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To ask for a handhold I feel so alone

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elm26 · 06/10/2022 23:21

I'm due to have a 6/7 week scan tomorrow after multiple miscarriages (double figures) and I've got period like cramps and bleeding.

I've been bleeding on and off for 2 weeks, no clots.

I feel so alone and I just want to cancel my scan in the morning. Time and time again I've sat in that waiting area, I've had to listen to the "I'm sorry" words, I've had to sit in the family room with a useless leaflet about miscarriage and a box of tissues.

I'm not religious but I could really do with some positive thoughts being put out there for me tonight, I'm not sure I can endure another loss 😢

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Maharajah20 · 23/08/2023 19:09

Absolutely gorgeous 🥰
Thanks for showing us your beautiful daughter, its lovely to see happy endings x

Pantsinthewash · 23/08/2023 19:24

Oh she's lovely, so glad to read your update.

Tillybobbins · 23/08/2023 19:28

What an absolutely beautiful little girl. Thank you for sharing a photo.
🩷

TheMerryWidow1 · 23/08/2023 19:57

Oh she is so gorgeous x u lucky thing x enjoy every moment xx

twoandcooplease · 23/08/2023 19:59

Adorable @elm26 🩷🩷

Adarajames · 23/08/2023 20:01

Awwwww 😍

EscapeFromHubby · 23/08/2023 20:34

Thank you for sharing another update & pic of Tilly. She is beautiful ❤️

spiderlight · 23/08/2023 20:44

Hello, smiler!! So adorable. That pic has cheered me up so much (pre-exam-results nerves!!) - it's lovely to hear that she's thriving! 💕

Americano75 · 23/08/2023 20:57

Ah, she's gorgeous! What a wee cracker.

elm26 · 23/08/2023 20:57

Thanks everyone! I'm loving being her Mum, so magical after never thinking I'd be able to have children 🩷

Good luck @spiderlight!! 🤞🏻xx

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thaegumathteth · 23/08/2023 21:12

She's adorable!

FreezingThyme · 23/08/2023 21:35

What a beautiful, happy looking little girl. I’m so happy for you OP . Thanks for sharing.

Purplebunnie · 23/08/2023 22:24

Aww she is absolutely gorgeous. Thank you for sharing her with us

Newtrix · 23/08/2023 22:28

What a little beauty 😍

CuriousMama · 23/08/2023 22:47

Oh she's scrumptious 😍

Dontjudgeme101 · 23/08/2023 23:24

She’s so cute op. 🥰

cathcath2 · 23/08/2023 23:47

Aww she is lovely x

nettie434 · 24/08/2023 06:35

What a fantastic update! Tilly is absolutely lovely.

TheMousePipes · 24/08/2023 12:47

❤️Glad all is going well for you all. She’s lovely!

JanieEyre · 25/08/2023 19:15

Oh, Tilly is absolutely lovely! Many congratulations! Fascinating to see what a gorgeous baby that little bean in the scans upthread has become.

elm26 · 09/11/2023 21:35

Hi MN Aunties!

Tilly is almost 6 months and the light of our lives. She is a happy, content, giggly baby who loves the teletubbies theme tune, laughs at doing "horsey horsey" on our laps, fascinated by our dog and laughs if he brings her a toy. She loves mirrors and anything sparkly (like her mama 😉). We went to Portugal in September and she slept both plane journeys! She is a joy and I can't quite believe just how much I love her. She is a daddy's girl through and through and beams at him when he comes home from work and picks her up for a cuddle.

Here are some new photos ☺️

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To ask for a handhold I feel so alone
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elm26 · 09/11/2023 21:39

Holiday!

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frecklejuice · 09/11/2023 21:41

Tilly is the most perfect little baby! She is beautiful and it's so lovely to see her grow, enjoy every second xx

slowquickstep · 09/11/2023 21:48

Beyond gorgeous💖

Peridot1 · 09/11/2023 21:48

So gorgeous!