But there is nothing wrong with this if it's a paid-for activity even if it would make the waiting list shorter and things run better. People make their choice one way or the other
I wouldn't really expect parents to have to help at a true 'paid-for' activity, such as dance lessons, music lessons etc, if they are being run by paid staff. But I think it's not unreasonable to expect a small amount of help from parents who's child attends a volunteer run group such as scouts, even if they pay subs. Subs are only kept low by having full time volunteers, and parental help where necessary.
We actually don't often ask for parent help, as we have quite a few volunteer leaders, but I have run parent rotas in the past. I'd never make the parent rota compulsory, as I don't think that's fair to children if their parents won't help. But it really does grate, when I'm giving up hours each week, and I don't think I'm unreasonable to feel this way. I know don't have to volunteer, but neither do parents have to send their kids to scouts.
Of course people with limited time or want-tos will come in the summer or when the activity is something they like
Of course. But my point is that parents say they don't have the time, couldn't possibly help, until it's something that they think it's worth making the time for. Which shows that they could make time, they just won't. It makes me feel like they see me and my leaders as childcare, rather than a worthwhile activity.
If you can't get volunteers as an organisation, year around, then the organisation needs to look at changing in some way or another to be more appealing, as others have been saying, no?
Perhaps, but we do have around 160 000 volunteers in Scouting in the UK. But modern life style / modern attitudes mean that demand for child places at scouting, and other activities such as kids football etc means that demand almost always outstrips supply. Too many parents want their child to attend lots of clubs/activities, but aren't willing to put in much effort, past dropping their child at the door, to make sure this can happen. As a few upthread have said, they'd rather throw money at it. Unfortunately this just isn't how volunteer led clubs work.