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To think it's odd that our first 'Period Dignity Officer' is a man?

276 replies

Bobby80 · 16/08/2022 21:21

So pretty much what the title says. The first Period Dignity Officer has been appointed and they are male. One one hand I'm thinking 'WTF' and the other I'm thinking this is a very good PR stint/opportunity to actively involve men in the conversation.
male Period Dignity Officer

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Topgub · 16/08/2022 23:38

think being a man will help me to break down barriers, reduce stigma and encourage more open discussions. Although affecting women directly, periods are an issue for everyone.

Fuck off Jason

FayeGovan · 16/08/2022 23:42

DobbyTheHouseElk · 16/08/2022 22:11

What made him even apply for the job? What was going through his mind?

36k

Oinkypig · 16/08/2022 23:44

@FayeGovan but apparently someone on here thinks it was such a shit job only a man would apply…….

because it’s well known men take all those shit low paid, low status jobs women avoid because they can get a post paying £36,000, oh wait….

FayeGovan · 16/08/2022 23:50

Im bored with the shit talked here. I take it none of you have ever seen a male gynecologist or male midwife? So what if its a man doing this stupid job, the outrage should be that there's a job explaining period dignity in the first place.

Oinkypig · 16/08/2022 23:56

@FayeGovan Midwives and obstetricians go through training programs to deliver specific care and are registered with professional bodies holding up standards to protect women and girls when they are at their most vulnerable. How can you not see this post is totally different?

Oinkypig · 16/08/2022 23:58

@FayeGovan I’m not sure if the fact you describe this job as stupid better or worse?? Anyway you sound very hard of thinking I hope you manage to overcome that soon

DdraigGoch · 17/08/2022 00:00

FelicityFlops · 16/08/2022 22:02

When can we expect the first female shaving poverty officer?

Women do shave as well though. And arguably it's more expensive to do so, thanks to the "pink tax" on razors which are otherwise identical to the blue ones (obviously there's no reason that you have to buy pink instead of blue, but evidently enough people will be tricked into it that it's worthwhile).

Watapalava · 17/08/2022 00:06

Why does filling some forms, monitoring schools to make sure they provide pads etc require someone k be female?

honestly?

it’s a check list job

it’s same as checking risk assessment’s

Same as checking no of toilets per pupil

it doesn’t require any understanding of periods full stop

it’s about promoting access and ensuring compliance

Bunnyfuller · 17/08/2022 00:07

I thought equality? Or is it only as far as we want it?

Luna42 · 17/08/2022 00:08

To those who keep saying "But it's a policy job" Leading a team and applying a policy( ie writing and actioning through procedures and leading a team) means it helps if the person actually has some fucking LIVED experience of what the policy is there to address.

MsRosley · 17/08/2022 00:09

User48751490 · 16/08/2022 22:02

Give him a chance before you chastise him. Poor guy hasn't even been in his post a week and you are all ready to stick the boot in. He might do well.

Well done for entirely missing the point.

Watapalava · 17/08/2022 00:12

Nope

all it’s required is someone to ask ‘do you have xxxx no or pads and tampons?’ Yes or no answer

we don’t need someone to have experience periods at all to ask a question!!!!

it’s ridiculous Over thinking

the level of hysteria is so detrimental for women

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 17/08/2022 00:12

Luna42 · 17/08/2022 00:08

To those who keep saying "But it's a policy job" Leading a team and applying a policy( ie writing and actioning through procedures and leading a team) means it helps if the person actually has some fucking LIVED experience of what the policy is there to address.

This is barely applied anywhere in any other form of project management. For good reason.

colouringindoors · 17/08/2022 00:16

SquirrelSoShiny · 16/08/2022 22:23

Omfg. That quote has made me hate him. Literally hate him. I'm currently losing my mind thanks to perimenopause and if my husband or any man tried to make the horror all about them and the impact on them / the workplace I would not be held accountable.

Thus 100% its f&£k8ng offensive.

Oinkypig · 17/08/2022 00:19

@Watapalava how do you suggest a man promotes period inclusion? At least they go to the toilet to figure out how many toilets there are.

This role has been promoted so clearly within the department it’s seen as new and different and not “just” counting sanitary towels. The fact this man has been promoted with his role is part of the reason it’s so wrong. When was the last time we heard about a hearing person being appointed to a role involing the hearing impaired being splashed across national media as a “good” thing. Only women and girls have periods and if there need to be a champion it needs to be a women or girl

Tritewelshlady · 17/08/2022 00:23

I would hope that he uses his role to talk to men and boys about how they need to change their attitude and awareness towards periods. Leave the rest to women.

Oinkypig · 17/08/2022 00:25

@XDownwiththissortofthingX totally disagree the best policies are always devised in partnership with those who use them? Like yes I could write a policy all about prostate cancer and it could tick all boxes for time lines and access but ultimately I no fuck all squared about it so not the person to develop it. They do need to be objective and independent but that’s a different thing

Oinkypig · 17/08/2022 00:25

Know not no 🤦‍♀️

MarshaMelrose · 17/08/2022 00:33

All it’s required is someone to ask ‘do you have xxxx no or pads and tampons?’ Yes or no answer. We don’t need someone to have experience periods at all to ask a question!!!!

They're paying £36,000 just to ring round and ask that question? Blinking harry. I got less than that as a qualified teacher! Mind you, I was a woman teacher - maybe that's the difference? 🤔

Cyclemarine · 17/08/2022 00:39

He could just have been part of the team with a woman supervising him, but in a classic move rooted in patriarchy they decided to make him head of the team when it’s already known that men in predominately female staff teams tend to rise to the top quicker. We can see why.

I have looked at his cv and he doesn’t seem particularly well qualified for this either.

Why was it advertised for such a short time as well? Seems a bit suspicious and I wonder if they knew him and had already decided the role would go to him . Either way this kind of thing is very discouraging to women and personally I wouldn’t like to work on this sort of project with a male manager.

Cocolapew · 17/08/2022 00:41

Here he is with some other man mansplaining showing a girl and her mum choices of sanitary products.
That's not just ringing up schools to check their supply of pads and tampons 😒

To think it's odd that our first 'Period Dignity Officer' is a man?
kelsie2878 · 17/08/2022 00:42

The oddity is not a man as a Period Dignity Officer, it is a Period Dignity Officer. Period!

Oinkypig · 17/08/2022 00:50

@Cocolapew I agree, as a young women/girl I don’t want a man to explain sanitary products to me. This is abuse of young women and girls being expected to speak to a man about their periods.

semideponent · 17/08/2022 00:57

I disagree. It's not just a checklist job. Things are being conflated here. There's basic bodily safety - that's a policing job - how do we provide 50% of the population with safe spaces for that? Period dignity - that's cultural, not a policing job so much as the matriarchy, women opening time and space for women as women.

WrongWayApricot · 17/08/2022 01:04

Topgub · 16/08/2022 21:40

Wtf is a period dignity officer?

Lets you know if you've leaked, I imagine?

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