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AIBU to not have the 4th covid jab ?

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clovid · 29/09/2022 21:04

I've had all my covid vaccines up to date. I also had covid a few months ago.. I think I can get the next vaccine too if I want it. I was a bit surprised to be invited again..

Covid was just like a cold for me.

I'm 35, have MS ( not on any medication and I don't really have any symptoms apart from fatigue ). So no disability from it, no trouble walking or anything in my body- except fatigue.

I don't really want to have another vaccine. Is that unreasonable ?

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CaptainBarbosa · 30/09/2022 00:07

Yeah I've been offered one because of my career/job, I'm 32, I won't be having it.

I had astrazenica 2 doses was fine, then I had that spikevax/moderna one, bloody hell I was rough after that one! Never again.

I've not had covid, never caught it, tested daily for work and I was frontline working with covid + people before there was a vaccine. Everyone else around me caught it not me.

But also oddly nobody in my immediate family has had it either, me, my mum, my nan, my son or my brother. Despite loads of people around us testing positive 🤷🏻‍♀️

My brother's wife was positive and he lived with her still didn't get it.

My mother's a secondary school teacher too, she was like the only staff member in at one point because she never tested positive 🤣

Maybe we have like a random family immunity 🤣

starfishmummy · 30/09/2022 00:07

Jut had mine. Slightly sore arm - had flu jab at the same time and that arm is worse.

5zeds · 30/09/2022 00:08

Are you having your flu jab @clovid ?
If so why not the Covid jab?

If not are you just anti all vaccines?
If you didn’t have the vaccine would you expect the same anti virals etc if you caught Covid that you had before or would you refuse treatment then too?

Nat6999 · 30/09/2022 00:08

If you have MS you are eligible for the antiviral drugs if you get covid, my exh had tested positive twice this year & has had them twice, I would still have the covid jab as a precaution. Are you on disease modifying drugs for your MS?

NicolaSixSix · 30/09/2022 00:12

rickandmorts · 29/09/2022 23:13

I saw a link on another vaccine thread that advice had changed but can't find it now. Can anyone help?

Also would like to know why the midwife advised against it? I've already had a booster when I was 14 weeks pregnant and being told to get another (I'm 31 weeks now) but I'm reluctant.

@rickandmorts sorry I didn’t tag you to the other post

www.nhs.uk/conditions/coronavirus-covid-19/coronavirus-vaccination/pregnancy-breastfeeding-fertility-and-coronavirus-covid-19-vaccination/

HansZimmerframe · 30/09/2022 00:14

I'm really surprised at the number of people putting their foot down at the thought of having to get another vaccine. It's quite refreshing to see people starting to wake up to this utter nonsense. They don't work. There are serious risks that were firstly denied and now starting to come out of the woodwork.

The people that chose to question their safety and decided against getting them during the first round were bullied, called disgusting things, labelled anti-vaxers, had friendships ruined, banned from social media platforms and silenced. And now so many people saying enough is enough.

I have a question for those of you who are saying no to this booster - how would you feel if in 6 months you were all considered unvaccinated and you were risking the health of the entire country by mixing in public. You were banished from some public places, and barred from going on holiday unless you were forced to get the jabs required (could be one or more) to bring you up to 'fully vaccinated' status again?

Seems pretty bonkers doesn't it??

stayathomegardener · 30/09/2022 00:14

@Thatboymum interested to know which neurological condition was triggered?

Berlinlover · 30/09/2022 00:15

I haemorrhaged after getting the booster. I’ve no intention of getting another vaccine.

MrsFezziwig · 30/09/2022 00:16

rickandmorts · 29/09/2022 23:55

Okay thank you. I found this screenshot on an article but not sure on its validity. Looks like a legit screen grab but can't find it on any gov websites

Was there a date on the screenshot? I think it would have been the correct advice when the vaccines first came out but has been superseded now. WHO advice from August 2022 also tallies with greying’s link.

Srx1 · 30/09/2022 00:19

@rickandmorts I'm 34 weeks also unsure what to do

@Berlinlover as in you had a period or?

Felixfeather223 · 30/09/2022 00:19

clovid · 29/09/2022 22:03

Oh dear 😅

@clovid so that response was pretty direct! but I think realistically you have to weigh the benefits and risks of getting Covid again versus getting another vaccine rather than the risks of getting vaccine versus not getting vaccine or Covid.

I think if it’s on offer to you it will be for a good reason. Your immunity from both vaccination and infection will have waned and will continued to wane significantly through the winter. With each reinfection of Covid your risk of long Covid seems to increase, I imagine long Covid could be particularly difficult for you given your main MS symptom is fatigue. The rates of infection are very high and likely to remain so, so there’s both a good chance you could get it again, and a increased risk of long Covid, and probably increased inconvenience if you already have a long term illness.

In terms of risks, all medical interventions have real risks and typically short term side effects, but if you didn’t suffer a severe reaction before the chances are very good that you won’t have a severe reaction again.

Personally I got another booster and a flu shot because I really wanted them in advance of a hospital stay. No side effects, just a sore arm. I’m not particularly at risk of complications but I know a few people who have long Covid and it just doesn’t feel worth the risk to me. However, that’s just me, as a general rule I am extremely pro vaccine, I’d probably take any I was offered because I think they are the best and safest medical interventions ever invented and the diseases they protect against are usually fairly consequential. I think if you got long Covid this time round you’d probably really regret not getting the booster.

Berlinlover · 30/09/2022 00:20

Srx1 · 30/09/2022 00:19

@rickandmorts I'm 34 weeks also unsure what to do

@Berlinlover as in you had a period or?

I’m 46 and don’t get periods anymore.

Felixfeather223 · 30/09/2022 00:22

Tha · 29/09/2022 23:23

Oh behave yourself. Medical professionals used to cover us in leeches, they're not all-knowing gods.

I didn't take it because I didn't see a need for it. Same as I wouldn't walk around wearing a suit that's 99% effective at preventing death if I'm struck by lightning, because I don't feel like I'm at risk of being struck by lightning. Shite analogy since the vaccine isn't anywhere close to 99% effective but there you go. Is that arrogance or making common sense decisions about MY OWN BODY?

People who are actually at risk should crack on, and maybe if more people thought that way we wouldn't see pensioners with walking sticks stood queuing in shopping centres for hours, despite having appointments, to get them!

@tha fun fact, leeches are still used for microsurgery, they are very effective

Thedogscollar · 30/09/2022 00:22

SwordToFlamethrower · 29/09/2022 22:28

I'm pregnant and my midwife advised against it.

As a midwife can I ask why? I have seen women end up in ITU extremely ill with covid.

That is seriously worrying advice she has given you unless there is a very good reason for it.

AuntTwacky · 30/09/2022 00:24

Yes

Unicorn2022 · 30/09/2022 00:24

Sounds fine to me.

I've never had a covid vaccine, never had covid and currently working abroad for a few weeks with no requirement anymore for vaccination status or lateral flow testing.

MrsMorrisey · 30/09/2022 00:25

HansZimmerframe · 30/09/2022 00:14

I'm really surprised at the number of people putting their foot down at the thought of having to get another vaccine. It's quite refreshing to see people starting to wake up to this utter nonsense. They don't work. There are serious risks that were firstly denied and now starting to come out of the woodwork.

The people that chose to question their safety and decided against getting them during the first round were bullied, called disgusting things, labelled anti-vaxers, had friendships ruined, banned from social media platforms and silenced. And now so many people saying enough is enough.

I have a question for those of you who are saying no to this booster - how would you feel if in 6 months you were all considered unvaccinated and you were risking the health of the entire country by mixing in public. You were banished from some public places, and barred from going on holiday unless you were forced to get the jabs required (could be one or more) to bring you up to 'fully vaccinated' status again?

Seems pretty bonkers doesn't it??

Yes. Thank you.

VanillaImpulse · 30/09/2022 00:25

SwordToFlamethrower · 29/09/2022 22:28

I'm pregnant and my midwife advised against it.

All the people saying this midwife is an idiot might want to look up the information on the gov's own website about the safety of the vaccine for pregnant women. The midwife is actually staying up to date with knowledge!

www.gov.uk/government/publications/regulatory-approval-of-pfizer-biontech-vaccine-for-covid-19/summary-public-assessment-report-for-pfizerbiontech-covid-19-vaccine

AIBU to not have the 4th covid jab ?
SpidersAreShitheads · 30/09/2022 00:26

MrsFezziwig · 30/09/2022 00:02

How I’ve missed these threads! Proper nostalgic, even down to people being called sheep, and random illnesses being attributed to the vaccine.

I had my booster last week (Moderna bivalent). I’m in my late sixties so at slightly increased risk of just about everything. Felt a bit rubbish for 24 hours then fine. Don’t really care whether other people have it or not, I thought it was only being offered to the over-50s anyway so half the people on this thread won’t be offered it anyway.

It does make me sad that polio and measles which were both eradicated in the UK are now making a comeback.

I completely agree @MrsFezziwig - my two DC are autistic so we have been arguing for years against the bullshit “MMR jab causes autism” nonsense, and now this.

I’m classed as a carer for my two, so I get offered the covid jabs. I’m 46 so would t qualify otherwise - I am grateful to have the opportunity of the extra protection.

MrsFezziwig · 30/09/2022 00:26

HansZimmerframe · Today 00:14
I'm really surprised at the number of people putting their foot down at the thought of having to get another vaccine.

No-one has to put their foot down because surprise surprise, it’s not compulsory.

MrsMorrisey · 30/09/2022 00:27

MrsFezziwig · 30/09/2022 00:26

HansZimmerframe · Today 00:14
I'm really surprised at the number of people putting their foot down at the thought of having to get another vaccine.

No-one has to put their foot down because surprise surprise, it’s not compulsory.

It is in Australia in Health

pensionconfusion · 30/09/2022 00:28

I've just had my 4th. Felt ok. The usual sore arm and felt tired for a couple of days but having seen a couple of people with long covid I would rather have the vaccination.

HansZimmerframe · 30/09/2022 00:28

MrsFezziwig · 30/09/2022 00:26

HansZimmerframe · Today 00:14
I'm really surprised at the number of people putting their foot down at the thought of having to get another vaccine.

No-one has to put their foot down because surprise surprise, it’s not compulsory.

🙄🙄🙄 ok, let me clarify so you understand...

Going against the grain. Does that make more sense for you?

Meili04 · 30/09/2022 00:29

If I was you and I had MS I would have it. Personally I won't have another booster unless forced by work because I've felt terrible after every jab. It's unlike any other vaccine I've had and I have the flu one annually for work.

MrsMorrisey · 30/09/2022 00:30

So is it perfectly acceptable to mandate Covid vaccination in health?
And don't use the argument that others are compulsory. That's fine cos they work!
Australia has massive nurse shortages and are importing Asian nurses who can't speak English well. That's ok?