Partner wants me to pay for his car when he’s working full time

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So me and my partner both work. I have my own business and we use universal credit to top up. Before my partner went back to work after being on the sick we were just on universal credit and my business was just starting. We used the universal credit to pay for his car and I have always used my money to pay for my own car. We live together and have a child and another one due very soon. So now my partner is back at work full time earning £850 a week, he still wants me to use the universal credit to pay for his car, this goes in my bank to top up my wages and Iv been using it for our child’s needs, food, and buying baby things. So now after giving him the money for his car (£420 a month finance) and £170 insurance, it’s joint insurance and it’s high because he got points for speeding twice in 1 year. I’m left with not enough to buy the bouncy chair, swing, or crib. However he’s got two accounts with a fair amount in each.

am I wrong for saying He should be paying for his car now he’s earning more than enough! We do drive each other’s cars and are on each other’s insurance. But I pay my own car and own insurance I’d never ask him to pay my insurance even though he drives my car all of the time, and I pay my own fiancé which is not even half of what his is! He knows we need this baby things and hasn’t even offered to buy anything and he knows our child still needs uniform and hasn’t offered to buy these either, even when I said oh I don’t get paid again until a week before he goes to school and that’s leaving it a little late to get the rest of the uniform as it may be sold out then.
i don’t know if I’m just super hormonal or if he’s just being very greedy with his money!

Government expenditure for benifits in 20/21 is around 212 billion pound....
That's some pot of money to find.
Many make it a life style choice, and yes we all know of someone milking the system.
Maybe the benifits system needs a big overhaul.

Is everyone really about to get up in arms about the completely imaginary benefit claims of trolls? 🫤

By most of the threads on here, they seem to care more about being outraged at a non-existent event than engaging their minds in the slightest and think hmm...maybe not everything is as it seems

BTW, more than half the annual figure is pensions and disability benefits, then another chunk in child benefit, but people love to quite the big headline figure as though it’s all going on stereotypical chav activities like tattoos and sky tv.

It's threads like these that make people vote Tory.

You had children with a booty call 🙈, you live near his gym, how very convenient for him, pop the gym, get his rocks off go back home and carry on like nothing has happened. I'm just sad this is the standard of men women are willing to have children with, indeed he pops round for 2 hours a "nyt" urgh.

It's threads like this that make some people think those on benefits are actually pulling this shit and living it up instead of understanding that most people on benefits are honest people in bad situations who are struggling and would dearly love to have a better paid job or have a job.

There are people without disabilities who don’t earn £850 a week. It doesn’t sound like his disability has hindered his earning potential much.

Having “my money” and “his money”, “my car” and “his car” isn’t a partnership. It’s a flat mate that you’re making babies with.

I’m going to assume this thread is as equally fake as all the OP’s previous threads.

You can’t afford a car that costs £600 pm before you turn the key.

tell your dp it needs to go, he buys a cheap second hand car and pays for it himself.

if you’re on UC it’s not to pay off a huge car loan!