What is a house share etiquette between young/mid professionals?
I am 41 and am training to be a physio. The only position available was over 180 miles away. Because its a part time position, I have now decided to House share whilst in this location. My days off I will be obviously commuting back home. Its 3-4 days per week.
I am a tad nervous..never houseshared before. I live with my partner and 4 year old but needs must and the cheapest place I found was a 5 bed with 4 other house mates (all professionals)
I have introduced myself on the WA group but wanting to form good relations, there may be times my partner comes up with our 4 year old. Do you think this will be OK? Is there an etiquette for guests? As she is after all a 4 year old lol.
I thunk I am just getting worried..is it generally OK to bring guests round? Do you need to book out the kitchen for instance ? Sounds silly but the kitchen is small, probably wouldn't fit more than 2 people in there. I know I will obviously find this out as I go along but wanting to make good impressions firstly before I start asking 101 questions.
Thank you.
AIBU?
House share! Never done it before..Etiquette?
nurseye · 05/10/2022 13:10
Am I being unreasonable?
112 votes. Final results.
POLLHermioneAndRoger · 05/10/2022 19:11
I’d be more concerned about regularly putting the poor kid through a 6-7 hour round trip. If you really have to go away for this placement then you have to make the most of the 3-4 days that you are home each week. Don’t schlep the child up and down the country for the sake of a few hours with you.
dailyfup · 06/10/2022 18:03
Don’t think OP’s coming back
They'll be back alright - in a few months time, with a name change and a new thread
"AIBU Housemates have complained about my husband and 4-year old daughter staying on Wednesday nights a couple of times a month. They said it was ok when I checked in a WhatsApp group before I moved in. Now they are being passive aggressive and huffing at us when we are simply trying to enjoy a family meal in the living room. One of them complained because there was hardly any hot water left and that my DD had splashed water on the bathroom floor but she just loves bathtime play. What else am I supposed to do? I don't want her missing out on time with me. AIBU?"
pattihews · 05/10/2022 19:12
Yes, I would have felt pressured to say yes, it's fine if the landlord had said it was. But I'd be thinking grrrrrrrr.... If there's a caravan go there and have a mini-holiday. So much better for everyone.
DrDetriment · 05/10/2022 13:54
I think you need to stay somewhere else when your child visits. It's not really very fair to your housemates to take over the communal spaces and also expect them to put up with a shrieking 4 year old.
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