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What were you doing on November 13th 2020

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TeaAndChoccie · 23/05/2022 22:34

while the PM was partying.....?

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Flipper1234 · 26/05/2022 06:00

Probably clapping for someone?!

Basketet · 26/05/2022 06:06

We were in the strictest tier. A close relative had recently passed away, alone at home abroad. My DC1 had had their birthday, with just me and DC2. I was burning money through my pockets trying to achieve a long term goal that kept on being postponed by restrictions, whilst working as an essential worker and getting pay docked off due to childcare restrictions. 🤬

This current government have no fucking clue whay they're doing. Completely out of their depth.

Lillianna76 · 26/05/2022 06:34

Watching my mum slowly deteriorate as her cancer treatment had been stopped 🤬🤬🤬

Dashdotdotdash · 26/05/2022 06:41

SleeplessInEngland · 25/05/2022 18:46

Prime Minister, Boris Johnson should...

Resign: 59%
Remain: 30%

via @YouGov, 25 May

I feel sorry for Conservative candidates out on the campaign trail currently. How do you defend the indefensible? Whereas normally you expect the leadership to go and support by-election candidates, they must be praying their leaders will stay away.

Their best chance is to tell voters that, if elected, the first thing they will do is sign the no confidence motion.

NannaKaren · 26/05/2022 07:09

we as a family cancelled so many milestone Birthday gatherings,, to follow rules.
I was not partying with a crowd of people - I will never vote Tory again - lying bastards

DartmoorDoughnut · 26/05/2022 07:48

I was having my soul dog PTS whilst being unable to hold him because of covid rules. Hadn’t actually put the two together before now but yeah … Boris you’re a fucking twat

MarchingOnTogether · 26/05/2022 09:54

I have no fb memories that day and one photo on my phone of the cat sleeping on the sofa!! So.im guessing not a lot. I know it was the middle.of the 4 week mini lockdown so my partner was back on furlough and I had limited work as some of the parents who's children I look after we also back on furlough....
We did take a walk in the forest that weekend, I remember that day as I was craving fresh air and a change of scenery but I was stressing that travelling 10 miles to get there could have been classed as "not local" !

countrygirl99 · 26/05/2022 09:55

If it was "just sandwiches" how did wine get splashed up the wall?

LizzieW1969 · 26/05/2022 10:23

I was still really suffering with long Covid then, so every day felt like ‘Groundhog Day’ then. So probably nothing noteworthy happened on that day for me! (I’ve still not fully recovered but I’m a lot better now, thankfully.)

blondiepigtails · 26/05/2022 11:43

Still grieving from my mum's funeral that was two weeks earlier. She didn't die of covid. We were allowed 30 to the Crem (no singing, all masked, short service, no lingering outside) and 15 back to the house. How do you choose your mother's best friends (she had dozens of long standing friends) to be invited to what should have been the full church funeral, hymn singing etc etc.

changed4this1 · 26/05/2022 20:27

Aaaabbbcccc · 24/05/2022 00:22

Honestly, I can’t get exercised about what was happening at no 10. They were working under extreme conditions, having direct contact with each other every day. I think it is ridiculous to care about this and I am not even a Conservative voter. I am just grateful for what they did with getting vaccines. I think it is ridiculous that Labour cannot let this go and means I won’t vote for them.

Is not really about the party/many parties. If when asked about it originally, he had said that they were all working under extreme stress and they were keeping the country going etc etc and apologised we would have been angry and then it would probably all gone away(ish).

The real problem is that his first reaction was to lie, then lie and then lie again about it. Basically he is a self serving liar.

Queenbee77 · 26/05/2022 22:18

@teaandtoastwithmarmite@ I am sorry for everyone who lost a loved one as the elderly got put in homes to die alone! While Boris and friends clearly knew something the rest of us didn't?!
Its time for him to go! He is a joke. Why is he still there? Is it because he is a really convenient ' puppet' ?

Queenbee77 · 26/05/2022 22:24

Sorry yes November 13th 2020....lets see...it was a Friday too. What did I do? Well I wasnt drinking with friends or collegues whilst supposedly RUNNING this country.
In my job and in any job I have had, if you drink while you are at work you are out on your behind! Finished! But of course I have never been Prime Minister....

HelloBarkness · 26/05/2022 22:25

13th November 2020. Packing a hospital bag for a baby who was scheduled to be born in the bereavement suite the next day at 21w pregnant.

After finding out in a scan a few days earlier, alone, that he was incredibly ill and was going to die whatever I did.

This was in the NW, so we were in a complete lockdown, not tiers or anything. Non-essential shops were shut and if stuff was sold out then it couldn't be got in time.

My wonderful friend bought me a super soft baby blanket to wrap him in and then had to leave it outside for me to collect because we couldn't legally meet.

My family never met him because we'd been in and out of hospital all week and i was scared of making them ill, so they couldn't come to the funeral either.

My other friend had to pretend to be a HV when she came to see me a few days after in case someone saw her coming into my house and reported me.

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Mothership4two · 27/05/2022 04:09

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tubbylittletwat · 27/05/2022 04:53

I was at home with long covid recovering from an emergency hospital admission. My family and friends were not able to visit me, due to restrictions.

Iwantmyoldnameback · 27/05/2022 06:43

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Have you read the thread? Are you actually that lacking in compassion?

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NoPaintedPony · 27/05/2022 10:57

There are no words that can ease ur pain. I hope ur getting support. Sending u hugs x

MrsFezziwig · 27/05/2022 17:47

@Hbh17
I have no idea, because it's not important, and I don't know anybody who cares in the slightest what the PM may have been doing.

Seems like you may be mistaken…

What were you doing on November 13th 2020
me109f · 27/05/2022 18:24

This witchhunt over Downing Street lockdown 'partying' is really pissing me off. Sir Keir Starmer is obsessed with derailing the PM so as to win some sort of electoral advantage, and has wasted hours and hours of valuable parliamentary time calling Boris out over it.
We have a huge number of national and international issues to address in Parliament but this blinkered lawyer obsessively keeps going on about this. I used to admire him as an eloquent and smart politicial but now think he is a complete twat. All politicians bend the truth and will lie from time to time.

Tony Blair was littered with falsehoods, lying about his reasons for going to war in Iraq, his involvement with the murder of Dr Kelly, even his big foxhunting ban he later admitted that he never believed it was a real issue. He was let off the consequences of all of this.
We need parliamentarians who deal with real problems, and do it with integrity and efficiency. Forever throwing public money at trivial issues and wasting time is not what we want politicians for .
I think this thread on what MN's were doing last November 13th sucks.

academicallyblonde · 27/05/2022 18:26

It was my 40th birthday. I was more fortunate than many as my parents were my support bubble so were allowed to bring me round a cake. (Plus I’m a teacher. Schools were open so I actually spent my birthday in a room with 25 other people).

Roussette · 27/05/2022 19:01

We have a huge number of national and international issues to address in Parliament

Do you think MPs can't do more than one thing at once. Or posters on MN?
Dismiss it all you like. It isn't going away.

We need parliamentarians who deal with real problems, and do it with integrity and efficiency

No hope with that given BJ has rewritten the Ministerial code and removed the words 'integrity, transparency, honesty and accountability'.
All in time for his investigation by the Priviliges Committee for misleading Parliament..

If the thread 'sucks', put it on ignore.

SpindleSheWrote · 27/05/2022 19:38

All politicians bend the truth and will lie from time to time.

Bollocks.

That's so lame.