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to bring dog in supermarket

324 replies

Name2change · 28/05/2022 00:18

I have name changed as I know that most people will be inclined to think that this is ridiculous proposition as its societally unacceptable. I know the cognizant is not to bring them in because they could get out and get into things and cause damage or irritate people with allergens or for hygiene reasons etc etc but surely this applies to dogs who are on leads and being held and not ones in enclosed baby-looking prams that cant get out or get close enough to people to irritate them. I honestly don't see the issue with well behaved dogs who cant bother anyone especially when no one will even know they are there. I saw someone in the supermarket who'd done this a while ago, they bothered no one and ever since I've been thinking that this is something id like to do as I have a hidden disability that is made just that bit more comfortable with my dog just being there but I haven't done it as I'm too ashamed and would be anxious the whole time about being found out! I dont want any "YABU for getting her a pram", its a separate issue, she requires one and I'm not getting into a debate about it. AIBU to go for it or should I leave it well alone and forget about it?

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Antarcticant · 28/05/2022 09:49

So? He managed fine previously?

He didn't 'manage fine' - he was struggling with sensory overload.

CandleSchtick · 28/05/2022 09:53

Is your child not allergic to guide dogs then?

It's pretty rare to see a guide dog in a supermarket. I've never seen one and I'm there every weekday.

bbgx · 28/05/2022 09:54

balalake · 28/05/2022 09:07

Whilst agreeing about the hygiene of some people being worse than many dogs, I don't think animals other than guide dogs should come into a shop.

Like who? Some dogs are never bathed, shed hairs, roll in mud and water, poop without wiping, may slobber... not the dome thing around here 😂

bbgx · 28/05/2022 09:55

No problem with guide dogs, of course, there's so lovely and polite! And are doing a service bit ordinary pets don't need to be in supermarkets.

beeeeeeeeeeeeeeee · 28/05/2022 09:56

Love animals but outside of trained assistance dogs they don't belong in supermarkets, or shops.
I always remember a few years back someone taking their puppy into a local Asda, they'd carried it in. I commented to the shop assistant how lovely the pup was and she promptly pointed to a pile of vomit left on the floor that the owners had left for her to clean. imagine shop work is hard enough dealing with the humans that use it, without the added bonus of cleaning up after non human visitors.
Pets should be left at home, or in the car if it's not too hot.

YouHaveYourFathersBreasts · 28/05/2022 09:57

Assistance dogs aside, I honestly believe that animals don’t belong in supermarkets. I would be less than impressed to see someone bring their dog shopping, whether it’s on a lead or pushed in a dog pram. What’s the pet getting out of this trip? I can’t imagine most would enjoy it.

HikingforScenery · 28/05/2022 09:57

Apart from guide dogs, etc, no animal should be going into the supermarket. It’s horrible enough having to deal with bad owners outdoors.

Whose word are we taking on this ‘well-behaved’ dog? The owner’s? Imagine having to deal with dog poo in the supermarket because, it will happen! Gross, thinking about it.

Leave your animal at home, or shop online.

Lockheart · 28/05/2022 09:59

Humans are animals. We're not aliens or divine.

We're just as gross as the next mammal, in our own ways.

tootiredtoocare · 28/05/2022 10:05

Nope. Leave at home. I'm a dog lover. I own two. I don't even leave them tied up outside shops because I don't think it's fair to them or other people who don't love dogs. They do not belong in places where unpackaged food is being sold.

RedHelenB · 28/05/2022 10:09

Yabu, it's a supermarket. I have a dog and don't think they should go everywhere.

Choopi · 28/05/2022 10:14

Personally it wouldn't bother me if someone brought their dog/cat/rabbit/whatever into the supermarket in a bag or pushchair. It isn't a big deal to me either way but if it makes them happy then that's lovely.

RedHelenB · 28/05/2022 10:31

lljkk · 28/05/2022 08:31

Dogs 'go' over produce that's on low shelves.

Is there produce on low shelves? Ours isn't low (below about 3' height, Sainsbury's). I'm assuming most people don't want to bend so low.

Yes. If my dog went in our local supermarket he'd be able to cock his leg over the produce in the lower shelves and he's only little. I leave him outside if I need to nip in for something or at home if I need more than a few things

BertieQueen · 28/05/2022 10:36

I have a dog that needs 24/7 care, so places becoming more dog friendly is brilliant for us. We do have a very well behaved dog though. That being said I wouldn’t take her in to a supermarket due to the hygiene around food.

Yesterday I needed to pick up some bits for a party, I asked from the door of the shop if they could pass me the bits I needed due to having a dog with me. They welcomed me in and said they preferred dogs to children in their store. 😂

melj1213 · 28/05/2022 10:37

How does your mother manage with guide dogs which are allowed in virtually all shops?

I work 10/12 hour shifts 5 days a week in a supermarket in a large town and have done for the past 7 years. I can count the number of times I have seen a guide dog brought into the supermarket during my shift on my fingers as it is such a rare occurance.

Even when they are brought in they are well trained, desensitised to the hustle and bustle of the store environment and remain focused on their task so they aren't yapping, sniffing at everything, peeing on the floor, getting in the way of other shoppers, jumping up at people/produce etc

Stroopwaffels · 28/05/2022 10:43

Of course it's not acceptable. It's rare to see a guide dog in shops and they are exceptionally well trained and behaved.

Totally different scenario to everyone and anyone taking their dogs everywhere with them. Carrying makes absolutely no difference to anyone with allergies. There was a bloke on the news yesterday taking a supermarket to court because he'd been asked to take his "support cat" out.

Animals in these settings are not appropriate unless part of a properly run and administered charity where animals are allocated on genuine need - such as guide dogs for the blind, hearing dogs for the deaf. People who are deaf or blind cannot have CBT or therapy to become less deaf or less blind. People who feel they need a cat, rabbit, pony or whatever to cope with a trip to the shops have many, many options from developing coping strategies to online shopping to taking a friend etc etc etc.

It's just SO inappropriate.

IncompleteSenten · 28/05/2022 10:49

It doesn't matter how many people on Mumsnet think it's ok, it's the store you need to check with.

You can't wheel your dog into the supermarket with a printout of this thread and say the internet says they wouldn't mind!

Blarting · 28/05/2022 10:52

Doggydarling · 28/05/2022 01:46

I love dogs, have four and they are all treated as family members but no, I don't want any dog other than a guide dog in supermarkets or any other kind of shop except a pet supplies store where it's expected. And please, don't buy a 'support animal' harness online and expect to be allowed bring your pet everywhere. If we start allowing people carry/push pets in food shops it will be restaurants next.

Dogs are allowed in loads of restaurants where I live. It's great.

LakieLady · 28/05/2022 10:53

Marblessolveeverything · 28/05/2022 08:01

For those asking how we avoid the legally permitted assistant dogs. We check with security prior to asking and if one arrives when we are shopping the PA asks me to come to come to customer service.

Given my child has had two severe reactions and required ambulance treatment in the shop we are well known. I am not dramatic by nature love dogs but unfortunately child developed an extreme allergy.

Of course we run the risk of dog hair etc and assistance dogs but add in everyone else unlegislated dog and my child simply won't be able to go to these shops. Doctor mentioned it is becoming more common so as a society we need to think do we put a child health over an adult want.

That sounds really frightening. Do you carry an epipen, just in case? It must be a real worry when using public transport etc.

My small town seems to have an unusually high rate of dog ownership, and you can encounter a dozen or more just walking through the little pedestrianised bit on a weekend, especially if the farmer's market is there.

When I had my first dog I was always covered in dog hair, even in winter he'd shed a fine, downy undercoat. Anyone who had that severe an allergy probably would have got a reaction just from standing next to me.

LuckySantangelo35 · 28/05/2022 10:56

YABU

i don’t want a supermarket which is full of food to be full of dogs. Dogs can and do have accidents. It’s not Hygienic. Dogs do not need to go everywhere ffs.

RampantIvy · 28/05/2022 10:57

as I know that most people will be inclined to think that this is ridiculous proposition as its societally unacceptable.

That's because it is

Given the number of dog owners who can't bear to be separated from their precious pooches for a couple of hours I wonder if we will end up with places divided into areas where dogs can go and dog free zones, like we used to have when smoking indoors was acceptable, where you used to have cafes and restaurants with smoking zones and smoke free areas.

LuckySantangelo35 · 28/05/2022 10:58

Blarting · 28/05/2022 10:52

Dogs are allowed in loads of restaurants where I live. It's great.

whats great about it? Sounds rubbish to me. Unhygienic and I hate it when you have a pub with dogs in and they start yapping at each other. I just think fuck off. Pubs and restaurants and supermarkets etc are places for people, not dogs.

Stroopwaffels · 28/05/2022 10:58

All the doggy people who are whatabouting in terms of guide dogs - a quick google tells me there are 4,800 Guide Dogs currently working in the UK and 1,000 Hearing Dogs.

Your chances of coming across one of those c. 6000 animals on any given Tuesday in your local Tesco is therefore low.

13 million pet dogs in the UK. 11 million cats. 1 million rabbits.

Can you really not see how allowing anyone and everyone to enter every single establishment with any animal of their choosing is a whole other ball game?

Snowiscold · 28/05/2022 11:01

There’s just no excuse - barring assistance animals - for them to be in shops. Your darling well trained pet is equivalent to the next person’s snarling aggressive beast -rat, snake, tiger.

Blarting · 28/05/2022 11:03

SpindleSheWrote · 28/05/2022 05:36

Actual humans have been banned from my local Asda for ‘haphazard use of the toilet’ so I very much doubt the OP would get permission to bring her untrained dog in from the manager of this store, pram or no pram.

Reasonable adjustment for disability = access for specially trained assistance dogs from recognised training programmes.

And the Sueing Sainsburys guy hasn’t got a cat in hell’s chance of winning his case.

Whose dog is untrained?

MagneticRubberDucks · 28/05/2022 11:03

HoppingPavlova · 28/05/2022 02:39

Leave it at home or get your products home delivered.

100% this.

a supermarket is no place for animals.