Right, but can you see how someone (I don’t think it was actually me) suggesting ideas for food that isn’t meat, then being met with “ew, cold beans and lentils!” is frustrating? I can accept that I find this particularly annoying because it happens so often - people dismissing vegan food as just being lettuce/beans/etc etc and not giving it a chance. Perhaps that wasn’t what that poster was saying.
I can honestly say I’ve never tried to change someone’s mind on being vegan. Maybe that’s wrong and I should be, but I don’t see the point when people won’t listen to suggestions without immediately shutting it down. Plus, what people eat is very personal to them.
I’m not being defensive. Maybe take that up with the people who have banged on about how they will absolutely 10000% never consider changing their diet because they “like chicken” and “won’t be told what to do”.