To assume I have been dumped

[Dumpedagainfml]

Am I jaded or am I reasonable?

I had a long first date with a guy last weekend
we texted a bit
last heard from him on Thuraday night
I texted this morning ‘hey morning’ and a funny picture of being on holiday

I have not heard from him - he seen the message
I automatically assume he is ghosting me. Is this normal or am I so jaded?
if I dont hear from him by tomorrow I will assume its a one and done date - aibu to assume this? And just delete his contact.

I am not needy in a sense but I just would rather know one way or the other? i find this irritating flakiness beyond annoying - I am currently on a bus and every single person has their phone in their hand. Honestly. Two seconds ‘looks great - enjoy your day’. aibu.

Depends on his job I would say. My DH would never dare to ignore a message from me, but the nature of his work means that he may not get to look at his phone for hours some days. I myself used to work in a workplace where I couldn't have my phone with me in certain areas, where I would often have to spend several hours. Outside of those types of scenario ...I would say forget him.

Tbh I'd be deleting.

Bumble isn't all bad, I met my DP on it (first guy I swiped on!) and he is wonderful.