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Am I overreacting or is that outrageous?

178 replies

Terrysnotmine · 09/11/2022 11:36

In a shop near me

Am I overreacting or is that outrageous?
OP posts:
JudgeJ · 09/11/2022 15:07

YellowTreeHouse · 09/11/2022 11:43

Oh calm down and stop trying to find problems where there aren’t any.

But isn't that the MN olympic sport, who can find the most to be outraged by today?

JudgeJ · 09/11/2022 15:13

CloudybutMild · 09/11/2022 11:59

No, the Axis powers were fought and defeated by the Western Allies, of which “we” (as in the British Empire) were part.

Is teaching of history really this bad nowadays?

Not sure who it is these days but, according to an excellent History teacher, in the 80s/90s whatever conflict was being taught the baddie was always Saddam Hussein, prior to this it was always Hitler, Waterloo, Trafalgar etc etc.

Silk purses and sows' ears spring to mind.

RobertaFirmino · 09/11/2022 15:13

Nothing outrageous here, I wouldn't want to touch a dirty, stinking Nazi either.

SleeplessinSouthwold · 09/11/2022 15:13

Maybe stick a sign on the door saying 'Beware nazis inside this shop?'

Autumnnewname · 09/11/2022 15:14

Alexandernevermind · 09/11/2022 15:06

**@Testina · Today 13:23

@Alexandernevermind “I would perhaps tell the owner I thought it offensive, particularly for the Eastern European members of our community.”

Why are Eastern Europeans (who suffered far more than the British under the Nazi regime, with invasion, occupation, ghettos, Holocaust transports) more likely to find the word “Nazi” for a general German WW2 soldier offensive?**

FFS, stop trying to be offended. I'll play along. Sooo, it isn't the word Nazi, it the joke that MAY cause upset is what I meant, as you well know. And to answer your other question to me no, of course I don't speak for the Eastern European community, I'm dont have a saviour complex, simply saying persecuted communities from these countries might be upset. Actually people from all parts of Europe might be upset, but we have a particularly large EE community in our town (compared to other community groups, before you jump on me for that too. For the record no, I would not have complained, I would have complained before I posted the photo on SM though.

Which bit was the joke that might cause offence though?

JudgeJ · 09/11/2022 15:20

BitOutOfPractice · 09/11/2022 14:31

Max Hastings is not a historian afaik. He's a journalist I believe. That may be semantics of course but as a historian I felt I must point that out 😉

I must admit I chuckled when I read Max Hastings being cited on MN as an impeccable source of anything!

OldFan · 09/11/2022 15:38

They probably don't want their stuff/diorama smashed up or no longer representing the scene it was meant to represent. Not unreasonable.

wordler · 09/11/2022 15:55

We can't see the rest of the scene in the photo but I assume there is an Allied force of some sort on the other side fighting the Germans/Nazis.

As the note focuses just on the German soldiers it seems as though the customers have been moving just those figures about - perhaps setting them up in hilarious/rude poses with their little Heil Hitler arms. British people fighting Hitler with humour since 1938.

www.bbc.com/culture/article/20190829-how-britain-fought-hitler-with-humour

ferretface · 09/11/2022 16:01

It's fine. It's irreverent but only in the same way as many jokes about the second world war are. It isn't glorifying Nazism or anything.

Testina · 09/11/2022 16:03

@Alexandernevermind

FFS, stop trying to be offended.

Where in my question to you am I “trying to be offended”? I’ll repeat it as you didn’t answer:

Why are Eastern Europeans (who suffered far more than the British under the Nazi regime, with invasion, occupation, ghettos, Holocaust transports) more likely to find the word “Nazi” for a general German WW2 soldier offensive?

I’m not offended - I’m asking you why you think Eastern European would be more offended that Britons by the sign in the OP’s photo?

I'll play along. Sooo, it isn't the word Nazi, it the joke that MAY cause upset is what I meant, as you well know.

No, I don’t know. Genuinely have no idea what the joke is? Seriously - is it a pop culture reference that’s gone over my head? All I see is a sign saying not to touch the Nazi’s (sic). What joke?

And to answer your other question to me no, of course I don't speak for the Eastern European community

🤷🏻‍♀️ That question wasn’t from me!

Chesterdrawsseriously · 09/11/2022 16:06

I don’t understand op what do you mean the shop is not very politically correct, are you actually trying to say nazis cannot be called nazis any more? That’s an extreme level of un believable . If they are model nazi soldiers it is acceptable to call such.

Testina · 09/11/2022 16:13

JustWork · 09/11/2022 14:58

Why "an historian"? It's not a silent h.

...or is it??

@JustWork thanks for indulging my grammar diversion 🤣

So, it’s historical (if I may use that word!).
In the 18th & 19th centuries, where an “h” wasn’t sounded or wasn’t stressed it was common to use an instead of a.

Take the word “history”. The stress is on the first syllable, so the h is clearly sounded, “A History of the Second World War”.

But if you say historical or historian, the stress is on the second syllable his-TOR-ian.

Even though the h is sounded, it was just the form at the time to say “an historian” (or other unstressed h word). You can hear why if you say “an history an historian” - the first feels clunky but the second doesn’t - even if it feels wrong to you, it won’t feel as clunky.

The practice has been dying out, but Fowler’s Modern English Usage (bit of a Bible on these things!) says both are acceptable and both are in use.

Funkyblues101 · 09/11/2022 16:15

The Nazis are all dead so... surely that's not too dreadful..? It's clearly not celebrating them.
You are definitely being utterly ridiculous and totally U.

hesbeingabitofadick · 09/11/2022 16:18

presumably you can reposition the allied forces...

RainyDaysareCarp · 09/11/2022 16:22

The Nazis are all dead on the display 😂

SnakesandKnives · 09/11/2022 16:23

@Testina thats very interesting, thank you!

lol at being offended by model figures painted as Nazis being called Nazis. People are weird!

I thought most war history generally agrees that the Nazis lost the war rather than anyone else won it as such. If Hitler hadn’t been so paranoid and listened to Rommel things would have gone differently, and if he hadn’t attacked the USSR dramatically differently. I think most of the allies can say they were committed to stopping the Nazis globally, where as the soviets only fought at home (and the bits they stole during this period of course) - but there’s no denying that they - and winter - killed more Nazis than everyone else.

Lindy2 · 09/11/2022 16:26

The Natzis do all appear to be flat on the floor dead, so no issues there.

That apostrophe though. That bothers me.

BitOutOfPractice · 09/11/2022 16:28

Where is anyone saying the Soviet losses and contribution was "irrelevant" @HuggsBosom? Literally nobody has. Conversely you have said that the efforts / contributions of the other Allies was irrelevant and had no effect on the outcome of the war which was won solely by the Soviets.

Lindy2 · 09/11/2022 16:28

The not being able to edit and remove the accidental "t" from Nazis, in my last post, also bothers me. 🙈

SommerTen · 09/11/2022 16:33

Believe it or not The Nazis (Hitler & cronies) were not actually called 'The Nazis' in the Ww2 German Reich.
In fact Hitler thought the shortened term 'Nazi' was an offensive term for himself and his party.
The only people who used the word 'Nazi' were Hitlers' enemies.

Sally090807 · 09/11/2022 16:33

Let’s face it, nowadays everyone seems to be “outraged” or “offended” by something.

Blueblell · 09/11/2022 16:37

It’s just a joke - there are model Nazi soldiers and they don’t want people to touch them?

Pasc611 · 09/11/2022 16:44

Total over-reaction. People are constantly looking to take offence and be outraged.

Pixiedust1234 · 09/11/2022 16:50

Lindy2 · 09/11/2022 16:28

The not being able to edit and remove the accidental "t" from Nazis, in my last post, also bothers me. 🙈

I like it with the t. It means you can spit the word out 😂

BeetleManiac · 09/11/2022 16:50

@HuggsBosom The Soviet Union casualties were not all 'Russians'. Large numbers were Ukrainians, Belarusians and other Soviet nationalities.

Soviet casualties were also increased by the callous tactics of their generals - not unlike the way the Russian army is suffering massive casualties in Ukraine today, forcing poorly trained and equipped soldiers into futile repeated attacks.

The Soviet war effort was also supported to a massive extent by supplies from the west, while the Germans were starved by the Atlantic blockade.

It should also be remembered that the Soviet Union jointly started the war by attacking Poland in 1939.