A few weeks ago I bought my step son a personalised jacket to wear for his 8th birthday party that he's having at his mother's who he lives.
I found out yesterday that she didn't put it on him because apparently it wasn't spelt correctly so he wore something else.
AIBU to call her disrespectful by not putting it on him to wear? She didn't even let us know he wouldn't be wearing it or say thank you for us buying it for him or anything. She said she didn't ask us to buy it and because my step son already said thank you she doesn't think she needs to.
What annoyed me most is she didn't even give it back to us until I had to ASK for it back.
My OH thinks I'm overreacting but I can't help but feel so offended.
AIBU?
Who is in the wrong here????
WorriedWelshy · 27/04/2022 09:46
Am I being unreasonable?
1686 votes. Final results.
POLLMarjoriesdoor · 27/04/2022 10:50
I also agree that if it was for him to wear, why didn't the text say "I am 8" rather than "you're/your 8?"
I am irrationally irritated by the whole thing.
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WorriedWelshy · 27/04/2022 11:02
I'm actually shocked at how nasty some of these replies are.
I'm not trying to "dictate" what my SS wears and he was actually the one who asked for something personalised for his birthday. I just thought it was disrespectful, why not just let us know that it's not spelled right? Or a thanks but he won't be wearing it.
I'd rather have it back than it sit and not get worn at hers.
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