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SayNoho · 02/08/2022 17:22

So DH ALLOWED us to book a holiday last week and now he is saying he doesn’t want to be together, he went out all weekend again and I treated him ‘badly’ whilst he was there as I was struggling with COVID and both kids were poorly (2 and 5) he couldn’t get any signal and I needed some support. Anyway, he said on the back of the way I treated him he doesn’t love me anymore, still not wants to go away and has been flirting with me all day, now he is saying he loves me but doesn’t like me. I’ve asked him if there is somebody else and he says there isn’t, I believe him honestly he would just tell me at this point I think. I am getting the vibe that he wants me be affectionate to him but then he is shutting me down? I’m really confused, please help

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AcrossthePond55 · 04/08/2022 01:42

SayNoho · 03/08/2022 20:41

Can I just ask what he means when he says I need to drop my expectations, he says if I didn’t have any expectations I wouldn’t always be let down?

What he means is that if you have no 'expectations' of him, then he can do and say whatever he wants and you will have no right to be angry or disappointed.

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