This is exactly my point, there's a huge difference between being "pro women" and being "anti-trans." I'm very, very concerned that you're twisting what I said, which is that people who are actively anti-women's rights are using the fact that they are also anti-trans to pretend they somehow pro-women when they are not.
Think of all the far right wing politicians who want to ban abortion, treat women who have miscarriages or stillbirths as potential criminals, outlaw essential epilepsy medication because it could hypothetically be used to induce an abortion, ban birth control. Even certain male politicians who have been accused of rape and wife beating have been given the "gender critwashing" treatment. People with a right wing agenda and people who hate women and want to steal our rights are exploiting us GC women's legitimate concerns over gender ID as a way of making deeply misogynistic beliefs and political policies that actively hurt or could kill women more palatable, and try to brainwash us into supporting men who hate us and want to reduce us to chattel on the grounds "at least they know what a woman is."
NO. I will never ever support a rapist, a wife-beater, or someone who wants to ban abortion, just because they're against self-ID. I will never ever stop standing up against the gaslighting and attempts to convince GC women that we should support abusive misogynistic men.
This Jerry Sadowitz thing is an excellent example. By all accounts he went out of his way to not make any jokes about trans people, trans people are apparently the ONLY group he didn't target (why oh why do so-called "edgy" comedians treat trans people as some special group on a pedestal?) There's not a single report, review, tweet anywhere that says his act even mentions trans people; I've seen tweets and reviews from people who attended the show confirming that he doesn't mention trans people once in his act; and "transphobia" is suspiciously missing from the list of things he's accused of, which is weird since everyone and their aunt gets accused of transphobia nowadays.
Female audience members have been harassed and subject to verbal abuse and even groping by fellow audience members (I have a friend who went to see one of his shows, and he directed a stream of racial slurs to her directly when she was the only non-white person in the audience). The audience are encouraged to get wasted. You really think an audience of drunk rowdy blokes who have been ramped up and egged on to think that women are just holes are going to understand the difference between "ironic racism" (or "satirical misogyny") and actual racism/misogyny?
The content warning says this: “strong language and themes some may find distressing." Where in that warning does it say "you might be called a racial slur and have a dick shoved in your face"?