Sorry you're disappointed @Bellysmackers
I actually like very plain window treatments and chose roman blinds for exactly that reason, and think with a few small tweaks to break up the expanse, you could be pretty happy with it.
I agree with the pps who have said that roman blinds almost always look better when slightly raised. Do you need to have it come all the way down, or could you raise the bottom six inches or so? Most of mine are made of very sheer, unlined linen, so I have remote controlled blackout shades behind that we can put down for more privacy.
I also agree that you would be happier with it if it was mounted inside the window recess. It might be worth asking your curtain maker how difficult a fix that would be.
I wonder if making the seams, where the pulleys attach behind the shade more obvious would give it more of a sense of movement? With mine, what they seem to have done is do visible stitching where the stiffer pieces attach vertically along the back. As you can see, I'm quite the technical curtain making wizard, so I'm going to attach a few photos so you can make sense of what I'm trying to say 😂
My phone is washing the colours out of everything, but these should give a general idea. First is sheer, second is heavier opaque fabric.
I hope you figure out something that makes you happy!