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To think if I don't wear heels to an office job then what?!

110 replies

NewJobSoNewName · 27/08/2022 18:07

Because flat "smart" shoes look so weird and crap on me.

But I can't wear heels as will have a lot of walking around campus.

It's been YEARS since I worked in a "smart" office.

What do you guys wear on your feet with skirts and dresses please?

Are sandals ok?

Private hospital office - a very posh one.

First day I'll do black trousers and black flat loafers. But the black loafers look so twattish with skirts and dresses.

OP posts:
Hotandbothereds · 27/08/2022 18:08

I just wear trainers now, but our office is very casual and nobody wears heels at all.

Can you check out everyone else’s shoes when you start for inspiration??

SpeckofDustUponMySoul · 27/08/2022 18:09

What type of sandals are you thinking of, OP?

Hesma · 27/08/2022 18:09

Never sandals in a professional environment but flats are perfectly acceptable

Mol1628 · 27/08/2022 18:10

I always wear doc martens shoes but they’re probably not the style you’re going for.

Howmanysleepsnow · 27/08/2022 18:13

I have no idea, so following for inspiration. I was literally just attempting to find new work shoes online and I work in a very similar setting to you.
I don’t want clumpy shoes or ballet pumps, and sandals/ heels are out but I’ve no idea what will work besides loafers (which I’m not a massive fan of…)

oviraptor21 · 27/08/2022 18:14

Watching with interest.
I can get away with structured sandals in the summer but for autumn and winter - what then?

audweb · 27/08/2022 18:17

I mean I can wear any shoes in my office job, by then my CEO was in wearing trainers the other day. I’d probably be in smarter shoes if I was meeting external people but even then I could wear sandals. Why don’t you just scope out what other people wear? I definitely came in thinking I had to be smarter than I actually had to be.

FriendOfDorothyGale · 27/08/2022 18:17

Pointed ballet pumps.

Not sure if they go with skirts, but I wear dresses every day for working it goes with them.

Libertyqueen · 27/08/2022 18:18

I wear smart ballet flats. I have various colours. Look fine with skirts and dresses.
Like this, although mine weren’t quite as pricey.
Smart flats

laurzf1 · 27/08/2022 18:19

I have the same issue! Ballet pumps feel so flimsy to wear. And sandals a bit exposed. I'm trying out loafers, there's some nice styles in primark last time I looked. They're a bit more sturdy than ballet pumps but can still look dressy.

GoldPig · 27/08/2022 18:19

Ballet flats or brogues

EATmum · 27/08/2022 18:20

Flat loafers day to day with a couple pairs of heels in my drawer for when I have meetings. No pressure to wear heels but sometimes it makes me feel more put together.

Darkness22 · 27/08/2022 18:23

Loafers, brogues or ballets.

Keep trainers and heels in desk.

mackthepony · 27/08/2022 18:25

Depends on your role really

ShinyMe · 27/08/2022 18:25

I wear Docs with everything at work. Both boots and shoes. The boots are less smart with a dress obviously, but I feel smartish in the shoes.

EmmaGrundyForPM · 27/08/2022 18:27

I used to work in a non clinical role in a hospital. All staff had to wear closed toe shoes so smart sandals weren't acceptable. I usually wore smart trousers with loafers, or dresses with ballet pumps

georgarina · 27/08/2022 18:27

My office is v casual so trainers, sandals or Chelsea boots, but otherwise ballet flats.

gwilt · 27/08/2022 18:29

A small comfortable heel works well for me. A Chelsea boot or brogue would be good.
I've just bought the £29.59 Chelsea boots from M&S but you can get fancier ones.

Greenandcabbagelooking · 27/08/2022 18:29

I’m a teacher, and I wear black brogues, or various black or brown boots.

Itsbeenabadday · 27/08/2022 18:31

You can get some chunky loafers for wearing with trousers...can pull these off with a skirt as well if you're confident with that look. Or there are some less chunky loafers with tassels that are good with a skirt. Or get some confy heels that aren't too high. I love Office for work shoes x

ChrissyShenkle · 27/08/2022 18:31

Ankle boots go with everything

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 27/08/2022 18:32

I think you only think loafers and other flats don't work because you're not used to wearing/seeing/styling them.

I've never worn heels due to an ankle injury as a teenager, general style and working on construction sites. For smart office shoes, I wear brogues and loafers, with trousers and dresses. I've been back in the office a year now though, and have mostly worn trainers and more casual shoes.

It's a brave new world of flats!

Notateacheranymore · 27/08/2022 18:33

My feet are quite different sizes, so I struggle with anything slip on. I also hate heels as I’m far heavier than my feet would like. So I go for Clark’s brogues or Mary Janes if I need to look smart. I don’t think twice about if they “look twattish”. Remember, your view is different to everyone else’s, so I reckon the world thinks you look fine.

VeridicalVagabond · 27/08/2022 18:35

Sort of depends on your style. I've got a few pairs of chunky Mary Jane's that I swear by, they are heeled but the platform means they're still very comfortable for walking all day.