you dont get paid for it, doesnt mean it's not contributing to society, it is VITAL work

ZeldaWillTellYourFortune · 19/11/2022 21:58

Soothsayer1 · 19/11/2022 21:38

We are supposed to accept that having children is a choice
It is a choice, but it's also the most important work, growing birthing & nurturing new humans, there is growing awareness that we dont have enough new ones, just because you dont get paid for it, doesnt mean it's not contributing to society, it is VITAL work

The planet is burning and the global population just passed 8 billion. We have more than enough human beings and there is no looming shortage. Other species are dying off every single day thanks to us.

Society needs to start encouraging and rewarding the childfree before we reproduce ourselves into extinction.

Soothsayer1 · 19/11/2022 22:08

We have more than enough human beings
yes, lots of elderly, but falling birthrates now threaten population collapse

ZeldaWillTellYourFortune · 19/11/2022 22:42

Soothsayer1 · 19/11/2022 22:08

We have more than enough human beings
yes, lots of elderly, but falling birthrates now threaten population collapse

Ridiculous. Inform yourself.
We are killing this planet and every species on it with our excessive reproduction. The trajectory is still upwards, regrettably.

chaosmaker · 19/11/2022 23:09

Soothsayer1 · 19/11/2022 21:38

We are supposed to accept that having children is a choice
It is a choice, but it's also the most important work, growing birthing & nurturing new humans, there is growing awareness that we dont have enough new ones, just because you dont get paid for it, doesnt mean it's not contributing to society, it is VITAL work

The world is overpopulated. The answer is for more migration so that each country has enough people for its needs. Also giving those people a means of survival especially if they are from areas with more mouths to feed than jobs. Would disrupt countries that are badly run as their population would be able to seek better conditions elsewhere. It's really not that hard a problem. Too many people is screwing up the planet.

chaosmaker · 19/11/2022 23:10

Society needs to start encouraging and rewarding the childfree before we reproduce ourselves into extinction.

I wish, but it's not going to happen in my lifetime.

Liebig · 19/11/2022 23:41

AnnieSnap · 19/11/2022 01:10

A tax that remains payable even after retirement

Because, as mentioned above, there is nowhere near enough going into the system to account for the expected value needed.

I’m happy for this burden to go onto corps and rich individuals, however.

fetchacloth · 20/11/2022 00:01

chaosmaker · 19/11/2022 23:10

Society needs to start encouraging and rewarding the childfree before we reproduce ourselves into extinction.

I wish, but it's not going to happen in my lifetime.

I agree but too late to change the direction of travel.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 20/11/2022 08:37

If childcare were a lot more affordable, I dare say quite a few women who at the moment can’t afford to work, since their earnings won’t cover childcare costs, might well think of returning to work.