Inspired by another thread about people not always being financially as able to leave home due to rising costs. How happy would you be for your child to still live with you if they are in their 30s?
AIBU?
How many of you would be happy for your children once they reach adulthood to still live with you?
Chloefairydust · 09/10/2022 19:39
Am I being unreasonable?
145 votes. Final results.
POLLoldestmumaintheworld · 09/10/2022 19:50
Leaving home is a rite of passage for children and parents and I believe is essential for both of them to have a healthy adult relationship. It's difficult if your child is disabled or has special needs but even then most will get there in the end.
CecilyP · 10/10/2022 11:24
As much as I would selfishly love to have DS around forever, I would be really concerned if by 19-20 he wasn't keen to spread his wings and move out and forge his own path in life. You learn so much from that independence about yourself, how to care for yourself, the world, relationships etc.
I think what you might learn is just how rubbish private renting is! Spreading your wings and moving away for work or uni is one thing, renting a bedsit 5 minutes from your parents house quite another.
iwishihadabox · 10/10/2022 10:24
@oldestmumaintheworld
Leaving home is a rite of passage for children and parents and I believe is essential for both of them to have a healthy adult relationship.
It's difficult if your child is disabled or has special needs but even then most will get there in the end.
This is such ableist bullshit.
Stompythedinosaur · 10/10/2022 12:29
I hope, for their sakes, that they live as independent adults. Living with parents after a certain age seems to stop young adults developing the skills they need.
But I think I'd be delighted personally as I cannot imagine how painful I will find not seeing them every day!
tickticksnooze · 09/10/2022 19:59
Other cultures manage to have healthy relationships in multi-generational households.
oldestmumaintheworld · 09/10/2022 19:50
Leaving home is a rite of passage for children and parents and I believe is essential for both of them to have a healthy adult relationship. It's difficult if your child is disabled or has special needs but even then most will get there in the end.
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