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Does anyone wear their bra in bed

197 replies

dottypotter · 04/07/2022 18:08

I don't. I know someone who wears a soft bra in bed?

Do you wear your bra in bed?

OP posts:
ShirleyPhallus · 04/07/2022 18:22

MaxOverTheMoon · 04/07/2022 18:20

No and I only have one friend who does. I take my bra off as soon as I can and regularly go out without one if I can get away with it. Free the boobies and all that.

I’d love to know what market research or survey you conducted to know for sure that only one of your friends wears a bra to bed 😆

QueSyrahSyrah · 04/07/2022 18:25

Yes (sometimes) but soft bralet / crop top styles, nothing with underwires or stiff fastenings.

teaandtoastwithmarmite · 04/07/2022 18:26

No I don't and I have pretty big boobs

MaxOverTheMoon · 04/07/2022 18:34

@ShirleyPhallus have you never had conversations with your friends about whether you sleep naked or not? Gosh me and my friends send each other pictures of our period poos, talking about naked sleeping is nothing!

blessedbethebutter · 04/07/2022 18:35

Definitely not.

AllThingsServeTheBeam · 04/07/2022 18:37

I don't wear a bra at all, soft or otherwise.

Each to their own. My friend wears a sports type one to bed

Fayekrista · 04/07/2022 18:40

Only in the early months of breastfeeding because of the need for pads... the day I stopped leaking like a sprinkler I got that bra off!
In fact, I only wear a bra if I'm leaving the house! Still on mat leave so not too bad. Of I do nip out (pun intended 🤣) then I'll pop one on, soon as I'm behind closed doors it's off again! Bit like shoes really!

Hillrunning · 04/07/2022 18:41

I wear soft sleeping bras yes. I would not be able to sleep without one. Boobs everywhere!

FlissyPaps · 04/07/2022 18:42

No. Never. & I’m a 32F 😂

BackOnTheBandWagon · 04/07/2022 18:42

Arthurbear0306 · 04/07/2022 18:10

I started wearing a bralette to bed during early pregnancy as my boobs were so sore! 2 years later I’m still wearing one as I find it far more comfortable

Same here

Mamadothehump · 04/07/2022 18:44

Nope. Teeny, tiny ones. I wear a crop top type one if I go away with friends to cover the nips!!

Greyingmumto3 · 04/07/2022 18:44

Soft bra here , ( no wires ) also big boobed

CuriousCatfish · 04/07/2022 18:47

No, I can't wait to take my bra off.

Staters · 04/07/2022 18:47

Always wore a normal bra with underwire for bed until I got pregnant. Then wore nursing bras in the last 3 months of pregnancy and continue to wear them now for bed 4 years later.
I never understood why some women would take their bra off as soon as they got home (my 2 closest friends always do this) as I was never uncomfortable, now I’m uncomfortable after only a couple of hours in an underwired bra.
So any recommendations for non wired bras for a 32e size would be greatly appreciated x

MiniMoosey · 04/07/2022 18:47

I am because I’m breastfeeding but I hate it. I never used to wear a bra at all!

tobi21 · 04/07/2022 18:50

Only time I wore a bra in bed was after the birth of my DS and my boobs were massive and sore after my milk came in. After that never again. Best feeling ever taking the damn thing off Grin

WarmJuly · 04/07/2022 18:52

No. I'm huuuge and it's a relief to take it off. Also I'm so sore underneath, it's good to get some air on them.

Tothepoint99 · 04/07/2022 18:53

FawnFrenchieMum · 04/07/2022 18:12

Yes I wear a soft bralette type thing. Big boobs flapping about and DH laying on a stray nipple isn’t fun!

Ouch!!

Notimeforaname · 04/07/2022 18:53

Nope. No bra in bed . But thats because I have zero curves, anywhere. Probably dont even need the bra during the day if I'm being honest 🤣

YourLittleSecret · 04/07/2022 18:55

I was told to by breast surgeon after lumpectomy. I don't though. I'm pretty flat chested and I wouldn't wear a bra at all except it hurts not to.

TheChosenTwo · 04/07/2022 18:55

Often! I usually sleep totally naked though, my bras are comfortable and I hate not wearing one, would never ever take it off when I got home, my tits would be hanging out the bottom of whatever I was wearing on top, even a floor length dress 😂

TheGraceFace · 04/07/2022 18:57

Christ no! But of course most on MN do, & their knickers 🥺

Jazzapples1 · 04/07/2022 19:00

32 F here so always wear a non wired bra in bed. Too uncomfortable without. Staters, lots of nice bras without underwires in M&S.

Yodaisawally · 04/07/2022 19:01

No, but I can see why it would be more comfy I had big boobs.

SpringIntoChaos · 04/07/2022 19:02

I take mine off the second I arrive home from work...can't stand wearing one!