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Do you know that a man is not dead while his name is still spoken?

286 replies

Didactylos · 24/05/2022 23:42

No one is actually dead until the ripples they cause in the world die away

YANBU - Truth! Freedom! Justice! and a hardboiled egg!
YABU - what are you talking about?

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SleepingStandingUp · 24/05/2022 23:43

I like that idea.

MrOllivander · 24/05/2022 23:44

YANBU. I have the quote saved

I mean, they say you die twice. One time when you stop breathing and a second time, a bit later on, when somebody says your name for the last time

BaronessEllarawrosaurus · 24/05/2022 23:44

Currently listening to interesting times

PriamFarrl · 24/05/2022 23:45

Does that include women?

Dinotastic · 24/05/2022 23:45

Is a woman not dead in this scenario?

PastMyBestBeforeDate · 24/05/2022 23:45

Everybody understands boots.

FieryPitOfMordor · 24/05/2022 23:47

There is always time for another last minute

ErrolTheDragon · 24/05/2022 23:57

Thanks for the reminder.

EmmaH2022 · 25/05/2022 00:06

You're not allowed to say her name any more, little mate.

(I would actually prefer this).

ErrolTheDragon · 25/05/2022 00:07

GNU, Sir Terry.Flowers

(MNHQ turned all the flowers lilac in 2015, does anyone here remember that?)

CaptainThe95thRifles · 25/05/2022 00:11

Don't think of it as dying. Think of it as leaving early to avoid the rush.

GNU STP.

Antarcticant · 25/05/2022 00:19

No - being alive and being remembered are not the same thing.

Fat lot of use it is having your name spoken if you're dead and know nothing about it.

People with a religious faith might feel differently, of course, but I am an agnostic.

FiveNineFive · 25/05/2022 00:21

Plato said it first though (much as I love Pterry)

Gingernaut · 25/05/2022 00:23

No, but if you start singing, I'll join in on the second chorus

Dilbertian · 25/05/2022 00:31

I think TP comes across as a not-very-militant atheist, or maybe as a particularly cynical gnostic. I like.

Definitely Camp YANBU.

Anyway, I'm Jewish, and Judaism doesn't have all that much to say about an afterlife. We live on in the remembrance of our deeds. So - Camp YANBU again. Innabun.

Bollindger · 25/05/2022 00:34

Do not stand
By my grave, and weep.
I am not there,
I do not sleep—
I am the thousand winds that blow
I am the diamond glints in snow
I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle, autumn rain.
As you awake with morning’s hush,
I am the swift, up-flinging rush
Of quiet birds in circling flight,
I am the day transcending night.
Do not stand
By my grave, and cry—
I am not there,
I did not die.

MistyGreenAndBlue · 25/05/2022 00:48

Truth, Justice, Freedom Reasonably priced love ... and a hard boiled egg.

That's the thing about revolutions. They always come around again.

JaneJeffer · 25/05/2022 01:05

So a fucker like Hitler gets to live forever?

DragonwithoutaDungeon · 25/05/2022 03:28

All the little Angels
How do they rise up?

HardySwine · 25/05/2022 05:21

I like this, thank you. Sunday marked the 38th year since my mum’s passing and I happened to have this very conversation with myself. I was reflecting on who is left to remember and love her and thought about how long it will be until she’s just a name on a headstone. I’m cheery like that!

CarpeJugulum · 25/05/2022 05:24

GNU.

Fraaahnces · 25/05/2022 05:30

A lot of women cease to exist long before they die. I have worked in nursing homes. Absolutely heartbreaking how many are parked until they become useful by conveniently dying.

MrsTerryPratchett · 25/05/2022 05:42

I had to turn up to this party.

It is said that your life flashes before your eyes just before you die. That is true, it's called Life.”

I still haven't read his last. As far as I'm concerned ill read it when he writes another.

GNU

ChagSameachDoreen · 25/05/2022 05:59

Ridiculous. When you die you're dead.

It's just one of those Facebook sound bites designed to placate people who are terrified by their own mortality.

ChagSameachDoreen · 25/05/2022 06:00

Bollindger · 25/05/2022 00:34

Do not stand
By my grave, and weep.
I am not there,
I do not sleep—
I am the thousand winds that blow
I am the diamond glints in snow
I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle, autumn rain.
As you awake with morning’s hush,
I am the swift, up-flinging rush
Of quiet birds in circling flight,
I am the day transcending night.
Do not stand
By my grave, and cry—
I am not there,
I did not die.

Ugh - this is so cheesy.