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THIS IS A TOTAL GAME CHANGER SURELY

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isitanoaktree · 04/11/2022 22:54

Whatsapp has now provided an update whereby users can hide their 'online' status. This is honestly brilliant and a long time coming.

I have just breathed an audible sigh of relief knowing that being seen online won't cause issues for me in the future now.

What does this mean though for cheating spouses and partners who were caught out, in part, because they were seen online at odd hours or only ever online when they were locked in the bathroom? Interesting one...

Plays right into the hands of philanderers doesn't it...

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XelaM · 05/11/2022 00:10

OP - I'm with you!! I love this development

SomethingVexesThee · 05/11/2022 00:11

@Unicorn2022 I feel very fortunate that I don't get hassled like this!

But I must say my conscience would still be clear in all the circumstances you mention. I feel perfectly at liberty to prioritise my time and attention as I see fit. I've never yet lost a friend, shirked a parental duty or failed to do my bit for a school fundraising activity.

I'm also the sort of person who thinks it's ok to let a call go to voicemail if I don't fancy talking right that minute. Zero guilt!

isitanoaktree · 05/11/2022 00:12

EmmaAgain22 · 05/11/2022 00:08

I never saw that, presumably because all my status was set to hidden?

I haven't got a clue what goes on with tech but have never seen anyone online or typing, unless I just put it in the "visual clutter" box. But I was chatting on there a lot the last two weeks as I've been ill and don't remember it.

Okay. Its okay that you don't remember. But I and others on here assure you that it is a new feature. An update. A fact.

The reason you did not see it until now is certainly not because it was set to 'hidden' as that was not a function of the app until now.

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isitanoaktree · 05/11/2022 00:13

SaulHudsonDavidJones · 05/11/2022 00:00

Oh OP, there's no telling some people 🤦🏻‍♀️ I've just changed it... thanks!

*scratches out eyes in frustration !

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ComeonoverValerie · 05/11/2022 00:14

Love this. My managers won't know I've been WhatsApping at work. 😊

isitanoaktree · 05/11/2022 00:15

XelaM · 05/11/2022 00:10

OP - I'm with you!! I love this development

Huzzah! I am honestly glad that its not just me and that others have been waiting for it to. Because half the people on this thread have attempted to make me thing otherwise.

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isitanoaktree · 05/11/2022 00:16

SomethingVexesThee · 05/11/2022 00:11

@Unicorn2022 I feel very fortunate that I don't get hassled like this!

But I must say my conscience would still be clear in all the circumstances you mention. I feel perfectly at liberty to prioritise my time and attention as I see fit. I've never yet lost a friend, shirked a parental duty or failed to do my bit for a school fundraising activity.

I'm also the sort of person who thinks it's ok to let a call go to voicemail if I don't fancy talking right that minute. Zero guilt!

I honestly need to be more like this / you.

New Years resolution! I am hoping that I will give less fucks about being responsive online and through my phone with age, but we will see. Unlikely I guess given my current age.

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isitanoaktree · 05/11/2022 00:17

ComeonoverValerie · 05/11/2022 00:14

Love this. My managers won't know I've been WhatsApping at work. 😊

Good, eh?

Aside from the cheating partners thing.. that's kind of a blow to philanderer hunting.

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GarfieldsAunty · 05/11/2022 00:18

Another person also delighted for this new feature, and wish they had done it sooner!

Those of you who are adamant this isn't new, are incorrect. Prior to this recent update, there was the 'last seen', and 'read receipts' under 'privacy'. Only very recently has 'online' been added, meaning you can opt out of being shown as 'online' has when you are using the app. There is more info and explanation on the World Wide Web, for any doubters.

prh47bridge · 05/11/2022 00:19

isitanoaktree · 04/11/2022 22:59

You might want to check the date on that article - 9th August. It hasn't been around for years, but it has been available for nearly 3 months.

MightyOaks · 05/11/2022 00:22

My phone has done this for years. Not only does it not say when my last seen was but also doesn't show me as online when I am.

isitanoaktree · 05/11/2022 00:24

prh47bridge · 05/11/2022 00:19

You might want to check the date on that article - 9th August. It hasn't been around for years, but it has been available for nearly 3 months.

No no, that is when it was introduced. It has only been rolled out across the board this week. Believe me, I and others have been waiting for the update and checking every other day.

It is new.

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MightyOaks · 05/11/2022 00:24

@isitanoaktree This has been an option for beta testers for years so please don't be so quick to declare everybody else wrong. I've worked with smartphone software since 2011 and for developers, this was an option since 2012. Known as 'stealth mode'

MistyRock · 05/11/2022 00:26

isitanoaktree · 05/11/2022 00:06

Kindly... its multiple holes. not one hole. And it is for draining / straining, not measuring.

You and the spaghetti spoon have a similar mandate it seems...

Op, you are the best.

isitanoaktree · 05/11/2022 00:26

GarfieldsAunty · 05/11/2022 00:18

Another person also delighted for this new feature, and wish they had done it sooner!

Those of you who are adamant this isn't new, are incorrect. Prior to this recent update, there was the 'last seen', and 'read receipts' under 'privacy'. Only very recently has 'online' been added, meaning you can opt out of being shown as 'online' has when you are using the app. There is more info and explanation on the World Wide Web, for any doubters.

Next they will be along asking how and where they can locate or access the World Wide Web you speak of.

There really is no helping some people.

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isitanoaktree · 05/11/2022 00:27

MightyOaks · 05/11/2022 00:22

My phone has done this for years. Not only does it not say when my last seen was but also doesn't show me as online when I am.

No, not it hasn't.

Please do some research or view the other posts on here.

Have you been on the sauce?

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mamacattiva · 05/11/2022 00:28

This thread… so many people so aggressively wrong 😂

I’m with you OP, great update. I’m much more excited about the leaving groups silently one though, always such awkward departures!

<+447602453621 left because you’re all incredibly annoying>

isitanoaktree · 05/11/2022 00:28

MistyRock · 05/11/2022 00:26

Op, you are the best.

Are some posters really out here trying to measure spaghetti?

I feel very upset by that, if so. This compiled with the state of the NHS is honestly too much to process.

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MistyRock · 05/11/2022 00:29

MightyOaks · 05/11/2022 00:22

My phone has done this for years. Not only does it not say when my last seen was but also doesn't show me as online when I am.

Lmao.

isitanoaktree · 05/11/2022 00:30

MightyOaks · 05/11/2022 00:24

@isitanoaktree This has been an option for beta testers for years so please don't be so quick to declare everybody else wrong. I've worked with smartphone software since 2011 and for developers, this was an option since 2012. Known as 'stealth mode'

Yes. You are right. But do you know how many people are beta testers?! Or who were beta testers for this particular function?

And, for most people on this thread, they would know if they were a beta tester.

Its not a beta situation here in terms of app testing, its a beta situation in terms of posters on thread having beta brains.

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unwillingantisocial · 05/11/2022 00:30

Hahahaha

isitanoaktree · 05/11/2022 00:31

mamacattiva · 05/11/2022 00:28

This thread… so many people so aggressively wrong 😂

I’m with you OP, great update. I’m much more excited about the leaving groups silently one though, always such awkward departures!

<+447602453621 left because you’re all incredibly annoying>

Agree on all fronts!

And yes this is also a great update.

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isitanoaktree · 05/11/2022 00:32

MistyRock · 05/11/2022 00:26

Op, you are the best.

Oh stop, I will start blushing.

But also, please don't stop.

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MistyRock · 05/11/2022 00:34

Ha ha. Who would've thought a, thread about WhatsApp could be so amusing. I'm glad I can't sleep now.

isitanoaktree · 05/11/2022 00:35

Also: there's an eclipse right now if you look out of the window.

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