I’m exhausted here so this may be a bit more self pitying than I mean it to but I’m on my own all weekend and for large chunks of the week as well. Husband works away a lot. Even when he’s home he’s in that headspace where he’s thinking of work if you like. Then at weekends there’s always something that needs doing.
I am a bit low after endless walks in the park to look at the ducks on my own. And other friends are with their husbands and partners having family days out. I was trying to think of a way round this and single parent groups seemed a possibility but id probably just piss then off?
AIBU?
To see if there’s any groups for single parents even though I’m not a single parent
Onmyownbutnot · 01/10/2022 19:00
Am I being unreasonable?
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POLLSpinningFloppa · 01/10/2022 20:40
Yes this would annoy me too, I see posts on here saying they are lonely so I click on them as I can relate only to find out they have a husband but he’s just working so they feel lonely and I stop reading as a single parent as can’t really relate, I’ve been on my own for 5 years, Literally completely alone, so it would annoy me if someone joined a single parents group only to find out they wasn’t.
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Speedweed · 01/10/2022 19:30
I am a solo parent, and one of the most maddening things is someone with a partner who is involved, paying their way and merely busy, claiming that their situation is in any way analogous to mine. I wouldn't be impressed if I started chatting to someone at a single parent group who then revealed they weren't actually single or solo parenting.
Outside of that situation, I would be sympathetic to another mum (whether single or not) who said they were bored and lonely and wanted to make friends with other mums to do activities with the children.
It's just something about the invasion of a space that's not for you which feels a bit disingenuous. What about going to different children's groups (church and library groups are often free) and seeing if there is anyone you click with?
MissMaple82 · 01/10/2022 21:01
Whst kind of groups are you thinking of?
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