A few weeks ago I bought my step son a personalised jacket to wear for his 8th birthday party that he's having at his mother's who he lives.
I found out yesterday that she didn't put it on him because apparently it wasn't spelt correctly so he wore something else.
AIBU to call her disrespectful by not putting it on him to wear? She didn't even let us know he wouldn't be wearing it or say thank you for us buying it for him or anything. She said she didn't ask us to buy it and because my step son already said thank you she doesn't think she needs to.
What annoyed me most is she didn't even give it back to us until I had to ASK for it back.
My OH thinks I'm overreacting but I can't help but feel so offended.
AIBU?
Who is in the wrong here????
WorriedWelshy · 27/04/2022 09:46
Am I being unreasonable?
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POLLNelliephant1 · 27/04/2022 10:03
I'm with his mum I'm afraid.
I'd be rather miffed that his father and step mum didn't notice that his name was spelt wrongly.
She's right imho that he said thank you for it therefor why should she, he's old enough to say for himself.
It's not something that's going to be to everyone's taste.
My children were very unfashion conscious but there's no way they'd have worn something like that but they would have been polite enough not to say so to whoever gave them it.
I worked with sex offenders and their advice was to never ever put a child's name on anything that can be seen, bags, t shirts, baby on board signs, hair bands, jackets. It immediately gives the offender information that they can then use to entice the child and fake familiarity i.e. their name.
Sirzy · 27/04/2022 09:59
I can’t picture many 8 year olds wearing that even if spelt correctly to be honest!
AChocolateOrangeaday · 27/04/2022 10:11
Well you plainly don't like the ex one little bit but it is shit of you to use the kid to have a go at her.
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foxlover47 · 27/04/2022 10:02
Reminds me of the bracelet Del Boy have Rodney , that spelt Rooney 🤣
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