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To be shocked by the leavers jumpers

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Itsmytreehouse · 01/06/2022 14:48

My dd is leaving primary school this July and we have been sent a link to order leaver jumpers.
The design has their school name and year on the front in large letters and on the back their teachers name and class mates names (including surname) with hand written messages of good luck printed all over.
I might be over reacting but I’m seeing it as a safeguarding concern that these kids will be wearing them around showing their name and school in public. (They’ve been asked to wear them to school for all next term as part of their leavers production outfit)
Should I point this out to the school or forget about it?

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Villagewaspbyke · 01/06/2022 19:21

Smartsub · 01/06/2022 19:14

No, there isn't, but the handful of children who are at risk are at risk because everyone else has their name and school on the jumper, even if they don't wear one themselves. It's not only about your child.

If you seek parents' permission, what do you do, exclude the most vulnerable children? The ones whose lives are often already pretty crappy? Again, think of someone other than yourself.

Don’t be ridiculous. If there is a good reason to exclude a child’s name from a jumper- exclude it or just put their first name. No one is at risk because someone else’s name is on a jumper.

As a pp who was a foster child sue to abuse pointed out too, it’s extremely rare that the school and name of a child (such as a vulnerable foster child) is not a fact well known to the family they have been removed from in any event.

Villagewaspbyke · 01/06/2022 19:26

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well theres no way you could murder someone unless you saw their name on a hoodie first.

lameasahorse · 01/06/2022 19:28

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Sirzy · 01/06/2022 19:29

Smartsub · 01/06/2022 18:15

People saying it's a tiny number of children affected, it's not.

I've worked in school offices for 10 years now. We regularly get "fishing" calls from people ringing about "Jonny Jones" (example, lots of different names) who isn't one of our students, but someone is calling all the local schools trying to establish which one he's at.

But if those Adults had close enough contact with a child to be able to read the details on their hoody they would also have close enough contact to say to them “I think my friends child Jack Jones” is in your class.

I get why people are concerned about this but I think in the grand scheme of things the risk of anything from this is tiny. It’s very different from photos on social media etc

Smartsub · 01/06/2022 19:29

Well good for you, all of you who live in a bubble where no child is at risk from family members who don't know their whereabouts, to the extent that you feel able to make light of it. Nice.

QueenofDestruction · 01/06/2022 19:30

It is a GDPR issue, the school need to have the parents consent print a child's name on the hoodie and a privacy Notice would have to be issued both an adult and child friendly version prior to using personal data in this way. The school does not have a lawful basis of printing these names on hoodie s and are therefore acting unlawfully and could be fined quite a lot. lot

TeenPlusCat · 01/06/2022 19:30

Smartsub · 01/06/2022 19:29

Well good for you, all of you who live in a bubble where no child is at risk from family members who don't know their whereabouts, to the extent that you feel able to make light of it. Nice.

See also, photos at nativity plays, and posting them on social media.

Sirzy · 01/06/2022 19:30

Smartsub · 01/06/2022 19:29

Well good for you, all of you who live in a bubble where no child is at risk from family members who don't know their whereabouts, to the extent that you feel able to make light of it. Nice.

It’s also about balancing the risk and ensuring that the child doesn’t grow up petrified of living.

ArtVandalay · 01/06/2022 19:32

Ours had first names only.

Those hoodies are a bit daft. They wear them for an afternoon and then never wear them again. And it's not like you can put them in a clothes bank afterward.

DamnUserName21 · 01/06/2022 19:33

Breaking GDPR, maybe, with the use of both first and last. Safeguarding concern nah.

glamourousindierockandroll · 01/06/2022 19:33

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This.

I'm experienced in safeguarding but even I find this a stretch. It's the way things are going though and I expect they'll be a thing of the past in a few years, sadly.

QueenofDestruction · 01/06/2022 19:34

Sirzy · 01/06/2022 19:30

It’s also about balancing the risk and ensuring that the child doesn’t grow up petrified of living.

Its about human rights, that children also have. The right to privacy and determination about the use of their data.

MintyMoocow · 01/06/2022 19:35

People really need to educate themselves on GDPR before citing it..

bellac11 · 01/06/2022 19:38

JustLyra · 01/06/2022 15:26

Abduction isn’t the risk.

Theres no way a child in foster care’s name should be printed, in full, on anything that’s going to identify their school to anyone that a child wearing a hoodie wandering in public is going to see.

it’s a tiny risk, but it’s the exact same reason some kids can never be in photos in the local paper, or have their full name printed in anything school related online.

It should be first names only.

The vast vast majority of children in care see their parents still and if they dont see their parents its often not because there is a no contact order, most parents of children in care come to reviews and know what school a child goes to

However schools still need to double check in case there is a no contact order in place or parents are not entitled to know what school the child goes to

QueenofDestruction · 01/06/2022 19:41

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Butterfly44 · 01/06/2022 19:43

Normal. These have been around for years. If you're so concerned don't buy one or don't include your child's name. Simple

DamnUserName21 · 01/06/2022 19:44

When my DC got their leavers, I think (if memory serves) I had to consent to have name added as part of the ordering...

lameasahorse · 01/06/2022 19:45

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Greengagesnfennel · 01/06/2022 19:45

Same here. First off they asked for what we wanted and I asked for my dd first name. Then got a message on day before ordering that it would look odd with some children getting first name and others full and so everyone was having full names. I just acquiesced and said ok np as I don't think they will wear them much anyway and I didn't want to be that person (who wasn't organising anything but complained about what the volunteers were doing). FWIW I agree with you though. Just why do they need surnames?

Villagewaspbyke · 01/06/2022 19:49

QueenofDestruction · 01/06/2022 19:34

Its about human rights, that children also have. The right to privacy and determination about the use of their data.

Lol. Some names on a jumper is a nice memento for kids who went to school together. As long as the parents have consented there’s no safeguarding or gdpr issue. Nor is there any human rights issue.

I think gdpr is very poorly understood in the public sector. In any event this should not be an issue. No one is getting fined for a jumper with some names of a school some kids used to go that the parents have consented to.

FabFitFifties · 01/06/2022 19:50

YANBU if their name is in large letters as well as the school. My son's has the school and his initials in 2 inch letters on the front, and full class names on the back. The full names are tiny.

bellac11 · 01/06/2022 19:53

AliBaliBears · 01/06/2022 17:54

Exactly.

In England, 1 in 30 children experience being in care by the age of 18. It's not that rare. Many others are deemed by social services to be 'in need'. Whilst some care experienced people have commented on this thread and said they 'weren't in hiding' that doesn't change the fact that two of the biggest reasons for children being in care are abuse or neglect by a birth parent.

I can only think those who mock safe guarding concerns genuinely don't realise just how very vulnerable too many children are. Some of their stories are so horrific you couldn't even believe that so many bad things could happen to one child.

The vast majority of children are in care due to abuse/neglect or a combination of those two things.

However the number of children who dont have contact with their parents still due to a no contact order is very small, out of nearly 100 kids Im working with now I dont have any. I do have some who are not seeing their parents because they dont want to anymore/not interested or where the parents just seem to opt out but in those cases the parents still know the school the child goes to.
Unless there are specific reasons for it, parents get all the information from each review which contains information about school and other day to day information about their child. They still have PR for their child.

AliBaliBears · 01/06/2022 19:58

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How is it not a GDPR issue? It involves the processing of personal data, and the OP's school are doing this without consent. While consent is not required for every use of personal data, I can't think of an exemption that would apply to school jumpers. But happy to be corrected.

ico.org.uk/for-organisations/guide-to-data-protection/guide-to-the-general-data-protection-regulation-gdpr/key-definitions/what-is-personal-data/

QueenofDestruction · 01/06/2022 19:58

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How can it not be. Because the information is collected and collected electronically or in lists or other similar formats. The act of sharing that information, probably by email or even printing a list of names all fall under the GDPRs definition of processing. The jumper makers must have stored the information on their systems and mostly the act of printing is electronic or digital these days. The school is only entitled to process children's data for reasons relating to their role as an educator 2hich is certainly not jumpers. Therefore they need consent and this needs to be managed. In order to create the jumpers the children's data was shared with the printing company for non educational purposes. A due diligence would have to have been undertaken by the school before sharing that informationRemember a child's personal data would include first and last names, class , school etc. Gdpr applies to most persdata institutions such as schools and unis use unless they don't use computers at all or don't use an organised paper filing system

Villagewaspbyke · 01/06/2022 19:58

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Numerous, gosh! How much do you think an average state school would be fined for printing some names on a shirt? Is there no other lawful basis for processing? Are you pretending that consent is required from the child and the parent?

so many questions…