Just that really. Have tried every single way of asking. I've shouted and screamed in frustration, I've burst into tears, I've quietly and calmly asked, I've made reasoned arguments as to why it should be an equal division of labour (at different times!) Every time he agrees to do more. And then does even less. If I raise it now he acts like I'm being a nag, or hysterical over something unimportant. Am now at the end of my tether. AIBU to give him an ultimatum?
Am I being unreasonable?
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Gettingthereslowly2020 · 21/05/2022 21:24
10 years?! Ffs grow a bloody backbone! Why do women put up with this shit? I'd have been long gone a decade ago. You deserve an equal partner, not some misogynistic arsehole who thinks you're his personal servant. You know he won't change, an ultimatatum would be pointless.
I'm sorry if that sounds harsh, it angers me to see thread after thread of women allowing themselves to be disrespected.
NrlySp · 21/05/2022 21:26
Have you got a cleaner?
or together you sit down write our all the domestic tasks, frequency and time they take. Then distribute them. Like a rota. To be ticked off if necessary
Then meet at set intervals to assess how it’s going.
would he do that?
or you massively reduce your expectations
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