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AIBU?

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Original poster

to bring dog in supermarket

324 replies

Name2change · 28/05/2022 00:18

I have name changed as I know that most people will be inclined to think that this is ridiculous proposition as its societally unacceptable. I know the cognizant is not to bring them in because they could get out and get into things and cause damage or irritate people with allergens or for hygiene reasons etc etc but surely this applies to dogs who are on leads and being held and not ones in enclosed baby-looking prams that cant get out or get close enough to people to irritate them. I honestly don't see the issue with well behaved dogs who cant bother anyone especially when no one will even know they are there. I saw someone in the supermarket who'd done this a while ago, they bothered no one and ever since I've been thinking that this is something id like to do as I have a hidden disability that is made just that bit more comfortable with my dog just being there but I haven't done it as I'm too ashamed and would be anxious the whole time about being found out! I dont want any "YABU for getting her a pram", its a separate issue, she requires one and I'm not getting into a debate about it. AIBU to go for it or should I leave it well alone and forget about it?

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worraliberty · 28/05/2022 00:20

Well if being found out makes you anxious, it's not going to make your life easier is it?

Lockheart · 28/05/2022 00:21

If the shop allows non-assistance dogs, go for it. If not, don't. You need to ask the supermarket, not MN.

XenoBitch · 28/05/2022 00:21

Call the supermarket, and explain your circumstances. Then go from there.

XelaM · 28/05/2022 00:21

We took ours to ASDA but my daughter carried him in her arms. I thought we wouldn't get past the door, but the staff were incredibly dog-friendly and even chatted to us about our dog.

Original poster
Name2change · 28/05/2022 00:25

worraliberty · 28/05/2022 00:20

Well if being found out makes you anxious, it's not going to make your life easier is it?

Fair point! But if other people accept me in doing this then I imagine I wouldn't be so anxious. That's why I've posted this to be sure Smile

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Marblessolveeverything · 28/05/2022 00:25

Well that's great another place my child can't go due to severe allergies. Strange how dogs come before childrens lives .. leave the dog outside!

XenoBitch · 28/05/2022 00:26

Marblessolveeverything · 28/05/2022 00:25

Well that's great another place my child can't go due to severe allergies. Strange how dogs come before childrens lives .. leave the dog outside!

Is your child not allergic to guide dogs then?

worraliberty · 28/05/2022 00:27

Name2change · 28/05/2022 00:25

Fair point! But if other people accept me in doing this then I imagine I wouldn't be so anxious. That's why I've posted this to be sure Smile

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But other people don't own the supermarket?

Ask the manager, no-one here can help I'm afraid.

Original poster
Name2change · 28/05/2022 00:29

Marblessolveeverything · 28/05/2022 00:25

Well that's great another place my child can't go due to severe allergies. Strange how dogs come before childrens lives .. leave the dog outside!

I'm sorry your child is restricted in where they can go, and I'm sorry you're so offended but I didn't think that my dog being in an enclosed space far enough away from other people could cause a severe allergic reaction in someone. There was really no need for this passive aggressive reply where I'm clearly inviting discussion before making a decision

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worraliberty · 28/05/2022 00:33

But the only people you need to invite a discussion with are the supermarket managers.

grapewines · 28/05/2022 00:41

There was really no need for this passive aggressive reply

Maybe it's born out of the fact that dogs are pretty much everywhere now. I don't blame PP. But if it is a support dog then speak to you supermarket, I guess.

Doggyfish · 28/05/2022 00:48

It's either a support dog or it isn't, if it is then get it one of those harnesses that says 'support dog' type thing on it and tear on.

Womencanlift · 28/05/2022 00:49

It’s bad enough outside when some dog owners insist their dog is just being friendly when it’s jumping on you and running around off a lead

Now we have to put up with that in a supermarket while doing the weekly shop?

Not saying the OP will allow her dog to do that but if it becomes the norm the entitled off leash dog owner from the park will definitely not put the lead on in Tesco

No issue at all with any type of assistance dogs as they have been properly trained

milkyaqua · 28/05/2022 00:55

I think it's a health and safety issue, and you need to discuss it with the supermarket manager of the supermarket you intend to visit. You can't just do what you fancy, even if MN supported the idea. But roughly 90% say YABU, anyway.

Sortilege · 28/05/2022 00:55

I’m not sure anybody will be convinced by an assistance dog that has to be pushed in a pram. Sorry. It can’t physically assist you and you can’t cuddle it.

Were you inspired by the man with the emotional support cat who is suing Sainsbury’s?

worraliberty · 28/05/2022 00:56

Doggyfish · 28/05/2022 00:48

It's either a support dog or it isn't, if it is then get it one of those harnesses that says 'support dog' type thing on it and tear on.

Emotional support dogs aren't recognised in the UK, so the OP would still have to ask the supermarket manager.

worraliberty · 28/05/2022 00:56

Legally recognised I mean.

Growuppeople · 28/05/2022 00:56

You can! I see them all the time in shops, but it’s usually tiny dogs you can easily carry.

ouch321 · 28/05/2022 00:59

No, don't - it's disgusting.

Dogs 'go' over produce that's on low shelves.

Bad enough if it's in the chemist and it's a tub of moisturiser they're doing it over but no one should end up with wee covered food.

Sortilege · 28/05/2022 00:59

ouch321 · 28/05/2022 00:59

No, don't - it's disgusting.

Dogs 'go' over produce that's on low shelves.

Bad enough if it's in the chemist and it's a tub of moisturiser they're doing it over but no one should end up with wee covered food.

At least read the OP.

worraliberty · 28/05/2022 01:01

Growuppeople · 28/05/2022 00:56

You can! I see them all the time in shops, but it’s usually tiny dogs you can easily carry.

Are you the manager of this particular supermarket?

BenCooperSuperTrouper · 28/05/2022 01:10

A woman takes her python to our local supermarket. Not sure if it’s an emotional support python. More likely she is doing it for shock value. Terrible way to treat a beautiful reptile. It must get so stressed. Anyway, that doesn’t answer your query at all. I agree that you should call or email the supermarket.

Stichintime · 28/05/2022 01:11

Seems a bit entitled. Have you considered getting a delivery instead?

Sugarplumfairy65 · 28/05/2022 01:22

Dogs, or any other animal, unless it's a legally recognised assistance dog should be allowed in a supermarket or food shop.
Leave the dig at home or get a home delivery.