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To not want to be friends with fire signs

319 replies

Lordylord1 · 18/08/2022 22:22

I know if I read this I would probably think I was crazy.
but it’s dawned on me I don’t get on with fire signs! I like them as aquaintences but I always feel let down by them
as im quite deep and emotional and I find fire signs to be about image abs quite hard hearted.

all my failed friendships are with fire sign ladies - have I finally gone cuckoo lol

OP posts:
SleeplessInEngland · 19/08/2022 16:49

I think there's something in it

There isn’t, other than believing it so much you treat people with certain star signs the way you think they deserve and thus make it a self fulfilling prophecy.

Pugdogmom · 19/08/2022 17:04

I used to be interested in this stuff years back, but think now it's all a bit woo. Good as a bit of fun though, but not to be taken too seriously. 😉
Apparently my sun is in Aquarius with a Capricorn Moon and Aries rising. Am also a Dragon in Chinese Astrology. DH is a Pisces also with a Capricorn moon and Aries rising. Possibly why we get on, because Water signs are usually a bit emotional for me. And DD3 is a Scorpio/Sag cusp, DD2 is a Pisces and DD1 is Leo.

I'm doomed...😅

oceanbleu · 19/08/2022 17:08

Ooh someone do me! This is so interesting to me. Pisces, Moon Aquarius and rising Scorpio. I've been reading this thread chuckling to myself as I love this type of thing but the comments have been funny. Thanks OP

whumpthereitis · 19/08/2022 17:11

djdkdkddkek · 19/08/2022 15:13

@whumpthereitis

sun in aries has been accurately described above. Also really warm go getters. The sun is your ego.

cappy moon - super ambitious and really successful. They tend to be go getters and don’t deviate once they have a goal. Difficult to show emotion publicly though. Can sometimes mean problems with your mum. Scorpio and Capricorn moons are the most difficult to have. Scorpio because they’re too emotional and capricorns because they struggle to show emotion. Your moon is your emotional regulations and stuff.

rising is Scorpio so you appear like a typical Scorpio. Vixen, sultry, mysterious, sexy. You prob have a strong stare! Bit Scorpio is the sign of transformation so it’s kinda like a phoenix so I’m not surprised that you change yourself when you feel it’s necessary. Scorpio is a brace sign like that. Happy to go beneath the surface.

if you have a Scorpio rising your sun is maybe I’m your 6th house (I’m guessing I could be wrong because it depends on the orb number). 6th house is the sigh of work and service. So if you have Aries there then you are a worker bee bit super dynamic. Prob very very fit?if it’s in your 5th house it’ll behave a bit like a Leo sun if you know what I mean

I assume your moon is in either your 2nd or 3rd house. 2nd is about yourself, your possessions, your self esteem etc so you emotions are tied to what you own including how you see yourself and how you value yourself. You feel good when you have stuff or are feeling important. Moon in tne 2nd is like a Taurus moon. If it’s in the 3rd it relates to communication and how you process info. So you prob like talking about your feelings rather than actually feeling your feelings if they makes sense. It’s a Gemini house

Aspects can change houses/signs

so Aries and Capricorn square do you maybe have difficulties with how your emotions are concerning your ego
nayne your Aries sun wants to like shout and screen and be angry and your Capricorn moon wants you to think about how they looks to others
tho Capricorn and Scorpio are sextiles they work nicely so how you seem to others is a decent reflection of how you’re feeling

is this way too woo woo or of base? Sorry if that’s intrusive too

Moon is in 3rd. That makes sense, talking rather than feeling. I consider emotions a private affair, I’m not public with them at all. I honestly don’t know if people can read my mood, outside of my husband and best friend. I have been told I have an intense psycho stare. I do analyze myself, and I don’t like to justify or make excuses for myself if I’ve fucked up somewhere (if it’s behavior based in this instance). I’d rather tackle the issue and work on making the necessary adjustments.

My mother I do struggle with at times, she’s very different to me and that does bother her. She thought she would have more in common with her daughter. She’s a Pisces, incidentally.

Sun is in the 6th house, yes. I am active and I like to keep fit. I can be very strict with my exercise regime, and hold myself to a high standard when it comes to achieving goals.

My Lilith is in Leo. Not sure where that ties in but it’s on the natal chart I’ve just done (hello cafe astrology). Will have to do some reading on that one!

djdkdkddkek · 19/08/2022 18:33

@whumpthereitis glad I wasn’t super far off
love it!!

djdkdkddkek · 19/08/2022 18:35

@ShitPuffin
really???
can I ask you something silly
do you have lots of friends? I have lots of people who like me but sometimes I feel like I’m fooling them. It’s this really odd feeling that I don’t deserve my mates and that they might see the real me soon. But I’m pretty much the same (morning times I’m naturally bitchier)
yessss astrotwin!!

djdkdkddkek · 19/08/2022 18:35

oceanbleu · 19/08/2022 17:08

Ooh someone do me! This is so interesting to me. Pisces, Moon Aquarius and rising Scorpio. I've been reading this thread chuckling to myself as I love this type of thing but the comments have been funny. Thanks OP

I can do it tomorrow if you wanted? Or drunkenly this evening lol

djdkdkddkek · 19/08/2022 18:37

DameHelena · 19/08/2022 16:25

Someone do me!
I'm Sagittarius sun, Cancer moon and Gemini rising.

Had my birth chart done in depth years ago and all my other planets, IIRC, were in Sagittarius too. She said it was like having all your eggs in one basket and, and I quote, 'Sagittarius is a pretty big basket.' Grin

I can if you like tomorrow??

@ImAvingOops
gou can check places like cafe astrology
or even just Google natal chart :)

AllPlayedOut · 19/08/2022 18:41

I'm very logical, practical and feet on the ground so emotional dreamy people get on my nerves!

Very logical but you believe in astrology? Right.

ImAvingOops · 19/08/2022 18:43

@djdkdkddkek thanks

LydiaBennetsUglyBonnet · 19/08/2022 18:47

Is anyone else seriously embarrassed for the people who genuinely believe that the 4-week period in which you were born makes you exactly the same as every other person born within that period. But completely different, and possibly incompatible, with someone born 1 day outside that period?

Fucking grow up. If you don’t get on with lots of people stop blaming signs and maybe have a bit of self reflection.

SeaGreen9i · 19/08/2022 18:55

The thread was turning out to be quite pleasant as well. What a shame.

WhileMyGuitarGentlyWeeps · 19/08/2022 18:57

LydiaBennetsUglyBonnet · 19/08/2022 18:47

Is anyone else seriously embarrassed for the people who genuinely believe that the 4-week period in which you were born makes you exactly the same as every other person born within that period. But completely different, and possibly incompatible, with someone born 1 day outside that period?

Fucking grow up. If you don’t get on with lots of people stop blaming signs and maybe have a bit of self reflection.

Wow you are really rude. I think you need a snickers. You're not yourself when you're hungry.

Lordylord1 · 19/08/2022 19:13

Conchersbonkers · 19/08/2022 10:07

I love this thread. Please can we have more nutso threads like this? It's all too serious. Sag here. Sending fiery argumentativeness and much love to op.

I solemnly vow to do just this.
i shall accept your fiery argumentativeness love, sending back my intense emotional love back right at ya

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Lordylord1 · 19/08/2022 19:16

oceanbleu · 19/08/2022 17:08

Ooh someone do me! This is so interesting to me. Pisces, Moon Aquarius and rising Scorpio. I've been reading this thread chuckling to myself as I love this type of thing but the comments have been funny. Thanks OP

Lol glad you like it. It’ was just generally me trying to make sense of stuff and then noticing a pattern. Slightly tongue in cheek, but I do believe in birth charts. I’m rather amused at those who are so offended by it. But im glad for those who like it. Even the saggi’s and Leo’s 😜

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BiscuitLover3678 · 19/08/2022 19:17

😂 I don’t know anyone who fits their horoscope but there you go.

VestaTilley · 19/08/2022 19:55

Oh are you talking about star signs?!

YABU. It’s all made up bollocks.

PeloAddict · 19/08/2022 20:42

@djdkdkddkek if you have time Grin

I'm Aries with Virgo rising and moon in Sagittarius

LydiaBennetsUglyBonnet · 19/08/2022 21:53

When I first saw the thread title I thought of this. I wouldn’t wanna make friends with an inanimate object either 😂

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