It honestly is very heartbreaking, I definitely couldn’t imagine what the family are feeling. I’m not in the UK so have only recently seen this piece of news.
It’s a very difficult decision to withdraw life support. On one hand you have medical experts giving low hope of recovery (but not zero hope) and you don’t want to prolong the child’s suffering. But on the other hand, there have been several incidents (and recent incidents too, within the last 3 years) where people have been declared brain stem dead with further deterioration, who have then woken up by some miracle and they’ve fully recovered with a good quality of life.
Zack Dunlap was being prepared for organ donation, he woke up.
Trent McKinley (I think was his name), was again ready to be prepared for organ donation when he woke up.
Lewis Roberts, a couple of years ago, again being prepped for donations, woke up.
Scott Marr - his family told there was no hope of life, again he came round. These are people who have woken up and lived. Lived a decent quality life, not ‘living’ in vegetive states.
There have been people who’ve been in comas for years (like 20 plus), who have been declared scientifically dead with no hope of survival, who have regained consciousness and some of which have gone on to live relatively or completely normal lives.
So that’s what makes it so so difficult. I’m not sure what I would do so I definitely can’t sit at home and judge a parent for believing in hope. Doctors, scientists and judges do sometimes make bad calls. They’re not always right. Of course, the majority of the time they are, but gosh, so hard. For everyone.