Sick of fiend inviting me to stay?

[PistachioGreenn]

Any activity we do my friend will always say “you should stay at mine”.

I like meeting up with friend but I don’t feel the need to constantly stay at her house. I’m an adult I have my own house.

Like we met for lunch and a couple of drinks (in a town that’s about same distance for both of us to get to but in opposite directions) and she asked if I was staying at hers.

… Like why would I carry around an overnight bag to stay at hers? And stay at hers when it would be the same distance for me to get home?

That’s just one example. She doesn’t live alone either so it’s not a loneliness thing.

I’d just say I only sleep properly in my own bed these days.

Eat garlic isn't it

No one asks me to stay anymore

Fiend or foe .

But I am a homebody. And I've got dogs . They're a good excuse. And they can detect anyone from the underworld and protect me . 😂

I’d be wary of any fiend asking me to stay. Especially this time of year

On a lighter note you've given me my Halloween name change 😂

We have a friend in our group that does this. Whenever a night out is discussed it's always "come to mine for drinks first" or "stay at mine after" or she will suggest drinks in her local pubs which we never want to do as they are rubbish! We all live in different villages but not a million miles away but tend to meet up somewhere central. It is a bit annoying as sometimes if she doesn't get her own way then she will sulk, go silent in the group chat and more often than not, come up with an excuse why she can't make it. The rest of us aren't drama queens so it doesn't bother us!

Your worried you left your straightness on

That is a fabulous typo 😂

“70% of the time I stay over he’s there”.

so sometimes you do stay? That’s why she asks then. Doh.

I thought you were meaning that some sexual predator keeps trying to lure you to his house 🤣

Except that I'm a lesbian, and I read the post to my gf, and we laughed and both said the same thing....and my post above was light-hearted anyway.

“I prefer my own bed”. She’ll give up when she realises you will never stay. When you do sometimes, she’ll carry on asking.

😀

Maybe she has such a good time with you that she doesn't want it to end. It is a compliment.

I didn't read your comment that way either

You aren't unreasonable to want to go to your own home, but you are a little unreasonable in not telling her that, kindly. "I so enjoy our time together, and thank you for the invitation, but I am just more comfortable sleeping in my own bed, especially when it is so close by!"

Apologies, I missed the lighthearted element @BEAM123
Seen far too much ill-suppressed ignorant homophobia round these parts not to pick up on what looked like an implication that gay woman = predatory sex pest who cannot control herself around straights.

Come to the dark side. We have cookies.🍪

“Like one, that on a lonesome road
Doth walk in fear and dread,
And having once turned round walks on,
And turns no more his head;
Because he knows, a frightful fiend
Doth close behind him tread’’

This.
Esp because Hallowe'en draws close. The fiend is definitely going to try and get you to stay at hers for a black magicfest soon.

In fairness the fiend typo makes it hilarious!!!

But back to the point, have you ever just asked "why"? "Why would I do that?" "Why would I go back to yours to stay the night?" "Why would I go to yours when mine is just as close?"

I'd find it baffling to be asked this all the time.

No one ever wants to stay at my house. Sad times.

It's almost as if satanic rituals and demonic possession are something to be avoided.

And I make a lovely bats' blood cake but there's no one here to share it with other than DP. He's following the Ghoul Keto diet at the moment, so I usually end up taking a few slices to the neighbour, Beelzebub. He's OK. Bit noisy at night though. I've had to ask him to keep the screaming down a few times.

Anyway. If anyone fancies making a new friend, my doorway to hell is always open.

Me !
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Pick me ! Does your neighbour mr b have a girlfriend? I'm so sick of bumble ....

Why not just ask her in a lighthearted jokey way, 'you always ask me to stay. You know I have my own house don't you? I'd prefer to stay at home as just live sleeping in my own bed but thanks but appreciate the offer'

This made me LOL

Just say you don't really like staying at other people's houses, you love your own little bed. True for most of us I think.