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To think it's odd that our first 'Period Dignity Officer' is a man?

276 replies

Bobby80 · 16/08/2022 21:21

So pretty much what the title says. The first Period Dignity Officer has been appointed and they are male. One one hand I'm thinking 'WTF' and the other I'm thinking this is a very good PR stint/opportunity to actively involve men in the conversation.
male Period Dignity Officer

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bevelino · 16/08/2022 22:32

I wonder if it was a man who interviewed and appointed him. Bet it was.

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 16/08/2022 22:35

He's an ex-PT. He's not a doctor. He's not a gynaecologist. Why should any woman feel safe discussing something so intimate with him? What makes him qualified?

It's a Local Authority project management role. There's no need whatsoever to have a doctor or gynaecologist fill it, and I highly doubt he's going to be anywhere near any scenario that involves face to face intimate discussions with individual women about the specifics of their periods. There are other people, including women, on the team.

neverwakeasleepingdragon · 16/08/2022 22:35

bevelino · 16/08/2022 22:32

I wonder if it was a man who interviewed and appointed him. Bet it was.

You say that, but...

"Jason will be employed by the project team comprising Dundee and Angus College, Perth College, Angus Council and Dundee City Council in what is the first role of its kind in Scotland.

...

The Period Dignity Working Group comprises Katie Baxter (Dundee and Angus College), Shelley Hague (Angus Council), Jill Brash (Dundee City Council) and Deborah Lally (Perth College)."

It sounds a lot like women let him walk into this role.

HRTQueen · 16/08/2022 22:50

It’s a fucking disgrace

and the more threads about this the better so as many as possible are informed

HRTQueen · 16/08/2022 22:53

I am aware there are women in this team

a woman and I mean a female should lead this team

what sort of man would think he is the right person to 🙄

PanicAtTheDisco2000 · 16/08/2022 22:56

The job was advertised for 9 days, 4 of which were weekend days. Stinks of him
being a shoe-in. Do you think he’d dare come on a mumsnet live chat!!

BarbaraofSeville · 16/08/2022 22:57

It would be interesting to see the shortlist of candidates and what the interview process was like for him to be chosen as the best person for the job.

Likely that any female applicant could bring at least a decade's worth of personal experience of having periods and several examples of times when she's either suffered or worried about suffering lack of dignity due to having her period.

What could he offer to beat that?

PollyRockets · 16/08/2022 22:58

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 16/08/2022 22:35

He's an ex-PT. He's not a doctor. He's not a gynaecologist. Why should any woman feel safe discussing something so intimate with him? What makes him qualified?

It's a Local Authority project management role. There's no need whatsoever to have a doctor or gynaecologist fill it, and I highly doubt he's going to be anywhere near any scenario that involves face to face intimate discussions with individual women about the specifics of their periods. There are other people, including women, on the team.

This in spades

PollyRockets · 16/08/2022 22:59

Ravenblack1 · 16/08/2022 22:16

Some people have FWR hidden.

It's good it's being discussed elsewhere

For good reason

Dinoteeth · 16/08/2022 22:59

A great big publicity stunt. WTF do we need a period compliance officer?
Women have been having periods for billions of years.

PollyRockets · 16/08/2022 23:00

neverwakeasleepingdragon · 16/08/2022 22:07

I thought if there was a valid reason for it, certain jobs could be designated as female only. This seems to be an obvious one...

It doesn't matter whether women and girls should feel comfortable talking to a bloke about periods. The point is, many of them don't. Why put an additional barrier in place there?

The job is supposed to be about period dignity. There's no dignity in a young lass having to talk about her periods with this man.

He's an ex-PT. He's not a doctor. He's not a gynaecologist. Why should any woman feel safe discussing something so intimate with him? What makes him qualified?

"Although affecting women directly, periods are an issue for everyone. We’ll also raise awareness of the menopause, which, although a natural process for women, has wider repercussions in the world of work and family."

He may be well-meaning, but the above quote gets my back up. Periods and the menopause are awful for women. No man gets to claim a fraction of that suffering.

Just as I'll never understand what it's like to piss standing up, no man will ever understand what it's like to be a teenage girl bleeding through her clothing.

But he doesn't need to understand

You clearly have 0 idea about what this job is

Watapalava · 16/08/2022 23:03

I’m pretty sure this isn’t the only part of his role

people need to get a grip

man or woman - does matter - he’s making policy and enforcing it now showing kids how to insert a tampon fgs!!!

HelloBunny · 16/08/2022 23:05

Never heard of this role... I thought you meant in work. Like, a bloke who keeps the tampons in his desk drawer & runs to the shop for chocolate.

PollyRockets · 16/08/2022 23:06

Watapalava · 16/08/2022 23:03

I’m pretty sure this isn’t the only part of his role

people need to get a grip

man or woman - does matter - he’s making policy and enforcing it now showing kids how to insert a tampon fgs!!!

This

People are getting worked up over a role they have no idea about (as otherwise they wouldn't be worked up about it)

It's a glorified project management role

IHeartPepsi · 16/08/2022 23:07

Period dignity officer? What the fuck is the world coming to?!

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 16/08/2022 23:07

Dinoteeth · 16/08/2022 22:59

A great big publicity stunt. WTF do we need a period compliance officer?
Women have been having periods for billions of years.

Because it's now law in Scotland that sanitary products are supplied free of charge, so there is a requirement to have someone oversee this and ensure that the law is complied with.

A lot of Scottish LA's have been supplying free sanpro for a while now in any case, but before now there has never been a legal obligation for them to do so.

This is no different to the legal compulsion upon LA's to supply any service. It requires management and oversight.

Rainbowshit · 16/08/2022 23:08

We only had a few years where women and girls were allowed to be centred in issues that apply only to females. The males have found a way to speak over and for us again.

So many blind fools cheering it on.

HRTQueen · 16/08/2022 23:09

well he feel his gender will help with his role

and his role shall also cover dealing with the menopause

his experience is corporate and he certainly doesn’t have life experience as many women suitable for the role would

PollyRockets · 16/08/2022 23:09

Rainbowshit · 16/08/2022 23:08

We only had a few years where women and girls were allowed to be centred in issues that apply only to females. The males have found a way to speak over and for us again.

So many blind fools cheering it on.

Do you actually even know what this job entails

It's a projects and compliance role

Not teaching 8 year olds how to use sanitary products

HRTQueen · 16/08/2022 23:10

Rainbowshit · 16/08/2022 23:08

We only had a few years where women and girls were allowed to be centred in issues that apply only to females. The males have found a way to speak over and for us again.

So many blind fools cheering it on.

Absolutely agree

maddening · 16/08/2022 23:11

What diversity is there in periods?

Krabapple · 16/08/2022 23:12

This honestly makes my blood boil! The only safe spaces I have felt happy discussing periods and now menopause are female only. This just feels like nothing is sacred any more!

maddening · 16/08/2022 23:12

Oops it's dignity.

There must have been more appropriate women available for the role.

HRTQueen · 16/08/2022 23:14

yes I have read what the role involves (or what has been in the number of articles)

why do you want think his gender will help ?

The job advert said the suitable candidate needed a "successful track record of engaging and empowering a large range of people from a diverse range of cultural and socio-economic backgrounds, in particular young people who menstruate".

he worked for the tobacco industry before

ffs people who menstruate 🙄

CrossStichQueen · 16/08/2022 23:14

I think the fact he has made the comment that him being male means he will do a better job than a woman as it will break down barriers etc is a very sexist thing to say. Women have being fighting for better period and menopause support for decades and achieved so much but this dude believes he can do it better cos he's a man.
I wouldn't want anyone with that attitude writing policy and compliance that deals with a female only issue.