My partner and I are planning a wedding for this December, this is of course quite a fast turnaround (due to family illness) but we've been lucky to get a venue, DJ and photographer booked with relative ease so it is all going ahead!
We've opted for a hot buffet for the meal - likely a Christmas carvery type situation (a nice one!) because we felt that was a bit more relaxed and also, honestly, it was cheaper. I also thought people who have particular food habits (like members of my family!) might find it less stressful than a three-course sit down affair. We're serving plenty of wine and soft drinks etc. It's a twilight wedding so I don't think anyone should be going hungry.
I've just had a reaction from a family member who seems to think this is akin to serving beans on toast, and it's thrown me into a panic. Will everyone hate this and think we're being stingy?
I'm trying not to get sucked into everyone's expectations as I know that's how costs get out of hand.
Aibu to serve a buffet?
AIBU?
Aibu to serve a buffet at our wedding
MimosasInFrance · 18/06/2022 10:00
BIWI · 18/06/2022 10:24
To be honest, even if you DID serve me beans on toast, I'd still be happy. You have fed me, and I've been at your wedding.
Ignore comments like that and go ahead with what makes most sense to you and your partner. Best advice is not to share any of your plans with anyone else, I think!
And congratulations
Queuing4Fergs · 18/06/2022 13:08
You'd then have to go and confess all on the Bootcamp thread 😅
BIWI · 18/06/2022 10:24
To be honest, even if you DID serve me beans on toast, I'd still be happy. You have fed me, and I've been at your wedding.
Ignore comments like that and go ahead with what makes most sense to you and your partner. Best advice is not to share any of your plans with anyone else, I think!
And congratulations
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rookiemere · 18/06/2022 13:31
I think that all sounds good but simple over catering doesn't quite address the issue of the first set of guests taking all the tastiest morsels. I'd see what the venue recommends - replenishment and some serving is possibly the way to go.
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