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Amber Heard - but wait hear me out!! Watch this

449 replies

MrsMingech · 13/05/2022 19:09

So I was on the fence with these two, and I read the threads but didn't follow them and when I searched them I only found and old one.

My search efforts suck, clearly.

Theres many recordings, albeit put together by a clear DP Pom Pom shaker. But it can't be denied (unless it's suggested it's another woman).

Its so bullying, awful
and nasty, I couldn't list to it all.

m.youtube.com/watch?v=e5SaPZpFhcg

if there's a more relevant thread that I suspect I've have missed please link and I will ask for this to be deleted. I swear I did search first.

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Pumperthepumper · 03/06/2022 15:36

Midlifemusings · 03/06/2022 15:34

That poster just wants to argue and antagonize. I am not responding to them anymore. #BelieveAllWomen was a terrible choice of hastags given it includes lies, dishonesty, false allegations, guilty before innocent, guilty based on an allegation, guilty by public opinion, men aren't victims etc

Only if you want it to mean that. It doesn’t actually mention anything about male victims at all. Because the focus is on women.

Pumperthepumper · 03/06/2022 15:37

minutesturntohours · 03/06/2022 15:34

Johnny wanted to keep it out the public eye. He sued for defamation because he had no choice. If future victims can't come forward becuse of Amber's lies, that's on her. the texts should never have been admitted as evidence.

I assume you're OK with Amber lying about rape? Have you thought about the impact that will have on women?

No, he didn’t. He wanted it in the public eye - he said as much. He wanted to ruin her.

I believe she was raped, yes.

minutesturntohours · 03/06/2022 15:37

Pumperthepumper · 03/06/2022 15:35

I know, Mercy is denying they meant that. I agree with you.

You've lost me now.

Pumperthepumper · 03/06/2022 15:38

Mercy is denying that’s what they meant.

minutesturntohours · 03/06/2022 15:38

Pumperthepumper · 03/06/2022 15:37

No, he didn’t. He wanted it in the public eye - he said as much. He wanted to ruin her.

I believe she was raped, yes.

Well, unfortunately, the court doesn't.

Neither do I.

I was neutral at the start but she lost me around the Kate Moss incident and the bottle incident where she claimed she didnt know if it was the broken one. She over egged it.

No, he didn't want it in the public eye. You are literally making things up.

RosieRooster83 · 03/06/2022 15:39

@Pumperthepumper believed she was raped based upon what though? There's zero evidence.

minutesturntohours · 03/06/2022 15:39

Pumperthepumper · 03/06/2022 15:38

Mercy is denying that’s what they meant.

You mean midlife? She isn't. She's denying she meant we shouldn't believe women, because thats not what she said.

It's all very lovely and sweet automatically believing all women, but it's all very naive, and it's very damaging.

Pumperthepumper · 03/06/2022 15:41

RosieRooster83 · 03/06/2022 15:39

@Pumperthepumper believed she was raped based upon what though? There's zero evidence.

Because she said she was. And given he was abusive and drug and alcohol addled throughout their marriage, I think the balance of probability is in her favour.

Pumperthepumper · 03/06/2022 15:41

minutesturntohours · 03/06/2022 15:39

You mean midlife? She isn't. She's denying she meant we shouldn't believe women, because thats not what she said.

It's all very lovely and sweet automatically believing all women, but it's all very naive, and it's very damaging.

Damaging to who?

minutesturntohours · 03/06/2022 15:44

Pumperthepumper · 03/06/2022 15:41

Because she said she was. And given he was abusive and drug and alcohol addled throughout their marriage, I think the balance of probability is in her favour.

So is everything a woman says true, Pumper?

Johnny has said repeatedly that hes only a threat to himself and I believe him.

minutesturntohours · 03/06/2022 15:44

Pumperthepumper · 03/06/2022 15:41

Damaging to who?

Victims, male and female.

minutesturntohours · 03/06/2022 15:44

Elaine in hot water just now - Amber perjured herself in court talking about the attorneys fees and Elaine repeated it in closing statements. Amber caught in another lie. Shocker.

Pumperthepumper · 03/06/2022 15:45

minutesturntohours · 03/06/2022 15:44

Victims, male and female.

How?

RosieRooster83 · 03/06/2022 15:46

@Pumperthepumper That doesn't mean he raped her just because she said he did. That is a massive and very dangerous leap to make. Being a drug addict does not make someone a rapist. Courts work on evidence and considering there is none, it cannot be proved that anything like that happened and not particularly fair or ethical to accuse someone of such a heinous crime based upon the word of someone who has been proven to tell numerous lies.

Pumperthepumper · 03/06/2022 15:47

RosieRooster83 · 03/06/2022 15:46

@Pumperthepumper That doesn't mean he raped her just because she said he did. That is a massive and very dangerous leap to make. Being a drug addict does not make someone a rapist. Courts work on evidence and considering there is none, it cannot be proved that anything like that happened and not particularly fair or ethical to accuse someone of such a heinous crime based upon the word of someone who has been proven to tell numerous lies.

I have no evidence either way, and I’m not on the jury. The poster asked if I believed she was raped, and I do.

minutesturntohours · 03/06/2022 15:47

Because it affects real victims, Pumper. If you believe every woman it gives them the opportunity to lie and manipulate and you might as well do away with a justice system. I'm not sure when or why you decided that women are all good people but it's not the case.

Amber's private investigator is circulating the headlines

"When Amber hired me she wanted proof that Johnny was a serial abuser for women and I couldn't find that.
'I couldn't find another women who said Johnny abused them.
Barresi said he interviewed more than a dozen people whose rent, medical bills, house payments, car payments and even bail and even legal fees were paid by Johnny."

He also calls her an opportuninist who wanted to ruin Johnny's career.

Pumperthepumper · 03/06/2022 15:48

RosieRooster83 · 03/06/2022 15:46

@Pumperthepumper That doesn't mean he raped her just because she said he did. That is a massive and very dangerous leap to make. Being a drug addict does not make someone a rapist. Courts work on evidence and considering there is none, it cannot be proved that anything like that happened and not particularly fair or ethical to accuse someone of such a heinous crime based upon the word of someone who has been proven to tell numerous lies.

Incidentally, what evidence would you have accepted to change your mind and believe her?

minutesturntohours · 03/06/2022 15:48

Pumperthepumper · 03/06/2022 15:47

I have no evidence either way, and I’m not on the jury. The poster asked if I believed she was raped, and I do.

Based on the fact she's a woman. If you were a witness in court, your evidence would be thrown out.

Pumperthepumper · 03/06/2022 15:48

minutesturntohours · 03/06/2022 15:47

Because it affects real victims, Pumper. If you believe every woman it gives them the opportunity to lie and manipulate and you might as well do away with a justice system. I'm not sure when or why you decided that women are all good people but it's not the case.

Amber's private investigator is circulating the headlines

"When Amber hired me she wanted proof that Johnny was a serial abuser for women and I couldn't find that.
'I couldn't find another women who said Johnny abused them.
Barresi said he interviewed more than a dozen people whose rent, medical bills, house payments, car payments and even bail and even legal fees were paid by Johnny."

He also calls her an opportuninist who wanted to ruin Johnny's career.

How does believing women mean that women aren’t believed? Or that men aren’t?

minutesturntohours · 03/06/2022 15:50

Pumperthepumper · 03/06/2022 15:48

How does believing women mean that women aren’t believed? Or that men aren’t?

Because, outside of your world, if you automatically believe a woman, then you don't believe a man.

And if people like you believe Amber just because shes a woman even though she discredits victims, it dilutes the water for genuine women.

Is there a reason you automatically believe all women?

Pumperthepumper · 03/06/2022 16:01

minutesturntohours · 03/06/2022 15:50

Because, outside of your world, if you automatically believe a woman, then you don't believe a man.

And if people like you believe Amber just because shes a woman even though she discredits victims, it dilutes the water for genuine women.

Is there a reason you automatically believe all women?

But surely then the opposite is also true. If you decide you’re not believing anyone when they say they’ve been raped, how does anyone get justice?

minutesturntohours · 03/06/2022 16:03

Pumperthepumper · 03/06/2022 16:01

But surely then the opposite is also true. If you decide you’re not believing anyone when they say they’ve been raped, how does anyone get justice?

On the balance of evidence.

I believe them based on that, not on their sex.

And on the balance of evidence, Amber is lying out of her backside.

Pumperthepumper · 03/06/2022 16:07

What evidence though? What evidence would it take for you to believe her?

minutesturntohours · 03/06/2022 16:08

Are you honestly telling me you believe every single woman about every accusation (therefore immediately assuming every man is lying?)

Pumperthepumper · 03/06/2022 16:10

minutesturntohours · 03/06/2022 16:08

Are you honestly telling me you believe every single woman about every accusation (therefore immediately assuming every man is lying?)

Before we go on to that, what evidence would you accept before you believed her?

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