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To be concerned that the Depp/Heard trial has put off genuine DV victims from coming forward?

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PetraBP · 09/06/2022 09:23

The Depp/Heard trial was troubling to me.

On the one hand, people do sometimes make false allegations, especially after relationship breakups.

On the other hand, dragging someone to court for alleging domestic violence might deter some women from reporting it.

Assuming the court got it right and Depp was not a perpetrator, how could he have handled the situation so that it would not put domestic violence victims off coming forward for fear of being sued?

Worrying all round.

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TiddyTidTwo · 10/06/2022 22:29

"You said it upthread. You don’t support his new accuser either. What’s the incentive for men to come forward then?"

Depositions available online from the court.

Bet you read some shit rag MSM article instead

Pumperthepumper · 10/06/2022 22:31

TiddyTidTwo · 10/06/2022 22:29

"You said it upthread. You don’t support his new accuser either. What’s the incentive for men to come forward then?"

Depositions available online from the court.

Bet you read some shit rag MSM article instead

What’s the incentive for men to come forwards?

bigfootisreal · 10/06/2022 22:33

TiddyTidTwo · 10/06/2022 22:27

"I didn't read that post so how could I absorb it when I hadn't read anything about her brother at all. You are assuming quite a lot"

Nope. She pointed it out to you then you doubled down.

She pointed it out assuming I knew and claimed I was doing it to abuse which was untrue. So again, nice try. I was asking a question and she felt unable to answer so she claimed my comments were in response to her family without any comment from me being of that nature. There was no link at all and no prior reading from me just a blatant accusation of abuse when there was a challenging question and then you jumped on with the assumptions too.

She previously assumed I had supported AH too and was quite happy challenging me in debate.

TiddyTidTwo · 10/06/2022 22:36

I have read the witness statements

It was a verbal altercation.

The person "abused" used racial slurs against a homeless black woman who got in the way on location on set. Depp verbally attacked this person.

Said person half an hour later posted a selfie on Instagram with depp after shaking hands. Time stamped and verified.

Said person now changed his story. Every other witness on set, with photo evidence contradicts another liar.

But hey, the actual victim the homeless back woman let's throw her under the bus too because we have to hate Depp.

TiddyTidTwo · 10/06/2022 22:37

"She pointed it out assuming I knew and claimed I was doing it to abuse which was untrue. So again, nice try"

Nope it was very clear in her post.

You didn't care.

bigfootisreal · 10/06/2022 22:40

TiddyTidTwo
There are many victims of his. He is a violent man and admits it.

Pumperthepumper · 10/06/2022 22:40

TiddyTidTwo · 10/06/2022 22:36

I have read the witness statements

It was a verbal altercation.

The person "abused" used racial slurs against a homeless black woman who got in the way on location on set. Depp verbally attacked this person.

Said person half an hour later posted a selfie on Instagram with depp after shaking hands. Time stamped and verified.

Said person now changed his story. Every other witness on set, with photo evidence contradicts another liar.

But hey, the actual victim the homeless back woman let's throw her under the bus too because we have to hate Depp.

For the third time: what’s the incentive for men to come forward?

bigfootisreal · 10/06/2022 22:42

TiddyTidTwo
She said my comment was in relation to her family which was untrue and a blatant lie. I am not being accused of abusing someone in relation to their family because they can't hack a challenging question on a debating forum.

TiddyTidTwo · 10/06/2022 22:43

"For the third time: what’s the incentive for men to come forward?"

Money for this one. I mean why not, he waited 2 years to file this whilst Heard was flying high on her lies.

I believe him though 😂

Pumperthepumper · 10/06/2022 22:46

TiddyTidTwo · 10/06/2022 22:43

"For the third time: what’s the incentive for men to come forward?"

Money for this one. I mean why not, he waited 2 years to file this whilst Heard was flying high on her lies.

I believe him though 😂

You don’t seem very sympathetic to his victims. The laughing face is a bit grim.

HRTQueen · 10/06/2022 22:47

In court again in July for a drunken violent outburst

How does one man have so many lies written about him throughout his career

Its baffling 🙄

TiddyTidTwo · 10/06/2022 22:48

"You don’t seem very sympathetic to his victims. The laughing face is a bit grim"

I'm not. I've seen his Instagram post taken less than an hour later, laughing and smiling with Depp with his arms around him, also entered into evidence which aligns with the witness statements

Pumperthepumper · 10/06/2022 22:50

TiddyTidTwo · 10/06/2022 22:48

"You don’t seem very sympathetic to his victims. The laughing face is a bit grim"

I'm not. I've seen his Instagram post taken less than an hour later, laughing and smiling with Depp with his arms around him, also entered into evidence which aligns with the witness statements

He’s not a good enough victim either then. Ok! Do you still think you’d support your daughter going public if Depp was abusive to her?

TiddyTidTwo · 10/06/2022 22:51

"How does one man have so many lies written about him throughout his career

Its baffling 🙄"

Eva use he's rich and has power. There's always a flip side to it

Mind you he's 59 and Heard is 36 and her rap sheet is longer than his, including drunk driving, driving whilst banned, assault and let's face it defamation, perjury and animal smuggling.

Pumperthepumper · 10/06/2022 22:51

HRTQueen · 10/06/2022 22:47

In court again in July for a drunken violent outburst

How does one man have so many lies written about him throughout his career

Its baffling 🙄

They don’t believe him either though. So actually not a man/woman Believe Victims thing, more of a Johnny Sparrow fan club.

TiddyTidTwo · 10/06/2022 22:52

"He’s not a good enough victim either then. Ok! Do you still think you’d support your daughter going public if Depp was abusive to her?"

You read the witness statements for that trial yet?

Pumperthepumper · 10/06/2022 22:53

TiddyTidTwo · 10/06/2022 22:52

"He’s not a good enough victim either then. Ok! Do you still think you’d support your daughter going public if Depp was abusive to her?"

You read the witness statements for that trial yet?

No, I’ll do it later. Would you support your daughter going public about Johnny Depp?

Pumperthepumper · 10/06/2022 22:53

TiddyTidTwo · 10/06/2022 22:51

"How does one man have so many lies written about him throughout his career

Its baffling 🙄"

Eva use he's rich and has power. There's always a flip side to it

Mind you he's 59 and Heard is 36 and her rap sheet is longer than his, including drunk driving, driving whilst banned, assault and let's face it defamation, perjury and animal smuggling.

You’ve forgotten to add that you think she’s responsible for her PR guy being a sex pest.

HRTQueen · 10/06/2022 22:53

This is how ridiculous the blinded support has become for Johnny Depp

A case has not even got to court yet so many have decided that Johnny Depp is innocent

its cult like behaviour it’s obsessive just what his legal team are wanting

TiddyTidTwo · 10/06/2022 22:54

"They don’t believe him either though. So actually not a man/woman Believe Victims thing, more of a Johnny Sparrow fan club"

I don't, based on the evidence available

Do I think he trashed hotel rooms? Yes
Do I think he hit a reporter years ago?
Yes
Etc etc

TiddyTidTwo · 10/06/2022 22:55

"A case has not even got to court yet so many have decided that Johnny Depp is innocent"

Wrong. I don't judge him guilty until proven so.

Pumperthepumper · 10/06/2022 22:56

TiddyTidTwo · 10/06/2022 22:54

"They don’t believe him either though. So actually not a man/woman Believe Victims thing, more of a Johnny Sparrow fan club"

I don't, based on the evidence available

Do I think he trashed hotel rooms? Yes
Do I think he hit a reporter years ago?
Yes
Etc etc

Would you support your daughter going public against Depp?

TiddyTidTwo · 10/06/2022 22:57

"You’ve forgotten to add that you think she’s responsible for her PR guy being a sex pest"

She absolutely IS responsible to those women she claims to advocate for NOT to continue to pay for this man in HER employment.

TiddyTidTwo · 10/06/2022 22:57

"Would you support your daughter going public against Depp?"

Yes

Pumperthepumper · 10/06/2022 22:58

TiddyTidTwo · 10/06/2022 22:57

"You’ve forgotten to add that you think she’s responsible for her PR guy being a sex pest"

She absolutely IS responsible to those women she claims to advocate for NOT to continue to pay for this man in HER employment.

First rule of misogyny.

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