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Do you like dogs more than people and treat them better than people ?

331 replies

tvluv · 14/10/2022 07:49

It seems to me there are a lot of people who value dogs higher than they do people and treat them better ?

Do you agree ? Do you do this ?

OP posts:
JOFFCV · 14/10/2022 09:23

@BobLobIaw Your post actually made me laugh. You sound very angry. Scary angry.

thecatsthecats · 14/10/2022 09:25

saraclara · 14/10/2022 08:38

I'm sorry that you had a traumatic upbringing, but really, it can't have escaped you that cats are killers? And they don't kill only to survive, they kill even if their fed to bursting by their human. They do it for fun.

I love cats, I've always had them, but seeing then add the 'do no harm' option compared to a human, is just so mistaken that it's laughable. They might not harm you, but that's a different matter.

I didn't have a traumatic upbringing, as it happens. That was my mum's first husband.

My dad is the proverbial man who wouldn't hurt a fly. Literally. I learned a lot from him about valuing ALL life. He is honestly the most ethical, moral person I know. He literally cannot conceive of making an immoral choice - ironically he'd hate a debate like this!

(I'm no such paragon)

Yes, I know that cats are killers. But I don't begrudge humans killing either. I am a meat eater, after all. I don't begrudge cats a bit of genetic predisposition to murder-based play. I accept that there's less malice in cats and dogs because their emotions are less complex.

What I don't accept is the flat application of complex intelligence as a virtue. Or anything as an assumed superiority. For one big reason - if it's OK to decide that some animals are better than others because they're more intelligent, then what is the logical bar to preventing humans from being assessed and ranked in the same way?

If you say that you are ranking on emotional and intellectual capacity, then why isn't a bomb sniffing dog who saved his master's baby from a fire and who acts as a comfort dog to children with depression more valued than, say, an inbred man with an IQ of seventy who is a paedophile?

Like I say - I value people and animals who are affectionate to me and give me service or provide me with benefit. I think that that is the honest, rational answer, and to be honest, that that is what it comes down to for most people.

Except, perhaps, my dad.

SlashBeef · 14/10/2022 09:26

I like my dog. Don't care for other dogs. She's not on a par with my family or friends though. She's a dog.

JOFFCV · 14/10/2022 09:26

I hate how nine people have been mauled to death by them this year, in the UK

You do realise more humans have killed another human than dogs this year. Also, there are many different breeds of dogs. These killer dogs aren't the norm.

BobLobIaw · 14/10/2022 09:27

decafsoyaflatwhite · 14/10/2022 08:56

I haven’t seen anyone on here admit that they prefer their dog to their child, or condoning that.

But given that dogs aren’t vermin (by any definition of the word) and you’re being downright unpleasant about people who are doing nothing wrong, I think you’re just looking to get a rise.

Dogs spread diseases. Therefore they are vermin.

They also destroy crops, and are bad for the environment.

They regularly kill livestock.

They also sometimes kill humans.

https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLwxHkkaNsKOI_NeawXU3VrNXVcpbIHVA3

JOFFCV · 14/10/2022 09:28

BobLobIaw · 14/10/2022 09:27

Dogs spread diseases. Therefore they are vermin.

They also destroy crops, and are bad for the environment.

They regularly kill livestock.

They also sometimes kill humans.

https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLwxHkkaNsKOI_NeawXU3VrNXVcpbIHVA3

So do humans.

rickandmorts · 14/10/2022 09:29

My DP says he'd rescue our dog over me in a house fire, so make of that what you will 😂.

BobLobIaw · 14/10/2022 09:29

JOFFCV · 14/10/2022 09:26

I hate how nine people have been mauled to death by them this year, in the UK

You do realise more humans have killed another human than dogs this year. Also, there are many different breeds of dogs. These killer dogs aren't the norm.

Well we can't ban humans. We need each other. We don't need dogs.

Though if we could have an island for all the dog people to go to, I'd gladly send them off there, and see how they cope when they realise humans are the only ones who can treat them in hospital, or cut their hair, or fix their car.

Phrenologistsfinger · 14/10/2022 09:31

I love my dog wholeheartedly and would definitely save her over any human.

I don’t really like my own species as a whole so I would probably save most animals over most humans, particularly given the 70% decline in animal populations.

There are too many of us, we are selfishly destroying the planet for all life out of selfishness and greed. The fewer of us, the better imo.

Naunet · 14/10/2022 09:32

BobLobIaw · 14/10/2022 09:19

I hate dogs. I hate their stench. I hate their panting. I hate their energy. I hate their wagging annoying tails. I hate their filthy, lolling out slobbery tongue. I hate their shit, everywhere. I hate dog culture. I hate seeing dogs in restaurants and supermarkets. I hate how they bite people. I hate how nine people have been mauled to death by them this year, in the UK. Many more worldwide. I hate how they mean other animals must die, to feed them. (I'm vegan, no animal dies to feed me.). I hate how so many people have become so stupid about dogs. I hate finding their hairs in my hotel room. I hate their stupid eyes, especially when they are gunky. I hate the yapping, barking, whining, howling. I hate being jumped at. I hate that they try to knock my children over. I hate that they scrape their anuses across the carpet, where kids are then supposed to sit. I hate the sound of their scratchy claws on my fence, hearing them scrambling trying to dig through.

Yeah. I hate dogs. Vile, dirty, horrible man-made unnatural beasts.

So what about search and rescue dogs (because you know, dogs have saved the lives of many a human), guide dogs, medical alert dogs, drug detection dogs, army and police dogs, bomb detection, therapy dogs, sheep dogs, cadaver search dogs etc - get rid of them?

Quveas · 14/10/2022 09:33

saraclara · 14/10/2022 08:53

A dog will love anyone who owns it. They're entirely indiscriminating. Their 'love' and loyalty is based purely on you being their pack leader.

Is it a good feeling to have this loyal creature around that looks at you with adoring eyes? Of course. But get real. You could treat it horribly and it would love you just as much. If you died and it was rehomed it would love its new owner just as much. Dogs need to attach themselves to pack leaders, who these days are humans. It doesn't matter who they are, its nature. Hitler and Putin's dogs would love them too. Your dog would love Putin and any other dictator or criminal if it was their dog.

You clearly don't have a clue. Whatever "love" is (and looking at "love" between humans, that's a measure is it?) there is scientific evidence that dogs experience a similar chemical reaction with "beloved" owners. Dogs also experience fear of owners, and a range of other emotions. Children "love" (ie try to please) abusive parents. Dogs "love" (ie try to please) abusive owners. If you died and your children went to live with someone else, then they would come to love them just as much as they loved you (one would hope). And I am not comparing dogs and children per se, simply debunking your assumptions. My dogs are dogs. My children are children. I have provided them both with safe, healthy, caring / loving homes, but in entirely different ways. Because one set are cannines and the others are humans. The right things for the right species.

The pack leader thing is a Victorian construct that has been long debunked.

There is now a vast array of scientific study and evidence that dogs are, like horses and some other species, capable of complex emotions and feelings, and highly intelligent. My own breed of dogs are assessed, in intelligence terms, as having the same level as a 4-5 year old child - and that is again scientific fact. They can problem solve at a complex level.

The sole purpose of this goady thread is to create yet another opportunity for a group of people to have a go at dogs and dog owners because they hate dogs. We don't have enough of these threads on MN because there are only about 6 a day. They don't do a thing - they are here to allow keyboard warriors without a clue to rant and spew uninformed views because they wouldn't dare talk to people like this in real life.

If people don't like dogs, I'm fine with that. I don't expect it. But don't expect those of us who do to fall into line with your opinions either. And if you are going to try to argue your point based on facts, fact check the facts first. Perhaps if you understood more about dogs you might be very surprised at what you find out about them.

Septemberintherain · 14/10/2022 09:34

BobLobIaw · 14/10/2022 09:19

I hate dogs. I hate their stench. I hate their panting. I hate their energy. I hate their wagging annoying tails. I hate their filthy, lolling out slobbery tongue. I hate their shit, everywhere. I hate dog culture. I hate seeing dogs in restaurants and supermarkets. I hate how they bite people. I hate how nine people have been mauled to death by them this year, in the UK. Many more worldwide. I hate how they mean other animals must die, to feed them. (I'm vegan, no animal dies to feed me.). I hate how so many people have become so stupid about dogs. I hate finding their hairs in my hotel room. I hate their stupid eyes, especially when they are gunky. I hate the yapping, barking, whining, howling. I hate being jumped at. I hate that they try to knock my children over. I hate that they scrape their anuses across the carpet, where kids are then supposed to sit. I hate the sound of their scratchy claws on my fence, hearing them scrambling trying to dig through.

Yeah. I hate dogs. Vile, dirty, horrible man-made unnatural beasts.

Oh mate, that’s a shit load of hate for one human to carry about their lives. Perhaps a spot of therapy may help you? Poor you Flowers.

Naunet · 14/10/2022 09:35

BobLobIaw · 14/10/2022 09:27

Dogs spread diseases. Therefore they are vermin.

They also destroy crops, and are bad for the environment.

They regularly kill livestock.

They also sometimes kill humans.

https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLwxHkkaNsKOI_NeawXU3VrNXVcpbIHVA3

Then humans are vermin too, yes?

littlepeas · 14/10/2022 09:35

I love dogs and think that, in a lot of ways, dogs are better than humans - I definitely prefer my own dogs over many, many people. I would still save a human life first though.

Quveas · 14/10/2022 09:35

@BobLobIaw
Of copurse, there is always one example of why one should prefer dogs over humans.

LadyLothbrook · 14/10/2022 09:37

Adore my dog. He's my best friend but if it were him and a stranger drowning? I'm saving the stranger. It's the right thing to do.

ParentConfessionTime · 14/10/2022 09:37

ArcticSkewer · 14/10/2022 07:50

Better than strangers and on a par with family

First answer nails it for me

My dog has saved my life twice -when I was spiralling mentally after a diagnosis and when he made me visit a doctor after barking and scratching at me to alert me to a problem

He is my best friend and I treat him like family. I don't 'prefer' dogs to humans but I enjoy the company of the dogs I have had and loved them dearly

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 14/10/2022 09:39

countrygirl99 · 14/10/2022 08:19

Dogs don't put goady posts on Mumsnet which makes them much nicer than quite a few people.

Quite.

JOFFCV · 14/10/2022 09:40

Naunet · 14/10/2022 09:32

So what about search and rescue dogs (because you know, dogs have saved the lives of many a human), guide dogs, medical alert dogs, drug detection dogs, army and police dogs, bomb detection, therapy dogs, sheep dogs, cadaver search dogs etc - get rid of them?

Exactly.

@BobLobIaw What is your reply to this?

LadyLothbrook · 14/10/2022 09:41

saraclara · 14/10/2022 08:33

The OP wasn't about who you'd save, but how dogs are treated.
I'm pretty sickened by the whole 'treating dogs like children' think that's become pervasive. Dogs having whole wardrobes of clothes (my friends yorkshire terrier has a dozen outfits at least) etc. Shops are ridiculously expensive accessories and food, and dogs are generally being mollycoddled rather than being allowed to be dogs.
I have one acquaintance who definitely treated her dogs better than her children.

Agree with all this. Dogs should remain animal companians not dress up dolls and toys. My dog is out in the yard with me getting muddy all day. He'd be so annoyed if I tried dressing him in novelty clothes/hats/accessories. My sister has a bulldog that she dresses up and thinks it's funny when the dog sits facing the wall looking sad. I just think get a grip ffs. If you want a baby born get one, don't get a flipping animal.

littlepeas · 14/10/2022 09:41

BobLobIaw · 14/10/2022 09:19

I hate dogs. I hate their stench. I hate their panting. I hate their energy. I hate their wagging annoying tails. I hate their filthy, lolling out slobbery tongue. I hate their shit, everywhere. I hate dog culture. I hate seeing dogs in restaurants and supermarkets. I hate how they bite people. I hate how nine people have been mauled to death by them this year, in the UK. Many more worldwide. I hate how they mean other animals must die, to feed them. (I'm vegan, no animal dies to feed me.). I hate how so many people have become so stupid about dogs. I hate finding their hairs in my hotel room. I hate their stupid eyes, especially when they are gunky. I hate the yapping, barking, whining, howling. I hate being jumped at. I hate that they try to knock my children over. I hate that they scrape their anuses across the carpet, where kids are then supposed to sit. I hate the sound of their scratchy claws on my fence, hearing them scrambling trying to dig through.

Yeah. I hate dogs. Vile, dirty, horrible man-made unnatural beasts.

You are extremely naive if you think no animal dies to feed you. You might not eat their flesh but animals definitely die in the production of crops. The production of all food causes harm to a living being somewhere along the line.

decafsoyaflatwhite · 14/10/2022 09:46

BobLobIaw · 14/10/2022 09:27

Dogs spread diseases. Therefore they are vermin.

They also destroy crops, and are bad for the environment.

They regularly kill livestock.

They also sometimes kill humans.

https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLwxHkkaNsKOI_NeawXU3VrNXVcpbIHVA3

If you’re taking the definition of vermin to be something which spreads disease, then almost all animals and humans are vermin.

They might destroy crops if they walked through a field, I guess. My dog quite likes to eat grass, but he’s yet to develop a taste for crops.

But do you not like dogs then? I must have missed that in your earlier post…

Septemberintherain · 14/10/2022 09:47

BobLobIaw you are fully aware the 9 poor people per year, who are mauled to death by dogs have sadly done so because these dangerous dog breeds were actually bred by humans, are raised to be vicious by humans and badly treated by humans??
And please don’t even start on the ‘no animal has died for my diet’ shit. Unless you actually forage for your own pesticide free vegetation then you are way too high up on your high horse.

Naunet · 14/10/2022 09:52

Septemberintherain · 14/10/2022 09:47

BobLobIaw you are fully aware the 9 poor people per year, who are mauled to death by dogs have sadly done so because these dangerous dog breeds were actually bred by humans, are raised to be vicious by humans and badly treated by humans??
And please don’t even start on the ‘no animal has died for my diet’ shit. Unless you actually forage for your own pesticide free vegetation then you are way too high up on your high horse.

Absolutely this!
Also, if you removed dogs, the number of lives they’ve saved this year (or any year) outweighs the number of people they’ve killed, so there would be more dead humans, not less.

FrangipaniBlue · 14/10/2022 09:52

So if you had the choice to save the life of a stranger or your dog, which would you save ?

Depends whether it's my dog or a random dog?

With a dog, you're in charge.

You've never met my dog, I am NOT in charge 😂😂