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To wonder how a £36k a year education can meet DS’s needs if a £250k one can’t?

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GoneBatty · 23/10/2022 00:40

Private residential SEND college (out of area) costs £250k a year. They are saying DS’s needs are too high for them to manage.

Council are saying a £36k a year local outreach provision can meet his needs.

It’s all very fishy as SEND college at first said they felt they could meet DS’s needs so we visited, all was OK. As as soon as the council (who will have to fund it) got involved, college backtracked and said they couldn’t meet his needs.

They have given nonsensical reasons which I have mitigated numerous times. Both the college and council have told blatant lies and I’ve caught them out in two big ones!

Now we have reached Tribunal the college is suddenly full which was not an issue a few months ago so know they’re lying again as they would know numbers of students months in advance due to Tribunals and the time it take to get funding. Also most Tribunals due to take place over the summer were postponed for this age group.

AIBU to suspect the council has given the college a backhander to say they can’t meet his needs? It would cost council £750k for a 3 year program. They could have given a £100k ‘investment’ per se? Still saves a lot of money!

There is literally no other provision like this in the country. I have approached 21 other colleges, local and out of area. DS has had no proper provision for over a year and he is running out of time as age 20 - EHCP is to 25.

Do I sound nuts (I feel it)? Can this actually be possible?

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Lizthelettuce · 23/10/2022 10:39

Thatsnotmycar · 23/10/2022 10:28

Incorrect again. Parents don’t win tribunals because provision is superior. There is no right to the best education available, only one that is appropriate and reasonably required. If it was about a superior education the vast majority of appeals wouldn’t be upheld.

A lawyer isn’t required to win a Tribunal.

I think we both know that the key to a tribunal lies in the definition of ‘appropriate’ and ‘reasonable’, and a good lawyer can argue anything.

x2boys · 23/10/2022 10:39

Lizthelettuce · 23/10/2022 10:34

Basically it’s like the health service, being drained dry by private providers.

You can’t really blame the providers because they’re fulfilling a need.

You can’t blame parents for wanting the best.

You SHOULD question why private providers were even needed in the first place.

And it would help to remember that every tribunal costs the public purse, with money taken directly from the SEND budget and the education of others. Please consider whether your child TRULY NEEDS the provision you are fighting for, and if so - campaign for political change.

Parents don't just fight for expensive provisions for their child on a whim ,they do so as they believe its the only place that can meet their childs needs ',stop trying to make parents of disabled childrren feel guilty for wanting the best for their child , I m guessing you don't have a disabled child ?

Caroffee · 23/10/2022 10:40

RoomOfRequirement · 23/10/2022 01:05

Of course they didn't pay them off!

Also £750,000 shouldn't ever be approved anyway. Ridiculous.

Urgh. Why is the first person to post always the nastiest?

pewtypie · 23/10/2022 10:42

Caroffee · 23/10/2022 10:40

Urgh. Why is the first person to post always the nastiest?

What’s nasty about it?

Novum · 23/10/2022 10:42

Lizthelettuce · 23/10/2022 10:22

Well yes, they have to don’t they.

Say there is a budget of £100 and 10 pupils with SEND. There is local provision for £10 a head because that’s what the budget allows.

But then a private company pops up with superior provision for £30 a head.

Parents are going to fight for that aren't they. And yes, they can demonstrate 95% of the time that the provision is, indeed, superior. So they win the tribunal, the local authority have to pay the extra to the private company, and now the local provision is funded to the tune of £7 per head.

Then the next parent comes along, see that child A got the private provision, sees that it is superior to the local offer, and understandably fight the battle for their child and win as well.

Local provision now funded £4 a head.

The next child’s parents can’t afford a lawyer to take the LA to tribunal, so they get the £4 provision - tough shit. The LA HAVE to fight the next tribunal for THIS child. Tribunals only focus on the needs of the child under discussion. LAs have to meet the needs of ALL the children in their schools, and they know that a budget of £1 a head cannot possibly meet the needs of the rest of the children they cater for.

I don’t blame the parents. Everyone wants the best for their children. But if you want / need PUBLIC SERVICES to pay for your child’s education then you need to vote / campaign / protest for a government at local AND national levels who will PRIORITISE public services.

Local governments have to draw up their budget according to needs. If they budget at £10 a head knowing that there are bound to be children in their areas needing a much higher level of provision, they can't complain when their budget doesn't work. The economics just don't work the way you suggest.

It's not a matter of parents automatically fighting for superior provision. No parent goes into a tribunal fight just because they fancy an expensive placement. What they are fighting for is what their child actually needs, very often after years of their child falling behind because of failure to recognise their needs or provide for them properly.

Parents do NOT win tribunals because they demonstrate that what they want is superior. They win because they prove that it is able to meet their child's needs whereas the local authority offering can't.

The vast majority of SEND tribunal cases are won by parents without lawyers, so your picture of parents who can afford lawyers somehow being more privileged is seriously misleading. LAs don't HAVE to fight any tribunal - time and again they fight even when it is blatantly obvious that their decision is wrong and unlawful. If they didn't waste money defending indefensible decisions and themselves hiring lawyers, their budgets would stretch further.

BringBackCoffeeCreams · 23/10/2022 10:43

The disability discrimination being argued for on this thread is disgusting. Dress it up how you like but people are arguing for the removal of education for disabled children. Shame on the lot of you. You disgust me

Thatsnotmycar · 23/10/2022 10:43

Lizthelettuce · 23/10/2022 10:39

I think we both know that the key to a tribunal lies in the definition of ‘appropriate’ and ‘reasonable’, and a good lawyer can argue anything.

Well then parents don’t win because the placement is superior. They win because the placement is appropriate and reasonably required. If the placement was just superior that would be beyond that definition no matter who was arguing it.

Again, a lawyer isn’t required.

Lizthelettuce · 23/10/2022 10:44

x2boys · 23/10/2022 10:39

Parents don't just fight for expensive provisions for their child on a whim ,they do so as they believe its the only place that can meet their childs needs ',stop trying to make parents of disabled childrren feel guilty for wanting the best for their child , I m guessing you don't have a disabled child ?

I think you missed where I said I don’t blame parents?

It truly is the case that local authority provision is substandard and of course parents want their child’s needs to be met.

My point really is just for people to realise that this isn’t an issue within the LAs control.

Fight the tribunals if you have to, but do so knowing that the ‘enemy’ is not your local casework manager, but the government who have not funded services properly.

And if you win a tribunal, I beg you to vote for a government who would give all children who need it the provision you have fought for yours.

Morph22010 · 23/10/2022 10:44

FreddyHG · 23/10/2022 09:11

What are people proposing happens to individuals with high care needs if too expensive. That they just dont get any educayion, medical treatment or care?

the number of taxpayers required to pay for this is massive. Colossal amount of money. How do other countries fund it how was this done 40 years ago? Modern healthcare and support whilst a great improvement leads to some very expensive outcomes the state never had to fund in the past. You can't spend this much money on one person without taking from others.

A lot of the children that end up in these very expensive placements are the ones who were denied support early on so things escalate. So a child that may have needed some 1-1 in early primary to do some specialist work on emotions, social skills for example. Ehcp assessment application refused, parent spends years fighting and going through tribunal system, by the time they get the support in place it’s no longer enough as things have escalated, child struggles on, things escalate to the point they are not going to school, become socially isolated, start self harming or attempting suicide.

Mochachocolatte · 23/10/2022 10:45

@Lizthelettuce my LA insisted that my son stay in his current mainstream school. This is despite the school categorically stating they could not meet his needs. Despite him only ever being on a 50% timetable. Despite him spending those 3 hours a day he is in school in the sensory room or running around the playground. Despite never having sat at a desk to complete any work. Despite him last week managing to get a plank of wood and try to smash the classroom to bits. He is five.

They said that was an adequate,."good enough" education for him.

They have finally conceded that he needs a special school and are looking at schools that cater to autistic children. Except he isn't autistic. He has PTSD from years of abuse from my exhusband and from being adopted. They are still shirking their responsibilities to find him a school that can meet his needs. Despite a trauma experienced school offering him a place.

LaGioconda · 23/10/2022 10:45

Xenia · 23/10/2022 10:29

It is very difficult for local authorities and the government to decide where our money goes. You need the wisdom of Solomon. I don't envy them.

In relation to SEN, local authorities just need to obey the law. Sadly, they don't do that.

AntlerRose · 23/10/2022 10:45

Lizthelettuce · 23/10/2022 10:39

I think we both know that the key to a tribunal lies in the definition of ‘appropriate’ and ‘reasonable’, and a good lawyer can argue anything.

Its looking at inadequete and adequete normally and the LAs tend to be the ones with an in-house solicitor and a specialist barristers up against parents with a charity fact sheet, and they still lose 95% of the time.

Caroffee · 23/10/2022 10:46

Council backhanders can and do happen all the time, particularly where I live in the East Midlands. It's naive to think otherwise. I was even told by a retired employee who had worked in the planning department that my local council accepted backhanders from builders to demolish many medieval buildings and replace them with ugly concrete megaliths in the early 1970s. Don't find this hard to believe.

Morph22010 · 23/10/2022 10:46

Worthyornot · 23/10/2022 09:42

Well yes, not for one person.

Cancer treatments are expensive should we be spending that for just one person ?

Thatsnotmycar · 23/10/2022 10:47

My point really is just for people to realise that this isn’t an issue within the LAs control.

Except much of it is within their control. They choose to act unlawfully, they choose to force parents to appeal knowing they lose the vast majority, they choose to spend large sums of money on representation defending indefensible cases against unrepresented parents.

cestlavielife · 23/10/2022 10:48

Of course a 20 year old shoukd be aBle to go away to college for 3xyears, most kids do right? To uni etc

facility on-site that he is gifted in,

What is on offer locally to provide that?
After college and when in supported living how will he continue to access such facility?
Can private tuition provide that?

He could move into supported living now circa 2k a week 24 7 care
Plus local provision 36k
Plus specialised tuition in his talent maybe 100 per week

Lizthelettuce · 23/10/2022 10:49

Mochachocolatte · 23/10/2022 10:45

@Lizthelettuce my LA insisted that my son stay in his current mainstream school. This is despite the school categorically stating they could not meet his needs. Despite him only ever being on a 50% timetable. Despite him spending those 3 hours a day he is in school in the sensory room or running around the playground. Despite never having sat at a desk to complete any work. Despite him last week managing to get a plank of wood and try to smash the classroom to bits. He is five.

They said that was an adequate,."good enough" education for him.

They have finally conceded that he needs a special school and are looking at schools that cater to autistic children. Except he isn't autistic. He has PTSD from years of abuse from my exhusband and from being adopted. They are still shirking their responsibilities to find him a school that can meet his needs. Despite a trauma experienced school offering him a place.

I’m sorry to hear your son has had such a terrible experience, your LA’s decision to send a child without autism to a school for autistic children sounds quite bizarre.

LaGioconda · 23/10/2022 10:49

Luana1 · 23/10/2022 10:33

I don't know what the alternative is but there are some councils across the country at risk of section 114s. The money just isn't there, and obviously £750k going on one person will leave less money for everyone else. In the OP's case the council are offering an alternative for her adult son - albeit a much less costly one, so it might not be ideal, but we as a society have got to be practical as to where public resources go so they can do the most amount of good for the most amount of people. It is tragic for individuals such as the OPs son, but that's what happens when the Tories are voted in for many consecutive years.

The law doesn't require councils to provide the "ideal" but it does require them to meet the needs of young people with EHCPs. They can't say "Yes, OP, you have found a college which is able to meet your child's needs but it's just not practical to use public resources on that, so instead we'll waste a smaller amount of public resources on something that won't come anywhere near meeting his needs". I find it astonishing that you blame this on people who voted in the Tories but think it's acceptable for councils to break the law by throwing young people with SEND to the wolves.

hiredandsqueak · 23/10/2022 10:50

@Lizthelettuce at one point our LA lost 99% of Tribunals, just now they lose 98.6% so they are improving I suppose. There are currently 140 cases in the Tribunal process in our LA, a good percentage of them they will concede the week before the hearing considering the wait for Tribunal (currently 51 weeks in our area) a good saving on costs (ignoring that quite probably that means a child has no education) Those that they take to Tribunal they will often fund barristers for against unrepresented parents and they will still lose. So of those 140 cases they will be batting over averages if they win 4. Parents don't win because they are greedy and want more than they are entitled to they win because they have evidence to show that what is needed cannot be met by what the LA is offering.
@GoneBatty Your child is most likely entitled to Legal Aid in their own right. You can secure independent assessments as well as legal support without cost. The independent assessments will give you the evidence to determine what provision will meet you child's needs.

StrataZon · 23/10/2022 10:51

Caroffee · 23/10/2022 10:46

Council backhanders can and do happen all the time, particularly where I live in the East Midlands. It's naive to think otherwise. I was even told by a retired employee who had worked in the planning department that my local council accepted backhanders from builders to demolish many medieval buildings and replace them with ugly concrete megaliths in the early 1970s. Don't find this hard to believe.

I'd like to think things have improved in terms of audit and scrutiny since the 1970s but that is absolutely not what the OP is saying @Caroffee
She thinks the council have given a backhander not received it. How would that be accounted for, or did someone pay it out of their pocket?

AIBU to suspect the council has given the college a backhander to say they can’t meet his needs?

LaGioconda · 23/10/2022 10:51

Lizthelettuce · 23/10/2022 10:34

Basically it’s like the health service, being drained dry by private providers.

You can’t really blame the providers because they’re fulfilling a need.

You can’t blame parents for wanting the best.

You SHOULD question why private providers were even needed in the first place.

And it would help to remember that every tribunal costs the public purse, with money taken directly from the SEND budget and the education of others. Please consider whether your child TRULY NEEDS the provision you are fighting for, and if so - campaign for political change.

And while parents campaign for political change instead of going to the tribunal, what should happen to their children?

If every tribunal costs the public purse, LAs have a very simple way of avoiding them - comply with the law, and don't fight appeals you can't possibly win.

TheGreatEscapeArtist · 23/10/2022 10:52

BringBackCoffeeCreams · 23/10/2022 10:43

The disability discrimination being argued for on this thread is disgusting. Dress it up how you like but people are arguing for the removal of education for disabled children. Shame on the lot of you. You disgust me

100% agree. This thread is such a depressing read.

Itstarts · 23/10/2022 10:52

Morph22010 · 23/10/2022 10:44

A lot of the children that end up in these very expensive placements are the ones who were denied support early on so things escalate. So a child that may have needed some 1-1 in early primary to do some specialist work on emotions, social skills for example. Ehcp assessment application refused, parent spends years fighting and going through tribunal system, by the time they get the support in place it’s no longer enough as things have escalated, child struggles on, things escalate to the point they are not going to school, become socially isolated, start self harming or attempting suicide.

This is my no.1 peeve in life. It absolutely infuriates me! We KNOW early intervention is key, yet because of underfunding, the go to response is 'wait and see' or just so ridiculously long and drawn out that it makes things worse. If every child schools flagged recieved that vital early intervention, it would actually reduce costs long term because the longer its left, the needs increase and therfore costs increase!

Lizthelettuce · 23/10/2022 10:53

Thatsnotmycar · 23/10/2022 10:47

My point really is just for people to realise that this isn’t an issue within the LAs control.

Except much of it is within their control. They choose to act unlawfully, they choose to force parents to appeal knowing they lose the vast majority, they choose to spend large sums of money on representation defending indefensible cases against unrepresented parents.

Okay well I’ve told you why it is that they have to do that.
So what’s your theory?

Why do you think they are choosing to act unlawfully and choosing to spend vast amounts of money fighting tribunals they know they are going to lose?

deliverooyoutoo · 23/10/2022 10:53

BringBackCoffeeCreams · 23/10/2022 10:43

The disability discrimination being argued for on this thread is disgusting. Dress it up how you like but people are arguing for the removal of education for disabled children. Shame on the lot of you. You disgust me

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