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To think 2 weeks is an unusually long summer holiday?

410 replies

PrettyLittleCryer · 23/06/2022 18:22

How long do you take off on holiday if you go away over summer - particularly if you work full time?

I think half a month is a long time to expect to just walk out of a job and them to carry on without you.

But is that what most people take?

OP posts:
AlpineSue · 24/06/2022 18:30

Blimey I am glad you aren’t my boss. Two weeks is totally normal.

RedCardigan · 24/06/2022 18:34

Any doctor would bite your hand off for 2 weeks. They make it so during training unless you have exceptional circumstances like you’re getting married, they only let you take 1 week and 4 days to stop people taking 2 weeks. Friends say it’s horrendous.

AnnieSnap · 24/06/2022 18:34

This seems like an especially provocative question for a thread. Two weeks leave for an annual holiday has been the norm for decades!

londonmummy1966 · 24/06/2022 18:34

My contract used to require me to take 2 consecutive weeks off whihc was a PITA given I only had 4 weeks in the first place. It was thought likely that any problems would come to light in 2 weeks but not 1. Once I made partner I was expected to take a 12 week sabbatical every 6 years.

Redshell1976 · 24/06/2022 18:35

Two weeks is perfectly normal and not at all unreasonable. I don’t know anyone who doesn’t take a two week holiday at some point during the year.

Longleggedgiraffe · 24/06/2022 18:38

Two weeks is perfectly normal. If your employer genuinely can’t manage for two weeks at a time without you, there’s something seriously wrong with them or their business plan.

SarahJane83 · 24/06/2022 18:38

Completely normal. A lot of people love to travel, but how are you supposed to see the world if you take a one week trip once a year. You need 2 weeks for places in Asia, Indian Ocean, Caribbean and USA. So taking 2 weeks off work is completely reasonable.

Mandyjack · 24/06/2022 18:42

2 wks is normal for a summer holiday. I've just had 3

LIZS · 24/06/2022 18:43

DH has to take two weeks at some point for compliance reasons. No job role should fall apart fur a two week absence.

TieYourTrampolineDownSport · 24/06/2022 18:44

I spent 18 yrs working for an American company, for an American boss, in the UK. Yes they will raise their eyebrows but DO NOT give away your right to at least two weeks in one stretch. It is shown that this is how long it takes to decompress effectively. You will always be replaceable at work you ( and your well being ) are not replaceable to your loved ones and yourself. Many other countries take 3 or 4 weeks as normal. If US companies want to do business here this is the cost they must pay.

Justbefair · 24/06/2022 19:06

Usually a week or 10 days, rarely 2 weeks. X

Tillow4ever · 24/06/2022 19:09

PrettyLittleCryer · 23/06/2022 20:39

It's an American based company I work for so maybe that's part of the difference. It really is viewed as unusual to hand off your workload for that long to someone else on the team - a lot can't be handed over anyway so basically just has to go on hold for 2 weeks.

I work for a huge American company - most people will take 2 week breaks (although whenever they want, not just in the summer).

i usually only take a week at a time because we don’t go away at all, and it breaks the year up a bit more (I also have 28 days holiday plus bank holidays so I get a decent amount of breaks this way). Plus in my role there is no cover at all - it’s better for me to only have a week to catch up on!

amitoooldforthisshit · 24/06/2022 19:14

do people really still take 7-14 days in one place? I feel this is quite old fashioned in the age of mini and city breaks

Inanun2 · 24/06/2022 19:19

SandyWedges · 23/06/2022 18:25

Some places insist you take 2 weeks in a row at some point as a fraud prevention measure

I used to work in a bank and we were required to take 2 weeks together for this reason. They only removed this rule around 10 years ago I think, maybe a little longer.

RevoltingHumanHead · 24/06/2022 19:20

amitoooldforthisshit · 24/06/2022 19:14

do people really still take 7-14 days in one place? I feel this is quite old fashioned in the age of mini and city breaks

eh?

it's really not.

I've even heard a rumour that some people manage city breaks and mini breaks and a fortnight's holiday...all in the same year!

that1970shouse · 24/06/2022 19:22

RaininSummer · 23/06/2022 18:27

How does it prevent fraud? 2 weeks is normal though andy employer prefers it.

If someone takes their leave a couple of days at a time then most often their work will be left for them to come back to, or the person covering doesn't have time to investigate any discrepancies - they'll probably say when the fraudster gets back "I noticed x which seems a bit odd" and the fraudster says "Oh yes I forgot to mention that, the invoice is to follow, it's all approved, don't worry about it."

If they are off for 2 weeks it's more likely that the person covering will spot the dodgy transactions and flag them up to management.

coffeecupsandfairylights · 24/06/2022 19:26

amitoooldforthisshit · 24/06/2022 19:14

do people really still take 7-14 days in one place? I feel this is quite old fashioned in the age of mini and city breaks

Of course it's not old-fashioned.

Lots of people want to travel long-haul and visit family/friends overseas.

SW1amp · 24/06/2022 19:26

amitoooldforthisshit · 24/06/2022 19:14

do people really still take 7-14 days in one place? I feel this is quite old fashioned in the age of mini and city breaks

You find it ‘old fashioned’ that people might want to go to a long haul destination, with time differences and long flights?
Or ‘old fashioned’ to not want to repack a few times during a break

Its more mins boggling that you think city breaks are a modern invention that would somehow render a traditional holiday obsolete..!

Margerine78 · 24/06/2022 19:28

2 weeks is standard, they say it takes one week to properly relax so the second week is when people are properly getting the benefits. Plus days are spent travelling. I'm taking 3 weeks off this summer after 8 years of never getting a break (self-employed) and sod anyone who tells me that's excessive, cannot wait!

BalloonsAndWhistles · 24/06/2022 19:32

SandyWedges · 23/06/2022 18:25

Some places insist you take 2 weeks in a row at some point as a fraud prevention measure

What?? How does it prevent fraud??

LaughingCat · 24/06/2022 19:32

Just finishing up a two week holiday here myself 😊. It’s perfectly normal - one of my team just came back from a month in New Zealand. We handled things just fine without her. With a proper handover and the whole team having an in-depth knowledge of what each other are all working on…there’s no real issue.

Mellowyellow222 · 24/06/2022 19:33

BalloonsAndWhistles · 24/06/2022 19:32

What?? How does it prevent fraud??

It allows someone else to come in and do your job while you are away. It’s quite common on financial institutes. Actually good practice. Means you can’t cover things up to avoid detection.

Mellowyellow222 · 24/06/2022 19:35

There is a good article on it - but honestly people aren’t making it up 😂😂

www.economicvoice.com/beat-fraud-with-a-2-week-summer-holiday/

THEDEACON · 24/06/2022 19:40

Two weeks is standard in Scotland lots of places close completely for the Trades Fair Fortnight even now

Primprom · 24/06/2022 19:46

Completely normal! Poor Americans having to put up with this kind of attitude...