Meet the Other Phone. Only the apps you allow.

Meet the Other Phone.
Only the apps you allow.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

School blazer

132 replies

HaudYerWheeshtYaWeeBellend · 07/09/2022 18:47

Ds has been given a 90 min detention today as he did not ask permission to remove his school blazer during his first lesson today.

The school uniform has only just changed this year (today is their 1st day back) to a jumper/blazer.

In Y7 uniform was a polo shirt and jumper , Y8 uniform changed to a white shirt and tie and then this year Y9 to a shirt, tie jumper and blazer.

NOTHING is in the school policy that you have to request verbal permission to remove the school blazer when in class.

Ds form tutor mentioned nothing to the pupils today about blazer etiquette.

Ds took his blazer off as it was aggravating his eczema however was immediately told off and was given the detention and behaviour points, he tried to explain/show the teacher his skin however was told to stop asking and do his work.

Ds has a rare form of eczema and will now require a course of steroid treatments, the school is fully aware of his medical history (anaphylaxis allergies and skin conditions) also this teacher is fully aware of his medical history as she has taught him since Y7 and also had to administer ds his emergency care plan during a lesson last year.

Tbf im between angry and annoyed, it’s the first day of schooling and of course everyone makes mistakes/over cautious but then this teacher has caused ds condition to flare up and ignored his pleas when trying to explain he was hurting and uncomfortable, I don’t find this acceptable.

Tomorrow I will be requesting that his school nurse provide a pass to remove his blazer, he shouldn’t need to openly discuss his medical condition in front of his peers! in fact my personal opinion is that no child should be forced to sit in a jumper/blazer if they are hot.

AIBU to refuse to allow ds to attend the detention? tomorrow and phone the school to request they amend their school policy to reflect uniform etiquette?

OP posts:
Magenta82 · 11/09/2022 09:25

alrightfella · 11/09/2022 09:22

Ok I didn't realise that a care plan would be that detailed it would mention heat effects on excema. I'm not a teacher!

If overheating can lead to hospitalisation then the adults responsible need to be aware so they can act appropriately. Anything this serious would obviously be included, as well as more mild issues.

Sunnyqueen · 11/09/2022 09:29

alrightfella · 11/09/2022 09:05

Whilst I agree that the situation needs dealing with and it may be best that she doesn't teach your son in future I do think that she was probably not aware that him having to keep his blazer on would lead to this.

Regardless, if teachers and schools would just chill out on the regime mentality this sort of thing wouldn't happen in the first place. Hopefully the school and particularly the teacher learn a big, big lesson on power tripping.

Glad your son is on the mend op, sounds like you are doing the right thing taking it further.

Soubriquet · 11/09/2022 10:51

I’m glad your ds is ok.

I hope the school take you seriously

faw2009 · 11/09/2022 10:51

I am so glad your son is feeling better.

Definitely no blazer in future and make sure all staff know. (My son was accused of wearing black jeans by one teacher as he had black cotton school uniform trousers!)

And if the eczema is like my son's, the stress of being told off and getting detention would have made the skin worse. I still can't believe the utterly ridiculousness of the teacher's actions!

I don't have experience of complaining higher to school about such an important health issue and teacher conduct. I hope you get some top advice here, but the amount of stress, time, chaos, resources, etc that this has resulted in. Maybe write it all down for yourself and seek legal advice.

jumperoozles · 11/09/2022 11:05

If the care plan states about him needing to take off his blazer etc and clearly lays out the need then absolutely action should be taken.

I just cannot believe if she knew what the effects would be she would ever have refused him unless she truly is a really nasty piece of work. What does your DS think about it all? Is he really angry too?

Maybe a meeting needs to be arranged first with you, the teacher and SLT to talk through exactly what happened and the impact on your son and based on the responses to that take your complaint from there and how far you take it?

So sorry for what’s happened - it sounds like it’s been such an awful week and all because of a stupid, stupid rule!

lunar1 · 13/09/2022 19:26

I hope your son has been discharged home 💕

HappyKoala56 · 14/09/2022 18:29

How is your son OP?

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread