I think lots of people have an aversion to trying vegetarian or vegan food, because of similar misconceptions that have been trotted out on here. Sometimes they try it only in order to find criticism that its not exactly the same as meat.
I think that sometimes, these people will actually eventually be in a situation where they try it with an open mind without expecting it to be identical and are then actually pleasantly surprised. Very much so. Sometimes they are surprised to even find it to be absolutely fine and tasty, even if they dont prefer it to meat, but they realise that its not actually a hardship.
Theres lots of families that have both vegetarians and meat eaters in them and they arent balking every time they have a veggie bolognese or vegetarian curry.
Loads of people that couldnt tell the difference between quorn dippers or chicken nuggets.
No idea why its so polarised or why people are so rude about vegetarian food.
I had a temporary dairy intolerance a few years ago and it was honestly so weird the comments I got when i just mentioned that id found a nice vegan cheese!
So defensive