I was brought up in, and have pretty much always lived in, the suburbs of a city/large town. We retired a year ago and have moved to the very edge of a small town - population under 10,000 - but 15 minutes drive from the centre of a small city.
We are within a few minutes’ walk of a moderate-sized Tescos and the doctors’ surgery, less than 10 minutes walk from the station and 20 minutes to the town centre. That has a vibrant High Street composed mainly of independent shops, including a real butchers, greengrocers, 2 bakers, 3 (yes, 3) bookshops, a hardware store, a card/gift shop, deli, wine merchant, optician. There are 3 dentists and numerous coffee shops. There is a local arts and cultural scene which provides plenty to keep us busy, and if we want more (cinema/theatre/big shops, hospital) as mentioned the city is only 15 minutes away.
If/when we have to give up driving, as mentioned it is not far to the station, and there is a bus stop at the end of our road. Yet from our window, we can see open countryside, and evenings and weekends it is pretty quiet. It’s not that noisy the rest of the time, to be fair.