To think my “DH” is an arsehole

[MrsSugar]

Our baby is almost 6 months and loaded with the cold. He was still up at 2:30am whilst we slept: baby woke so asked him to bring a bottle: I then was struggling to find my glasses on bedside table(Obvz because I literally can’t see and they were not where I usually get it them) anyway I’m changing baby and asked him to look to which he slams on the big light. Throws bedside crib aside, sweeps everything off bedside table throws them at me saying I’m sick of u: I burst into tears with the fright I got only to told to fuck off and die: this is how he behaves when he is tired. AIBU to think u can’t behave like this because your tired ? AIBU to ask for a hand in the night occasionally ?

You don't have to "think he is an arsehole" but you do need to "know' that he is not only an arsehole but an abusive, angry man too.

Take it from me, they don't change, he's shown you who he is and will continue to do so.

That is very unacceptable, if his excuse for that behaviour when reacting to be being tired… never leave him alone with your baby. I hope you and baby are ok, please take care x

He sounds incredibly selfish: it's his child too, after all!

And for a grown man to have a tantrum like that is just vile!