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To wonder how a £36k a year education can meet DS’s needs if a £250k one can’t?

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GoneBatty · 23/10/2022 00:40

Private residential SEND college (out of area) costs £250k a year. They are saying DS’s needs are too high for them to manage.

Council are saying a £36k a year local outreach provision can meet his needs.

It’s all very fishy as SEND college at first said they felt they could meet DS’s needs so we visited, all was OK. As as soon as the council (who will have to fund it) got involved, college backtracked and said they couldn’t meet his needs.

They have given nonsensical reasons which I have mitigated numerous times. Both the college and council have told blatant lies and I’ve caught them out in two big ones!

Now we have reached Tribunal the college is suddenly full which was not an issue a few months ago so know they’re lying again as they would know numbers of students months in advance due to Tribunals and the time it take to get funding. Also most Tribunals due to take place over the summer were postponed for this age group.

AIBU to suspect the council has given the college a backhander to say they can’t meet his needs? It would cost council £750k for a 3 year program. They could have given a £100k ‘investment’ per se? Still saves a lot of money!

There is literally no other provision like this in the country. I have approached 21 other colleges, local and out of area. DS has had no proper provision for over a year and he is running out of time as age 20 - EHCP is to 25.

Do I sound nuts (I feel it)? Can this actually be possible?

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LaGioconda · 23/10/2022 10:54

Morph22010 · 23/10/2022 10:38

Everyone is not entitled to a personal budget for social care, they are entitled to assessment. My son has an ehcp and is in socialist school but we don’t qualify for any social care

Almost certainly your son does qualify for social care. Under the Children Act 1989, all local authorities should carry out a care assessment for children in need, which includes disabled children. If your son's needs are sufficiently severe for him to need a specialist school, he will meet the definition of disability. Don't take no for an answer. Is there social care provision in his EHCP? If not, there should be.

C8H10N4O2 · 23/10/2022 10:54

Polkadotties · 23/10/2022 08:57

I understand but it’s still a ridiculous amount of money for one person

Presumably you also want to ban complex cancer and transplant care and other healthcare which can rack up large bills for effective treatment over a multi year period.

What is the cap you want to put on care/treatment for an individual then? The kind of care which enables someone to return to independent and productive life? The type of care which also saves the cost of a life time of expensive support.

LaGioconda · 23/10/2022 10:55

Lizthelettuce · 23/10/2022 10:39

I think we both know that the key to a tribunal lies in the definition of ‘appropriate’ and ‘reasonable’, and a good lawyer can argue anything.

So how come so many people win tribunals without a lawyer?

FallSky · 23/10/2022 10:55

Not much point paying the college a backhander if you're going to tribunal as they will decide which placement can meet needs and college will have to justify why they can't take him, 'we're full' is an accepted reason.

Have college stated the actual reasons?

Morph22010 · 23/10/2022 10:55

Lizthelettuce · 23/10/2022 10:22

Well yes, they have to don’t they.

Say there is a budget of £100 and 10 pupils with SEND. There is local provision for £10 a head because that’s what the budget allows.

But then a private company pops up with superior provision for £30 a head.

Parents are going to fight for that aren't they. And yes, they can demonstrate 95% of the time that the provision is, indeed, superior. So they win the tribunal, the local authority have to pay the extra to the private company, and now the local provision is funded to the tune of £7 per head.

Then the next parent comes along, see that child A got the private provision, sees that it is superior to the local offer, and understandably fight the battle for their child and win as well.

Local provision now funded £4 a head.

The next child’s parents can’t afford a lawyer to take the LA to tribunal, so they get the £4 provision - tough shit. The LA HAVE to fight the next tribunal for THIS child. Tribunals only focus on the needs of the child under discussion. LAs have to meet the needs of ALL the children in their schools, and they know that a budget of £1 a head cannot possibly meet the needs of the rest of the children they cater for.

I don’t blame the parents. Everyone wants the best for their children. But if you want / need PUBLIC SERVICES to pay for your child’s education then you need to vote / campaign / protest for a government at local AND national levels who will PRIORITISE public services.

Parents won’t win at tribunal by proving an education placement is superior. There is no legal responsibility for the la to provide the best education but there is a legal responsibility for them to provide an adequate education that can meet needs. If a cheaper placement can actually meet needs then that will will. However very often the cheaper placement proposed it is very obvious that it isn’t going to meet needs so that is why so many wins at tribunal

Worthyornot · 23/10/2022 10:56

Morph22010 · 23/10/2022 10:46

Cancer treatments are expensive should we be spending that for just one person ?

How is that even comparable. One is saving a life. Are you serious? I would rather it goes to funding cancer treatment.

MrsMAgain · 23/10/2022 10:56

Should the NHS and local councils stop spending vast sums of 'our' money on individual children and adults who have serious accidents, illnesses, need transplants and so on? Or is it just individual people with disabilities who don't deserve vast sums of 'our' money spending on them? According to some pps?

LaGioconda · 23/10/2022 10:58

Lizthelettuce · 23/10/2022 10:44

I think you missed where I said I don’t blame parents?

It truly is the case that local authority provision is substandard and of course parents want their child’s needs to be met.

My point really is just for people to realise that this isn’t an issue within the LAs control.

Fight the tribunals if you have to, but do so knowing that the ‘enemy’ is not your local casework manager, but the government who have not funded services properly.

And if you win a tribunal, I beg you to vote for a government who would give all children who need it the provision you have fought for yours.

If it is all the government's fault, why do local authority caseworkers and panels so often make unlawful decisions? Why not make the lawful decision and band together to tell the government that they cannot comply with the law and stay within the government's ridiculous funding limits?

It isn't, by any chance, because they think that with any luck they'll get away with breaking the law because parents are too beaten down by the system to appeal, is it?

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Spikeyball · 23/10/2022 10:59

"Why do you think they are choosing to act unlawfully and choosing to spend vast amounts of money fighting tribunals they know they are going to lose?"

A LA forcing a parent to Tribunal delays them having to fund the provision - by a year at the moment. Tribunal costs are usually less than the provision.

FallSky · 23/10/2022 11:00

FallSky · 23/10/2022 10:55

Not much point paying the college a backhander if you're going to tribunal as they will decide which placement can meet needs and college will have to justify why they can't take him, 'we're full' is an accepted reason.

Have college stated the actual reasons?

That should say 'we're full' is NOT an accepted reason.

Axahooxa · 23/10/2022 11:01

@Worthyornot
Morph22010 · Today 10:46
Cancer treatments are expensive should we be spending that for just one person ?

How is that even comparable. One is saving a life. Are you serious? I would rather it goes to funding cancer treatment.

How is it comparable?
Both give a person what the need in order to live.
Both attempt to support dignity in life.
Both are part of our societal duty to give our people what they need in order to live a decent life.

Both are arguably (I would argue) essential

Itstarts · 23/10/2022 11:01

Worthyornot · 23/10/2022 10:56

How is that even comparable. One is saving a life. Are you serious? I would rather it goes to funding cancer treatment.

Really????

So disabled children's lives aren't worth it? It's fine to just stick them in homes like in the 50s with no dignity or voice, rather then try to give them the skills for a decent quality of life?

How is that cancer patients quality of life? How long will they live post treatment? Is 5 years extra for 1 person really better than a lifetime for a disabled child?

Punxsutawney · 23/10/2022 11:01

There are many who wont be able to access further education. So this person shouldn't have any priority over them..

Heaven forbid that a young person with special educational needs and or disabilities, has support and funding to access something that their NT/non disabled peers can access easily.
Some posters on this thread should really think about what's it's like to be a parent fighting for adequate support for their child or young person. It is soul destroying, it takes up every part of your life. And we do not push for specialist placements for a bit of fun. Tribunals are not a nice day out FFS. It is all consuming and impacts everything. And whilst this is going on a child is often without education.

DS attends an expensive specialist placement. He has no behaviour issues and was previously in mainstream. In fact support earlier in his life could have meant he would have never needed this now.
Our LA agreed and funded it without the need to go to tribunal. The taxi journey to take him there and back costs huge amounts of money too.
Ds has a disability and whilst other young people his age are in their first year of university or have joined the world of work. He is unable to. He is attending a placement that a multitude of professionals from both the LA and NHS, deemed the most appropriate for him. And what local taxpayers with no idea of SEND, think of that, is not our concern.

FallSky · 23/10/2022 11:03

Lizthelettuce · 23/10/2022 10:34

Basically it’s like the health service, being drained dry by private providers.

You can’t really blame the providers because they’re fulfilling a need.

You can’t blame parents for wanting the best.

You SHOULD question why private providers were even needed in the first place.

And it would help to remember that every tribunal costs the public purse, with money taken directly from the SEND budget and the education of others. Please consider whether your child TRULY NEEDS the provision you are fighting for, and if so - campaign for political change.

Parents aren't fighting for 'the best' they are fighting for their child's basic legal right to suitable, education. There is case law stating a child is not entitled to 'a rolls Royce education'. Tribunal will only award what is required, nothing more.

Spikeyball · 23/10/2022 11:03

Imagine if most posters had their child out of school for a year because of no school place ( at all) and they had to go to Tribunal to get one. I think they would have a different view of things.

deliverooyoutoo · 23/10/2022 11:03

MrsMAgain · 23/10/2022 10:56

Should the NHS and local councils stop spending vast sums of 'our' money on individual children and adults who have serious accidents, illnesses, need transplants and so on? Or is it just individual people with disabilities who don't deserve vast sums of 'our' money spending on them? According to some pps?

Yup. This.

I had a life changing injury. I'm sure my surgeries cost a fortune. Should I not have had them?

BringBackCoffeeCreams · 23/10/2022 11:04

I have a great solution. Councils stop providing education to children without disabilities. It would save them so much money which they could then funnel into special needs provision. We don't provide care to elderly people unless they have high care needs, lets do the same with education.

This thread shows that parents of able children have no problem with education not being universal. So they'll have no issue with their kids not getting it provided by the state.

Morph22010 · 23/10/2022 11:05

LaGioconda · 23/10/2022 10:54

Almost certainly your son does qualify for social care. Under the Children Act 1989, all local authorities should carry out a care assessment for children in need, which includes disabled children. If your son's needs are sufficiently severe for him to need a specialist school, he will meet the definition of disability. Don't take no for an answer. Is there social care provision in his EHCP? If not, there should be.

he had social care assessment but we didn’t qualify for anything as we only have one child and also he is accessing activities in the community ie. I take him to a couple of sports clubs weekly. I’ve not bothered fighting as to be honest we’d only prob get a couple of hours direct payment per week and have to find someone to do the work ourselves. Ds can be very hard work so I think we’d struggle to find someone who could manage

FallSky · 23/10/2022 11:07

People don't believe it until they live it. It is unbelievable. Then you learn...

MrsMAgain · 23/10/2022 11:07

BringBackCoffeeCreams · 23/10/2022 10:43

The disability discrimination being argued for on this thread is disgusting. Dress it up how you like but people are arguing for the removal of education for disabled children. Shame on the lot of you. You disgust me

Quite. The disability discrimination and disablism from some pps on this thread is shameful.

Thatsnotmycar · 23/10/2022 11:10

Spikeyball · 23/10/2022 10:59

"Why do you think they are choosing to act unlawfully and choosing to spend vast amounts of money fighting tribunals they know they are going to lose?"

A LA forcing a parent to Tribunal delays them having to fund the provision - by a year at the moment. Tribunal costs are usually less than the provision.

Exactly. And some parents will give up because for whatever reason they don’t feel they can continue to advocate for their DC or they don’t know they can force the LA to fund the necessary provision.

LaGioconda · 23/10/2022 11:10

Lizthelettuce · 23/10/2022 10:53

Okay well I’ve told you why it is that they have to do that.
So what’s your theory?

Why do you think they are choosing to act unlawfully and choosing to spend vast amounts of money fighting tribunals they know they are going to lose?

I strongly suspect that there are some fairly cold-blooded decisions being made that it is worth making unlawful decisions because they will get away with it. Some caseworkers and local authority panels calculate that a lot of parents of children with SEND either don't know that what is happening is unlawful, or don't know there is a remedy, or know it but are too beaten down by having to look after their inadequately provided-for children to access the remedy. Equally they decide to fight tribunals because they hope to intimidate some parents into giving up, because they may get away with at least some of their unlawful decisions, and at the very least because it buys time.

deliverooyoutoo · 23/10/2022 11:11

I bet loads of parents give up and don't go to tribunal.

For me with pip, if I hadn't got a mandatory reconsideration, I don't think I'd have had the mental strength to go to tribunal. I'd imagine education provision is similar.

Thatsnotmycar · 23/10/2022 11:11

Morph22010 · 23/10/2022 11:05

he had social care assessment but we didn’t qualify for anything as we only have one child and also he is accessing activities in the community ie. I take him to a couple of sports clubs weekly. I’ve not bothered fighting as to be honest we’d only prob get a couple of hours direct payment per week and have to find someone to do the work ourselves. Ds can be very hard work so I think we’d struggle to find someone who could manage

I agree with @LaGioconda, DS will qualify. If you ever appeal the education part of the EHCP you can ask for the social care provision to be looked at as well.

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